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Men's Fear of Sex Toys
Will She Like Them Better Than Me?

If you have been contemplating getting a dildo for your female lover, but you are hesitant that she will like it more than you... then you can rest assured that you are among many men who worry about the same thing. However, these fears, while based on natural insecurities, are unnecessary and that is because the simple truth is that a sex toy can never replace our innate need for human contact.

While some dildos allow women to experience a bit larger girth or length and vibrators allow for high speeds and intensity, they are never able to replace the sheer excitement of having an aroused partner touching our skin or inside of us. Think about it, when a woman masturbates she isn't thinking about the vibrator or dildo.

Lisa Lawless
By Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D.
Psychotherapist & Sexuality Expert

CEO & Founder of
Holistic Wisdom, Inc. & NAASAS

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Shoe On The Other Foot

We sell male masturbation sleeves called Fleshlights and I can tell you that even though they are very real feeling to the touch, the warmth, scent, and experience of being of a warm, wet vagina will never replace the real thing. There is something that only another human being can provide when it comes to sexual excitement from visual stimulation, pheromones, scent, taste, and skin to skin sensation... a toy will never fully be able to match the excitement of a real life lover.

Penis Size Issues

We have many articles about the reality of penis size, and to sum it all up, it is not as big of a deal as most men make it. We pass babies through our vaginas so what in the world would make anyone think that our pleasure was contingent on size? While sometimes women enjoy the extra girth or angle that some dildos provide; the bottom line is that straight women desire your arousal for us in return and your body.

Sex toys only enhance variety and pleasure if you and your lover already have a good sexual connection. Even if you separate out physical sensation with emotional and mental sexual turn-ons, the physical sensation of another person and you getting off with each other is hotter than anything else.

Women love to feel desired just as men do. Seeing and feeling your erection lets us know we are desired; feeling your hot skin and roaming hands while hearing your moans of pleasure far exceeds what any sex toy could ever do to excite us.

Letting Go Of Fear

The best thing you can do in life is face your fears. You can have a good sex life without the use of sex toys, but you can also enhance it by using them. Your lover is most likely going to appreciate your efforts to bring them pleasure whether it is through your body or a sex toy. Simply being a giving in bed with a willingness to be vulnerable, creative and caring is what truly makes a great lover.

 


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