Female Ejaculation
         A Look Into Why Woman Do Not Realize They Can

Did you know that ALL women are capable of it? It's True! You may have heard of female ejaculation, or you may not even know what it is, as many people do not. Female ejaculation is not only very real, it is something that ALL women can achieve, and is a very basic female sexual response that has remained a mystery until recently.

Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O. HolisticWisdom.com Founder

All women can learn to ejaculate as much as two cups of fluid and spray it across the length of a room! Oh sure, there are a lot of myths out there regarding this exquisite female sexual response, but let's take some time to really examine it.

Some claim the whole premise of female ejaculation is untrue, others claim only "special" women are capable and still others try and tell you ridiculous techniques based on myths such as suggesting that women should tighten their Kegel (vaginal wall) muscles to make it happen.

These types of statements are simply untrue. While women have differences in their genitalia (just as men do) all women are capable of squirting these lovely orgasmic juices with the right techniques. It is no different than all men being capable of ejaculating no matter the size or shape of their penis. The only reason that most people do not know about or understand how to achieve female ejaculation is from the sheer lack of understanding women’s sexuality.

When I first heard about female ejaculation I was in my late twenties. Being a sexually knowledgeable and adventurous woman as well as a psychotherapist specializing in sexual issues, I was shocked that I had never heard about it, let alone done it.

I discovered female ejaculation for myself after having a very open and enlightening discussion with a girlfriend, whom told me that she did the "wildest thing" when she had an orgasm (and sometimes just when she was sexually aroused). I of course was very intrigued about this, and ended up asking her a lot of questions about how it happened for her. I then went to the Internet to find out more, and was met with a great deal of inaccurate, conflicting information about female ejaculation. What was a chick to do? I wanted to know more about it, and most importantly at the time, I wanted to know if I could do it too. I began a mission of researching through medical journals, interviews with physicians, sex therapists and my clients who came to me for psychotherapy.

After all my research, and developing a few theories of my own, I decided that I simply had to try to see if I could do it. I am happy to say that I did it during my first attempt through masturbating. It was so simple! There were a few things that I learned and did in preparation that made it possible and there are a lot of things I learned along the way which turned into a 150 page book and 90 minute video! For the sake of keeping this article and not a book, let me give you a quick overview of how female ejaculation occurs so that you get a general idea of how all of this works.

What Is In The Female Ejaculation Fluid?

Let me get the biggest myth out of the way- IT IS NOT URINE. Upon testing the liquid, scientists have found that it contains levels of glucose (sugar), and an enzyme (prostate acid phosphatase), which is characteristic of a major component in semen. It is similar to the prostate fluid within male ejaculation but without the sperm. There are also two other substances contained in the fluid, commonly found in urine (urea and creatinine), which are found in trace amounts. It is a unique substance, and unlike the heavier and thicker fluid that you would typically see when a woman is "wet" or has had an orgasm.

The fluid released during female ejaculation and urination are not the same however, they may share some of the same composition. Women who ejaculate have reported that the color, smell, consistency, and even taste can slightly vary from one time to the next. Diet, menstrual cycle and other such factors will influence the fluid.

However, one should note that unlike men, women can ejaculate and urinate at the same time so women should try urinating before sex play if they want to avoid getting the fluids confused.

A G-spot orgasm is NOT the sole contributor to female ejaculation!

The Facts About Female Ejaculation And Why Most Women Know About It

The Myths & Truth About Female Ejaculation-

You may be wondering "If all women are capable of female ejaculation, then why is it that many women have never done it?" This is a very good question, and is easily explained. Let’s begin with reviewing some basic information about the female anatomy to better understand how this works.

Where Does Female Ejaculation Come From?

Female ejaculation is a fluid that is pushed out of the urethra (pee tube/hole- just like urine) however, unlike urine it comes from the Paraurethral glands (located under and making up the G-Spot and often termed as the female prostate) and bladder during sexual arousal.

There has been debate about whether women have a prostate or not even though in 1672 Reinier De Graaf described it as a collection of functional glands and ducts surrounding the female urethra. He said the glands and ducts produced transparent juice to lubricate the vaginal area.

Western medicine has been a bit more stubborn in it's acknowledgment, but finally came around in 2001 when the Federative Committee on Anatomical Terminology agreed to use the term “female prostate” in their Histology Terminology.

The female prostate had been referred to as either the paraurethral or Skene’s glands. Most physicians have stayed in the dark about women's sexuality and particularly about the female prostate. They felt the female prostate was not a necessary role in reproduction and it was thus, unimportant. As a woman, I can assure you it is important and women's sexuality deserves to be valued, studied and taught.

