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Wife Has Low Sex Drive

Hello Lisa-

Asking about Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder

I have come to a crossroad in my life, and I thought that you might be able to help me with a decision I have to make. I've been married for six years, and I have no actual sexual relationship with my wife.

After a quick search for information on your web site, I think you would describe my wife as suffering from either Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder (no sex drive) or Sexual Aversion Disorder (pain or discomfort during sex). In either case, I suppose it is I who am suffering. My wife would be more than happy to never be the least bit sexual for the rest of her life.

She was this way, although to a lesser degree, even before we met. Sadly, I thought that she was suffering from a guilt complex associated with her rather strict and conservative upbringing. I had hoped that she would become more comfortable with sex once she was married. I took the gamble and I lost.

My wife and I have read more books and sought therapy with more counselors, doctors, and psychiatrists than I can remember. In the end, nothing has worked, and I have seen my wife's comfort with sex worsen over the years. I have not had an easy time of having celibacy forced upon me, and I am quite certain that I cannot continue leading a life devoid of a sexual relationship.

Thus, my question to you is this: Can Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder be cured, or should I simply call it quits on my marriage? I have always been committed to my marriage, and if at all possible I would prefer to find some way of making my marriage work. Any help or insight that you might be able to provide would be greatly appreciated.

Kindest regards.

Thank you for your inquiry. I truly empathize with your dilemma. I can imagine it must be a very hard situation for you to be in. Below is information about the definition of Hypo Sexual Desire Disorder as well as recommended treatment options and my overall thoughts-

Traditional Approach

Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder is a lack of sexual desire that causes a woman personal distress either to them or from conflict that it causes in their relationship with a significant other. This includes a persistent or recurring deficiency or absence of sexual fantasies or thoughts, or a lack of interest in sex or being sexual. Often women suffering with this complaint will report they feel "flat" sexually or sexually "dead".

It is important to note that a low sex drive should not be confused with an inability to reach orgasm. Many women with a low sex drive are capable of successful sexual arousal and may also achieve orgasm.

Potential Causes

Medications (eg.: birth control- Progestin, Depo-Provera �) as well as
non-birth control medications (eg.: antidepressants, hormones, and more).

Emotional factors: e.g. depression, anxiety, stress.

Relationship factors: e.g. conflicts, anger, lack of trust.

Menopause: natural or surgical.

Sexual arousal disorder: e.g. sex is frustrating and/or painful.

Pregnancy

Obesity or Anorexia

Illicit Drugs and alcohol

Sexual abuse

More Potential Causes For Low Sex Drive In Women

Emotional & Mental Factors

First, consider whether there are indeed emotional or relationship variables contributing to the problem. It helps to be evaluated by a trained sex therapist who can help her sort this out. I am not sure if you have included sex therapists in your search for assistance... but obviously, a sex therapist would be a bonus. Unfortunately most sexually repressed individuals will not even consider going to one.

For treatment resources see our general treatment and therapy resources for traditional and alternative modalities.

She will also need to rule out medical causes as well. The first step is to rule out hormonal factors, especially low testosterone. This can be accomplished with simple blood tests.

From what we presently understand about the role of testosterone in women, Free Testosterone should be a minimum of 1.9 and Total Testosterone should be a minimum of 20. If her testosterone is low, she can talk to her doctor about potentially replacing her testosterone. If she feels like her sexual response is low and that is feeding into her lack of interest due to pain, dryness, or lack of response or arousal, or physical release, she should consider seeking evaluation and treatment of sexual arousal disorder.

Alternative Approaches

After medical causes have been ruled out, I can tell you that with alternative therapies such as EMDR therapy have provided positive results. A web site to find out more about that is as follows-

Emdr.com

Also, if she is very analytical, introspective, etc. then she may need a more intensive, visceral way to release some of her feelings that are resurfacing and trying to get her attention to deal with them. Sometimes "talk therapy" is just not the way to go for those types. A therapy for that is Holotropic Breathwork. The national site for that is-

Breathwork.com

She may also consider some massage therapy to allow her to get more acquainted with her body in a way that is healthy. Many sexual issues are dealt with effectively from therapeutic massage for a few reasons... one it brings them back in touch with their body and often sparks an emotional release during the session (Thus she should let the massage therapist know in advance about what issues she is currently trying to work through so that they can be prepared for her to have an emotional release).

