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Strip Tease
Creative, Visual, Sexual Arousal at Home

If you have ever been dancing at a club you know that there is a high level of sexual excitement knowing that others are watching you dance. This heightened sense of sexual awareness often gives couples an arousing visual stimulation that adds to their attraction for one another. Yet, couples often forget to bring this into their bedrooms.

More and more couples are finding that it is easy and fun to do an erotic strip tease for their partner in the privacy of their own home. Take a moment to learn how to visually excite your lover and bring in a sense of your own sexual prowess.

Lisa Lawless
By Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D.
Psychotherapist & Sexuality Expert

CEO & Founder of
Holistic Wisdom, Inc. & NAASAS

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Why Dance?

Dancing can be a liberating experience and very erotic when it taps into your sexuality. Imagine your partner coming home from a long day and finding the smile on their face when they see that you are going to entertain them with a sensual strip tease. This will increase the level of creativity and sexual fun to a very high level quickly.

If you are entertaining the idea of doing this professionally, check out our article on How to Become a Stripper.

How to Do a Strip Tease at Home

Here are some tips on how to prepare to make your strip tease fun and enjoyable for both of you-

  • Plan what outfit you wish to wear and go through a practice run on how you will remove each part of the costume. Sometimes adding a few extra layers such as a robe or boa helps to elongate the teasing aspect for the dance. Have fun with your costume. You can use things like body glitter, special make up, temporary body jewelry and tatoos for an added surprise. You can also add some special eyelashes for a dramatic effect. (See where to purchase these below).

  • Choose what music you are going to play and have it ready to go when your lover is ready for your show. Decide how many songs you are going to do and what mood you want to create. You can start out slowly or fast and end with whatever mood you desire. You can also have other songs that will keep the mood going as you begin having more sexual playtime with one another.

  • Decide if you want to have lit candles, dim the lights or even use a black light to make things visually seductive.

  • Take time to visualize your dance and then practice it in a mirror. The more you are comfortable with the idea of doing this the easier it will be during the time of your live performance.

  • When dancing, it is quite erotic for your lover to watch you touch yourself by caressing yourself throughout the dance.

  • You can also whip your hair around if it is long and even if it isn't you can still glide it along their skin.

  • Make sensual eye contact. Nothing exudes sexual domination like a moment of making strong eye contact.

  • You may want to video tape it if you want a little keepsake for your lover. Just remember that videos and pictures can last a lifetime on if they are ever posted on the Internet.

  • Try to stretch before you dance as sometimes quick movements can cause a muscle spasm.

  • If you are using a stripper pole, make sure it is secure and can handle your weight and velocity as you spin around it. We provide a link to a site below that provides stripper poles that are durable and secure.

  • You can whisper in their ear before you begin to have a seat and not to speak as you have a special surprise for them.

  • Don't forget to touch them. You can run your hands through their hair, caress them and even give them a lap dance.

  • Move in levels of height from standing up to bending over and kneeling. Mixing up your positions makes the dance more visually stunning.

  • Use a chair, slide onto it backwards. Slide your hands up and down it to simulate sexual caressing and grind up against it.

  • Consider using pasties, body jewelry or temporary body tatoos on your breasts so that as you remove your top and bra there is something to surprise your lover. You can do the same for your pubic area and even shave your pubic hair in a special shape. See our pubic hair shaving kit.

  • Use the wall or a stripper's pole to slide up and down. Don't be afraid to lift you legs during your dance or at someone move onto the bed and do a seductive crawl.

  • If you want to first blindfold them to lead them to the strip tease location, make sure you have one ready to go.

  • You can also use restraints to tie them up rendering them helpless and completely submissive to your sexually dominant role. Integrating a whip, feather tickler and other props can also be a great way to add to the visual and tactile stimulation of the show.

  • In addition to traditional lingerie you can use an adult costume that has a theme such as a naughty nurse, school girl or secretary. The options are really only limited to your imagination. (See where to purchase these below).

  • Use your hands, a feather teaser, whip or your clothing to touch your lover and move things around them for added fun.

  • Remember not to rush a strip tease. It is meant to delay gratification and provide a fun period of play before sexual activity and smile from time to time to let your lover know you too are having fun.


Strip Tease Products

While we do not carry strip tease products on our site, we do recommend a great site where you can get them and that is our sister site Please note that Fruits of Eden is run by a separate company and is not operated by Holistic Wisdom. Therefore, if you wish to purchase from Holistic Wisdom please do so before leaving or bookmark it so you can easily return. Thanks!

Here are some examples of things they carry that we do not that you may find of interest-

Stripper Poles
Adult Costumes
Sexy Clothing
Stripper Shoes
Sexy Wigs
Stripper Accessories


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