When the female prostate has become enlarged or caused discomfort it was called female urethral diverticulum or female prostatitis. Many urinary tract infections (UTIs) have been incorrectly diagnosed and treated due to this disregard for the female prostate.

The Female Prostate

Urethral ejaculate comes from the G-spot (Female Prostate) which is the equivalent of the prostate in males. During early fetal development both male and female fetuses start out being female. During the eighth week of gestation the male fetus begins to produce hormones that begin the process of forming the genitals and affects brain functioning. This means the tissue that develops into the male prostate gland, the urogenital sinus, is also present in women and it where the G-spot is located.

De Graaf described the "female prostate" in Western medical literature. He described it as a collection of functional glands and ducts surrounding the female urethra and said the glands and ducts produced a "pituitoserous juice;" meaning it produces a thick mucous that is pale yellow or transparent in color. He described the function of this fluid as making "women more libidinous with its pungency and saltiness and lubricates their sexual parts in agreeable fashion during coitus."

The Female Prostate Glands vs. The Bladder

The paraurethral glands are about half an inch in diameter and 1.5 inches in length, so fitting two cups of ejaculate in that area seems improbable. We believe it to be a combination of fluid that comes from the kidneys, passes through the bladder and mixes with the fluid from the female prostate. However, as I will discuss further, there are a lot of factors still being debated on this topic.

You can see a female's bladder get filled during sexual intercourse in these Magnetic resonance images-

Midsagittal images of sexual response in a multiparous woman (left) at rest; (center) pre-orgasmic phase; (right) 20 minutes after orgasm without expelling the fluid.

It is possible for a woman to ejaculate fluid without it being urine or liquid from the bladder directly from the female prostate. However, based on this research, we feel strongly that much of the liquid originates in the bladder or kidneys. What is known, is that it is not urine.

The tissue surrounding the urethra is labeled as the "urethral sponge;" the paraurethal glands are imbedded in this tissue. This, the bladder and kidneys (pending further research) is where all the juicy female ejaculation liquid is created when a woman is sexually aroused. Stimulation of the female prostate (Paraurethral) glands is done by simply stimulating the g-spot, and there are oh so many pleasureful ways to do that.

The urethra fills with blood during sexual arousal, as is the case in a male. This results in the tissue becoming firm to the touch; kinda like a female hard-on, but on the inside.

There have been clinical tests where a woman's bladder is drained of urine before sexual stimulation and ejaculation. Even though the women's bladders had been drained, they were found to expel anywhere from 50 ml to 900 ml of fluid into a catheter bag. This has lead researchers to conclude that at least some of the liquid must come from the bladder.

This can all seem a bit confusing until you think of it this way… men have urine and cum exit out their urethra and that is similar to female ejaculation for a woman.

More Research Is Needed

Some researchers, like Dr. Gary Schubach have stated in his research that the majority of the female ejaculation originates in the bladder, but the expelled fluid is not quite normal urine. In his research a woman's bladder was emptied using a catheter prior to orgasm. During orgasm a catheter was in place and connected to a collection bag. Analysis of the fluid expelled during orgasm is the basis for his claim.

An oversight to this approach is that the bladder sphincter is normally closed. If it were not, liquid in the bladder would simply come out at any time. By creating an artificial passage and collecting the fluid expelled from the bladder during pelvic muscles contractions is just part of the picture and does not explore if during orgasm this passage normally exists, even if only for a moment.

Some speculate that female ejaculate originates from the kidneys in large volumes which could hold some validity in that magnetic resonance imaging has captured increased fluid in the kidneys when a woman is aroused. Combining this fluid with the fluid that is expelled from the female prostate glands would compliment the lab tests on the fluid.

Therefore, this is an excellent theory and one that should be delved into more through testing such as ultra sound monitoring.

The bladder theory is just one theory and is assumed to be true because doctors are confused about how the fluid can come from the skenes glands (the g-spot) as it could not hold as much as 2 cups of fluid. Thus, they reason that it must come from the bladder.

However, the theory that I lean toward is that it does indeed come from the kidneys and Skenes glands. It is still a controversy and because there have not been any recent studies that I have seen that give absolute proof... it is difficult to say which of the theories is correct with 100% accuracy.

How Much Ejaculate Comes Out?

Most women can gush as much as 1.5 - 2 cups of the fluid when ejaculating. However this can be affected by how hydrated a woman is, how much she pushes while ejaculating, and other factors.