Acupuncture is also a wonderful tool.

My Overall Thoughts

As for you my dear man, I am so sorry you have been struggling to find sexual pleasure, which you most certainly deserve. There is always hope even in the bleakest of situations, but the answer for you may lie not in the hope of your wife changing, but within you by changing your life with the answers that only you can find within your heart.

Make sure that you seek out those things in your life that will provide you with joy and love, as our lives are short and ultimately we get what we settle for in situations. Whatever choices you make for yourself in your future, I wish you well and hope that you and your wife will find happiness together or separate of one another in this life time.

There is a definite link between sleep and quality of life including intimacy and sex. People who sleep well are generally healthier and happier and when sleep is poor or inadequate, people feel tired or fatigued, their social and intimate relationships suffer and work productivity is negatively affected. Getting consistent healthy amount of sleep is essential for health, happiness and a satisfying sex life.

According to the National Sleep Foundation, nearly 70 million of us have difficulty sleeping, and women are twice as likely as men to suffer from a sleep-related problem. A survey found one-third of poor sleepers said not enough sleep affected their sex life while only 8% of good sleepers made the same claim.

We are sleep deprived as a nation. Sleeping pills, sleeping aids and sleeping mattresses are selling like never before in history. Everyone is programmed to try to fit too much into 24-hour day causing unnatural levels of stress and even depression which are two of the main causes of poor sleep patterns. When we run sleep deprived, we are not the same people. We'd be much better off if we had a full night's sleep.

Sufficient, unimpaired sleep makes you feel good, but it also has some significant benefits for your health including your desire for sex and intimacy. Sleep regenerates the body and mind. It affects energy levels, your immune system, metabolism many other essentials of well-being. For women especially, it's closely tied to our desire for sex. Being well rested aids in good genital blood flow and directly benefits arousal. It has been shown that during REM sleep woman even experience clitoral erections!

Here are some tips for improving your sleep and in turn enjoying better sex-

No television in the bedroom when trying to sleep! The television is one of the most common sleep disturbances in American bedrooms.

Eliminate time from your bedroom. Noticing the clock may make you feel anxious and unable to fall completely sleep. If you need an alarm to wake up, cover it up or put it on the floor out of your sight.

Remove all clutter and distractions such as computers, paperwork, exercise equipment and anything else that might remind you of what you could or should be doing instead of resting.

Sex can help you sleep because of the natural endorphins released during sex can help you to feel better about yourself and therefore making it easier to relax into sleeping without anxiety or worries keeping you awake. Giving each other massage with a warm massage oil may also help you to relax and connect physically and emotionally in a way that promotes better sleeping habits.

Some individuals (especially women) feel revved up instead of relaxed after sex. If you notice that this is the case for you and you are finding it more difficult to fall asleep after sex, you may want to consider changing the time for sex to mornings or early evenings. Sex in the morning is a great way to start the day and may give you an extra boost of energy. Having sex in the early evening will give you time to relax before going to bed to sleep.

Natural sleep aids that enhance your ability to fall asleep and stay asleep-

Valerian (Valeriana officinalis)- Regular use of valerian root promotes deep relaxation and sleep. Studies suggest that valerian is by far the best natural solution for insomnia and general sleeplessness for most individuals. It is shown that the effects of valerian on the body are similar to that of benzodiazepine, an active ingredient in Valium�, but without dulling effects or next-day lethargy.

Melatonin (5-methoxy-N-acetyltryptamine)- Melatonin is a hormone that occurs naturally in the body. At night melatonin is secreted by a tiny, pea-sized organ at the center of our brains called the pineal gland and regulates our sleep-wake cycles. Melatonin regulates the body's circadian rhythm, our internal 24-hour timekeeping system which plays an important role in controlling when we fall asleep and when we wake up. Melatonin should only be taken at nighttime and by adults only. It is most effective when taken thirty minutes prior to going to sleep.

Chamomile (Matricaria camomilla) - a common flowering plant, the dried leaves and flowers are typically packaged as a tea and can be purchased over the counter in both bagged and loose form. Chamomile has been used throughout the ages as a very effective sleep aid. This herb can reduce anxiety, calm the digestive system, and relieve muscle tension.

Hops (Humulus lupulus)- are fruit (or strobiles) of a member of the cannabis family. It is commonly paired with chamomile, lavender or valerian, but also holds its own as a relaxing natural sedative.

Lavender (L. angustifolia and others) - This flowering herb�s essential oil has been demonstrated to depress the central nervous system in a manner comparable to pharmaceutical tranquilizers. Lavender is very effective as a sleep aid. In addition to the use of lavender flowers in a brewed tea, it may also used in the form of an essential oil distilled from the leaves, flowers and stems of the plant.

Passionflower (Passiflora incarnata) -is a flowering plant that is that is also referred to as Apricot Vine, Passion Vine, Granadilla, Maracoc and Maypops. The entire plant can be used as a tea and can result in a restful, relaxing sleep.

Vitamins and minerals can be used to promote healthy sleep especially if you are deficient in certain vitamins, amino acids, minerals, or enzymes that are necessary for healthy sleep cycles. Calcium, Magnesium, Vitamin B6 & B12, Folic Acid and Copper have all been proven to improve sleep. If you eat a well-balanced diet you should find that you have no problem with vitamin deficiencies. You may want to try adding one or more of these supplements to your diet for a short period of time to see if you notice a significant difference in your sleep patterns.

Remember, as with any health issue, never hesitate to consult your doctor or naturopath before starting on any herbal remedies or supplements. Your doctor or naturopath can work with you to determine the best treatment for healthy sleep and in turn an improved sex life!

Aromatherapy is the ability to use essential oils to improve both your physical and emotionally well-being. There are certain scents established as therapeutic for inducing relaxation and sleep. A relaxant effect may be provided by oils of camomile, lavender, neroli, rose, and marjoram benzoin, jasmine lavender, melissa, neroli, sweet marjoram, ylang ylang, rose and sandalwood. Rose, sandalwood and jasmine are also known to be aphrodisiacs. Add a few drops to your bath water or sprinkle a few drops on a handkerchief and inhale or your pillow before going to bed. You may also consider adding some of these sleep promoting essential oils to your massage oil to enhance the effects of a relaxing massage before falling asleep.

Incorporating yoga into your daily routine can definitely improve sleep, especially if insomnia is stress-related. With all the stress and stimulation in our busy world it is not surprising we have problems winding down. Just 10 minutes of simple yoga poses can help send you off to dreamland.

Exercising regularly may help you sleep better at night as it helps our bodies transition between the phases of sleep more regularly and more smoothly. It also places physical stress on the body so the brain increases the amount of time we spend in deep sleep, the phase of sleep during which our bodies repair themselves. People who regularly exercise report having fewer episodes of sleeplessness than people who don't exercise. Avoid intense exercise right before you go to bed by doing your practice earlier in the day.

Meditation is proven to promote relaxation. The more relaxed you are as you prepare for bed the better your chances of falling into a deep, restful sleep cycle. It is important that you learn to put your stress, tensions, and worries to the side before you fall asleep. Meditation can help you achieve this relaxed state by focusing on peace and harmony

Music and sound are excellent aids for inducing sleep and relaxation. There are many different types of compact discs and sound making devices on the market that can assist in the relaxation process. Some ideas are new age, ambient, classical music or sound machines that mimic soft rain, ocean waves or whale sounds.

A warm bath an hour or more before bed may help you relax and feel drowsy enough to fall into a peaceful sleep. You may want to add to the mood of your bath by placing candles around the bathtub, playing soft music and keeping the lights low.