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The female prostate comes in many different shapes and sizes but the majority of women have a prostate that is positioned near the external urethra and can expel similar amounts of fluid.

Why Don't Most Women Know About It Or Do It?

Female ejaculation is not difficult; as I said earlier, its techniques are just not known about by many. Because women typically don't know about the elusive reasons they are not doing it, they are usually sabotaging their chances for gushing female ejaculate when they are having an orgasm.

One of the main reasons that women do not know they can do it is because women will often feel like they need to urinate when they are ready to expel the ejaculate and because they think that urine will come out, which it will not, they hold back. You see the G-Spot (Skenes Glands) and bladder fill up with the female ejaculate fluid and this puts pressure on the urethra (pee tube) thus, making it feel like she has to urinate when in actuality she could ejaculate if she simply pushed instead of holding back.

There are sure-fire methods, techniques and ways to achieve it as well as overcome inhibitors, yet the issue of holding back for fear of urinating is a big factor for many women. The ejaculation techniques that I have begun training thousands of women and their partners have been quite effective and not only allow for amazing ejaculations but will also intensify any type (women are capable of eight) of orgasm to mind blowing levels.

Are There Health Problems For Women Who Do It?

No, in fact that is one of the reasons I am so passionate about teaching women and their partners about female ejaculation because unlike what many think, there is nothing abnormal or unhealthy about it.

It is actually good for you much like the benefits of prostate massage for men. Because it cleanses the urethra it can also PREVENT UTI's (Urinary Tract Infections).

Did you know that thousands of women each year are told that a normal female sexual response such as female ejaculation is a medical problem (incontinence, which it is not) or something that they should be ashamed of as they are thought to be maliciously urinating on their partner(s)?

It's simply ridiculous! So many OBGYNs who should know better, are erroneously telling patients that female ejaculation is not possible... yet did you ever ask them what education they were provided on women's sexual responses... go ahead ask... most are not provided with an education on women's sexual functioning regarding female ejaculation or other such topics while earning their doctorate.

Personally, I think it is a disgrace that our Universities and Colleges are neglecting women's sexual health. I challenge them to rethink their curriculum and start educating their physicians on this important issue! That is why many OBGYNs have been ordering my video and book to educate themselves and their patients!

Michael Williams, MD, OBGYN from Evansville, IN told me that he was thankful that I was offering accurate information on female ejaculation. I think that most doctors shy away from this topic in particular (even when they know how it works) because they fear being associated with porn, being that is one of the only places you will hear about it. Dr. Williams and I agreed on all clinical points and it was frustrating to think that even professionals in the porn industry could make videos on it but had no clue as to how it happens!

Take Seymore Butts for example. Here is a man who has great success in making porn videos and made two on female ejaculation... Squirters I & II. I watched them both as part of my research for my book and I was so disappointed in the clinical aspects that I decided to make a video too! His video was completely inaccurate as to why women ejaculate, despite some of the sexy ejaculation scenes. He simply hired a woman (Alisha Klass) who already was able to female ejaculate to show it, but neither had a clue how she was doing it.

Because women can gush as much as two cups of ejaculate, many people think that it must be urine. Often women who do not know what is happening (and there are many) are embarrassed, confused and find it to be of great concern. It does not help that most health practitioners are not informed about it as many women are being told they require surgery and/or psychotherapy for this normal female sexual response!

If there is one thing that I can stress, it is that female ejaculation is not only visually erotic, but it feels incredible to do it. The kind of sexual release that a woman feels from this powerful gush coming from her sweet pussy is like no other.

Skeptics-

Often times, when people find our site, they are convinced that female ejaculation is pee (urine) and that our video clips are just women peeing. This is NOT the case. Female ejaculation is very real, scientific studies that are mentioned in my book The Art of Female Ejaculation and our female ejaculation movie document that it is not pee, but rather similar to prostate fluid which comes from the Kidneys and Skenes glands.

My comment to those skeptics out there is the following-

Considering we all thought the earth was flat and other such nonsense not that long ago, I find it quite humorous that people suspect female ejaculation to be as erroneous as a woman peeing. Considering the lack of previous study of women's sexuality until recent years, I find it rather presumptuous of people to think that if it were true we would all have been educated about it long ago.

You may recall that once upon a time, we were hanging women for being a witch just because she expressed an interest in sexuality, so while the feminist movement did help women's sexual issues become more acceptable and we have come a long way... we have a lot further to go.

My female ejaculation movie and book break through many of the female ejaculation myths and finally provide the truth about this wonderful sexual experience!

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