An Ayurvedic warm sesame oil self massage that is recommended to be done on a daily basis. According to traditional Ayurvedic Medicine texts it is nourishing, relieves fatigue, provides stamina, pleasure and perfect sleep and nourishes the entire body. The Ayurvedic massage is traditionally performed in the morning, before your bath or shower, to facilitate the release of toxins that may have accumulated during the previous night.

Many people report that their sexual relationship has suffered because they have been too sleepy due to poor sleep habits or lack of sleep. They have sex less often or lost interest in having sex because they were too tired. By incorporating some of these natural sleep aids and recommendations into your life you may find that your sex life improves dramatically!

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I had a very intense love affair with a Danish woman a few years ago. Being a romantic with the love of travel and adventure, I ventured to Europe sort of spur of the moment, by myself. I was well prepared with an outline of where to go, what countries to see, etc. But most of it was made up as I went along. I really wasn't on a budget, but I stayed at youth hostels simply because I heard stories about meeting the most interesting people at these inexpensive inns.

It was in London where I met Christine, from Copenhagen. She was on the same page as I, looking for a deviation from normal life. She was also traveling solo. Well, she did have a friend in London, whom I never met. It was after a long day of seeing all the sights of London via one of the open air, double decker buses that are so common in England's cities. I met some fellow Canadians when I checked in the day earlier, and upon hitting it off with them we agreed to see the sights together. I was quite mellow after this long day, with sore feet. Although it was still quite early in the evening, I decided to stay in and relax, watch some TV perhaps and then take a hot bath before bed.

After a traditional English dinner (fish and chips, of course) at the hostel's restaurant, the chatter of the other guests from the commons area of this Victorian house turned into a hostel invited me to join the social environment. I first went down to the corner store and purchased an eight pack of cider. Upon return to the commons room I offered the four guests seated around the coffee table a cider. It was accepted by all but one, an older gent who was suffering from an apparent hangover. I introduced myself to each of them and it was one woman in particular who caught my interest. I told her that I absolutely loved her accent. Christine told me that she had been in Canada a year earlier. Ironically, she was in the same city (Edmonton) about the same time as I was there, visiting my brother. It seemed like instant chemistry. She was ravishingly beautiful with her blonde hair and green eyes. And I told her so too.

The minutes turned to hours as the laughter of all around the table increased. Being somewhat of a clown by nature I regaled the party with my stories. God, I felt like a rock star. It was quite a party. Around 11:00 the guests decided to go for a pub crawl. I turned down the invitation as I felt the jet lag was having a negative affect on me. Christine declined also. I sensed that she wanted to engage in conversation with me alone. We had the whole of this large room to ourselves. It dawned on me that for the past 45 minutes, 'Ren and Stimpy' had been playing on the projection TV. She laughed when I pointed this out. Then she moved closer to me on the ottoman and asked me softly if I would mind if she kissed me. I said nothing and moved closer, and slowly our lips met. This blew me away. She sensed my erection despite my efforts to control it. I felt flushed. She told me I need to relax as she slid her hands from my chest to my neck and kissed me passionately. Guests passed through in numbers of one to four. We didn't care as we embraced. Clumsily I reached for my wallet and she asked what I was doing. I pulled out a condom, showed it to her and asked if she would like to go to my room.

Saying nothing more we rushed up the stairs to my second floor room. Fortunately, I paid the extra �7 for a private room rather than sharing a room with four bunks. I fumbled for the key as we arrived at my door. Coins feel from my pocket onto the floor. I didn't care. Finally the door was open and I turned into the aggressor, thrusting her onto the flimsy cheap double bed. We struggled almost violently in the chore of removing our clothes. The bra was tedious in removal, as I twisted it around to expose her breasts. I stretched my mouth as I had as much of her left breast as I possibly could take into my mouth. I moved to her navel entering my tongue as she moaned approvingly. My tongue entered her vagina as we struggled to find comfort on the cheap mattress. The paper thin walls offered little privacy and we both knew we had an audience in the hall. The voyeurism turned us on, igniting the passion. I then jumped up on her and positioned my cock between her breasts. She struggled to take in the occasional lick of my throbbing erection. I went down on her again and after several minutes she climaxed. I then turned over in suggestion for her to ride me, still fumbling to apply the condom. She became the aggressor and pinned me down by spreading her hands over my chest. I felt her long nails dig into my skin as she removed the half applied condom and swallowed my cock. I moaned my approval as she violently sucked on my organ. "I'm going to...... I'm going to cum!! I'm going to cum"!! I bellowed.

It was as though her tongue was wrapped around my cock as I shot off. She swallowed every drop of my load and moved to kiss my right nipple before she cuddled me and rested her head on my shoulder. She whispered something to me but I could not understand. I'm really not sure if it was in English or Danish. Outside in the hallway I saw two shadows creeping under the door sill. I think we put on quite a show for some of the guests. I fell asleep about two minutes later. My last thought was how wonderful it felt to have her silky hair on my shoulder. I awoke several minutes later and was surprised to find her still awake. She was looking into my eyes with the little bit of light the room had left. She smiled, and whispered to me, calling me "ACE". I laughed at this and then she said "Are you ready"? "I was born ready sweetheart", I replied. She kissed my sensitive nipples and gently nibbled on my ribs before she went down. I don't think I ever became erect as instantly as I became right then. Then she smiled and simply said "69". We assumed the position and enjoyed ourselves orally for what seemed to be a long time. We switched sexual positions several times. Finally I felt as though I was going to cum and I told her to get off the bed and onto her knees. I slid my cock between her breasts and from time to time into her mouth. I finished by ejaculating on her breasts. She licked it off as I embraced her head with both arms.

We shared the remainder of the night together on this cheap bed. We both slept very well. Upon awakening in the morning, we started again. It took us both a very long time to climax. We just barely managed to make the 10:30 breakfast deadline and as we entered the galley, we were greeted by smiles all around. Apparently our exploits were the talk around the morning breakfast. We sat at the table occupied by a Swedish couple who even brought it up in conversation to us. They said be were quite audible. That's Europeans for you.

Christine had to go to the airport that afternoon to return to Copenhagen. I escorted her to the subway station and we shared a passionate embrace and kiss in the sub station. We exchanged addresses and phone numbers. I wondered if we would ever see each other again. I still had three weeks of vacation left and I even hinted to her that maybe I could go to Copenhagen. Surprisingly, she suggested that I don't. I wondered why. Was she married? Thoughts raced in my mind. It wasn't until about three months later that I received a letter from her. She wrote that she is taking a six month sabbatical from her nursing training and that she would like to visit Canada. She joked "Do you know of any good hotels in your town"? I didn't wait to write back. I immediately phoned her and we talked for over two hours. Several letters and weekly phone calls were exchanged. That autumn she came to visit me. From day one, it was sex sex sex sex. Her passport only allowed her to stay for three months, unfortunately (unless something happened, such as marriage, which was discussed). I had an inkling about her sexual orientation but I could not bring myself to ask. Then one day she told me that she was bisexual. She also confessed that she was into domination and submission. I truly thought I died and went to heaven.

I was in love with a Norse goddess and she wanted to share me with another woman. The next day, I told her I have a surprise for her. I reached for the yellow pages and turning to the escorts ads, I asked her if she would like to call an agency and arrange for a girl for two hours (her choice of girl). Two hours later, the most gorgeous blonde showed up and we were prepared with champagne and candles in my bedroom. It was exquisite sex. Girl on girl, girls on me. One time I had both on their knees and they competed for who would make me cum. The two hours passed so quickly. Too quickly. The phone rang 15 minutes before the time was up, as agencies usually do. The escort, Morgan, was having just as good a time as we were. She told the driver to wait in the driveway for her to 'freshen up'. Then another session started and the phone rang ten minutes later. "Yep, I'll be there in a few minutes" Morgan said. I was going down on her as she spoke on the phone. A few minutes later the phone rings again, and this time I could here the driver's voice. He was angry. Christine whispered in Morgan's ear..... "Tell him you lost an ear ring and we're looking for it". The driver was made to wait 15 minutes overtime while we continued our tryst. I have had threesomes before, but this one was special.

I promised Christine that we would spend a weekend somewhere romantic when she arrived. I found a cottage for rent in the Whiteshell (The Whiteshell is a Provincial park in the Precambrian Shield area of Manitoba, Canada). It was very expensive but the short notice and the amenities made it worth the price. It had it all..... jacuzzi, fireplace, polar bear rug, BBQ, huge cathedral windows with a breathtaking view of the Canadian wilderness. Between the cold weather (it was -25 centigrade outside) and the sex we spent most of the time inside. On our second evening there, I BBQ'd steaks (burnt them too) and after dinner we were cleaning the dishes. As I washed the dishes she began playfully flicking me with her towel. I returned the tease by flicking soap suds at her but she continued. Finally, I grabbed her by the wrists and began forcing her onto the kitchen counter. It was hard to maintain my grip with soapy hands as she struggled. I firmly (but gently) gripped her by the throat and began slipping her clothes off.

I began several minutes of oral on her until I sensed she was about to cum. Then without knowing what I was looking for, I opened the freezer compartment of the fridge and reached for something cold. She begged me to continue. I picked up a carton of frozen strawberry yogurt. While maintaining my dominance on her with my right hand, I removed the lid with my left and scooped out a generous helping with my fingers. I smeared it on her breasts and reached for another serving. I then smeared it over her vagina and penetrated with two fingers. Despite her cries.... "It's too cold"!! I continued as she struggled. I then licked it off, beginning with her breasts and then moving down on her. By this time, she was almost shouting with pleasure and her mock resistance to me stopped. Neither of us had ever experienced anything like that before.

The yogurt incident begat a new code for us. It started when I returned home from work one day and there was an empty strawberry yogurt carton on the kitchen table. This was foreplay to foreplay. This meant that she was horny. Sometimes, if I chose to ignore the sign, she would place the container on the bathroom vanity. She knew that I would never go to bed without brushing my teeth, no matter how tired I was, or sometimes pretended to be in a teasing manner. One time she even placed the empty container on the night table beside the alarm clock. Then on one occasion (it was my birthday) she took me out to dinner, adding I could pick any restaurant. I chose an upscale steakhouse in Winnipeg for the dinner date. After the meal (which we both enjoyed) the waiter returned and asked if we would like dessert. She immediately replied "Yes, frozen strawberry yogurt, and he will have the same". When the dish arrived she teased me by licking it slowly off the spoon, saying "MMMMM..... this is so good". I told her "Okay, I get it.

Enough already". She continued the tease to the point that she even took off her high heal boot and began to massage my cock with her toes. All this time adding "MMMM.... this is good"! I began to feel uncomfortable and felt myself turning red as my erection took off. I had to get out of there before it turned into a disaster, and she knew it. When I stood up and walked to the cashier with the check, I felt half the eyes in the dining room fixed on my discomfort and my rigidness. I looked back and saw several couples restraining their laughter. We left the restaurant and in the elevator to the parking garage I scolded her. "Don't ever, ever do that to me, you fucking brat"!! As we walked to my car, I was so stiff, I felt myself dripping already. She let go of my hand and slapped me on the butt, and then moved away, giggling. She knew I was uncomfortable.

I opened the car door for her and she playfully dropped her hand bag. Then she looked at me as if to suggest that I pick it up for her. I just shook my head unapprovingly. She bent over to pick the purse up. As she did this, I grabbed her by the arm and forced her to the car seat. I exposed myself to her and forced her to suck my cock. She looked around briefly to see that nobody else was around. Then in submission she violently sucked on me until I shot off in her mouth. In the midst of the act, a car drove by and we both thought we were going to be seen. The car stopped briefly but fortunately the couple in the front seat could not see us as a pillar obstructed the view. Unfortunately, however a little girl (I'm guessing she was about six years old) did manage to get her first sex education. Her eyes were big as saucers and she witnessed me pumping it to Christine for about 15 seconds, as the car sat idle. Later Christine confessed to me that she wanted me to nail her in the elevator. I didn't get the hint and well, the ride was only two floors. But that was my birthday blow job.

Christine introduced me to a world I have never seen before. I now realize that I was somewhat "sexually retarded" before I met her. Christine was a drug that opened me up. It was the greatest sex a man could ever hope to experience. Unfortunately, our love affair ended when she became homesick. I now use my experience with other consenting women. I am now single.

This section is for sexual current events and news; allowing our web site visitors to hear sex news around the world.

Hollywood actors with adult film stars for spoofs on skin flicks. The first video in the series stars Nathan Fillion (Firefly, Buffy the Vampire Slayer) alongside sex siren Aria Giovanni for Nailing Your Wife, a naughty repairman video where... they don�t have sex.

Phone sex calls from Americans overseas were intercepted and listened to by the government, two former National Security Agency officers have revealed. NSA officers at Fort Condon, Georgia would share recorded cuts of �salacious or tantalizing phone calls� that Americans in the Middle East would be making back home. �I feel that it was something that the people should not have done. Including me,� one officer told ABC News.

A group in San Francisco has organized O�s for Obama, a sexy fundraiser for the Democratic presidential candidate. According to their site, �O�s is an online global tantric movement that helps us all focus the breath of orgasm collectively towards getting Obama elected.� On October 24 there will be a rally and fundraiser that includes �sensual/political performances,� and people outside San Francisco can participate online.

A naughty online ad campaign for Levi�s 501 Jeans is drawing criticism. �Consumers can visit Unbuttonyourbeast.com where they will be greeted by a large pair of jeans that asks them to create, customize and send their own �beast,�� Brandweek reports. Characters you can �unleash� include �Sir Reginald Mighty Pants,� �Donkey Ramon� and �Trout Troutman.�

Premature ejaculation may be caused by a man�s genes, new research suggests. �A study of nearly 200 Dutch men found those who climaxed too soon during intercourse had a version of a gene that controls the hormone serotonin,� the London Times reports, also noting that �men with this version ejaculated twice as quickly as other men in the study.�

Men prefer natural breasts of any size over fake ones, a new survey has found. The poll in Heat magazine also discovered that �47 percent of men have felt a fake pair (of breasts) and 87 percent think bigger isn�t always better,� adding that �29 percent said they thought padded bras were �false advertising,�� NewsLite.tv reports.

The scent of a particular mushroom found in Hawaii may be able to make women orgasm. The new fungus species aroused all 16 women in one study, enough to bring six of those women to climax. The report in the International Journal of Medicinal Mushrooms also noted that �All of the men (in the study) found the smell disgusting.�

Dutch prostitutes are being offered incentives to switch careers. With red-light districts in Holland due to close in 2011, the �Street Miles� program for sex workers is the government�s attempt to transition prostitutes out of the industry. �For every step they take to get out of their trade, they�ll get vouchers that they can cash in to go shopping,� one official tells the Telegraph.

A statue in a Utah state park has been moved because of its prominent phallus. Depicting a male Hopi Indian playing a flute, the work had welcomed visitors to the Cedars State Park for 19 years before a group of conservative residents nearby complained about its large penis. The park compromised by placing the statue behind a museum, where its genitals can�t be seen from the street.

Britney Spears�s parents have banned the pop star from having sex for six months. According to Entertainmentwise.com, �[f]iercely protective Jamie and Lynne Spears feel that Britney�s downfall was linked to the men in her life and want their daughter to refrain from any male contact for a while.� Although with Jamie Lynn Spears now pregnant again, it seems they have focused on the wrong daughter. Apparently Jamie Lynn thought you could not get pregnant when you are breast feeding. This is a walking example of why we need more than abstinence only sex education folks.

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