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This
Issue's Sex Joke
The
Fun Of Wii
Asking For
Better Sex
How To Ask Your Partner To Improve Their Sexual Performance
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One
of the most difficult things couples tackle in the
bedroom is how to ask for their sexual needs to
be met, especially when your partner is lacking
in technique or even enthusiasm.
It
happens to both men and women and we can assure
you that it is quite a common concern for many couples.
However, the good news is that most people are more
receptive then you may think.
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Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
Holistic
Wisdom Founder
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In
a world that is filled with superficial sexuality without
much emphasis on authentic communication about it, many
suffer in silence. It can cause emotional suffering and
relationship conflicts that can become so bad that it
ends in the couple splitting up.
That is why this is such an important subject and why
we will review with you some things you can do to make
communication go more smoothly when it comes to sex.
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Ask
Questions During Non-Sexual Moments
One
of the best ways to open someone to a conversation
is to ask questions sincerely and in a non-pressured
environment. At the core, everyone wants to feel
understood and taking time to ask your lover what
excites them, delights them and even to delve into
their fantasies is a good place to start. Remember
not to come from a place of judgment, rather, allow
them the space to speak freely about their sexual
desires.
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Tell
Them Your Desires
Express
your own desires by telling your lover about your
fantasies with them. You can start off by describing
how much you would love to get away with them to
a romantic location and then go into the details
of all the fun you would have. Perhaps this can
even open up a conversation about how to make these
things a reality.
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Avoid
Hurting Their Feelings
Obviously,
you are not going to want to say something about
a former lover, so tell them that you fantasize
about them doing those things to you. Do this because
it is the truth and it avoids the potential pain
of comparison to another lover.
Also,
try not to criticize your partner by expressing
things from a negative vantage point. By telling
them what you desire rather than what you feel you
aren't getting allows your partner to feel like
they are being approached in a respectful way rather
than insulted.
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Encourage
Your Partner
When
your partner is doing something wonderful, then
encourage them by praising them or telling them
how much you love it. Positive reinforcement is
much more effective at creating intimacy than criticisms.
You
can encourage everything from the way they do something
to their moans. Making them feel appreciated is
a good way to make them want to do more and be more
creative with you.
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Create
A Romantic Setting
Doing
something as simple as lighting candles,
playing erotic
music and introducing things like massage
oils, special
lubricants and massagers
allows you to create a mood of relaxation and romance.
Doing these things also allows your partner to feel
pampered and invites them to pamper you as well.
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An Adult Game
If
you partner is extremely passive you may want to
introduce an adult
game that will allow you to play together and
both give and receive. One of our most popular is
the Fantasy & Romance Adult Game. There are many
from those that are card games to board games. These
games allow for an adventure for both of you.
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In
Conclusion
One
of the most important things to consider is the golden
rule. Treating them as you would want to be treated by
being respectful, encouraging and proactive is the best
course of action. After all, don't you feel encouraged
to be better at something the more someone gives you praise?
Creating
a space where you approach things as a couple will allow
you to feel more connected and create deeper intimacy
and better sex.

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Sexual
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For
Women: If You Bleed After Sex
If
you have some minor bleeding after sex and you are not starting
or on your period, don't dismiss it as nothing as it could
be something that requires medical attention. Take the time
to see a physician to rule out anything serious.
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Here
are some common causes for spotting after sex-
- Rough Sex
- May have caused tearing.
- Uterine
Polyps or Fibroids.
- A
Yeast or Bacterial Infection.
- Cervical
polyps or Precancerous changes to cervical cells.
- An
STD, such as Gonorrhea or Chlamydia.

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Our
Vacation Together
Submitted Anonymously
My
lover and I have for several years been trying to find a way to
see each other for longer than a few moments of stolen ecstasy.
We both had to be extremely careful since we both had so much
to lose. We love each other and are so sexually attracted to each
other, but also have invested in other lives that we have always
agreed to never force the issue.
Well,
the moment that we had been waiting for just presented itself
to us as we knew it would if we waited. She had an opportunity
to attend a show that I too would be at and we both were going
alone. At this point I must tell you the particular city and other
landmarks names and descriptions have been changed to protect
our true identity. Everything in between is as close to actual
as it can get.
My
flight into the Las Vegas Airport arrives about an hour before
your flight does. I have just enough time to collect my luggage
from baggage claim and get the rental car set up. I meet you as
you come down the concourse. What a feast you are for my eyes.
Not having seen you for almost a year, and knowing what lusciousness
lies beneath your parka and tight fitting jeans my cock is the
first to acknowledge you.
We collect your baggage and head out to pick up the rental car.
You know we are going skiing, but that is about all I have told
you. We get on I-70 and head west towards the mountains. We approach
the Ski and Snowboard Resort and exit the freeway. At this point
you perk up knowing where we are heading to. I have made reservations
for the slopes and when you realize this, you can hardly stand
it.
We
hurriedly get checked in and head up to the slopes and have a
wonderful time slicing up the snow. After a few hours we are frigid
and our legs are about to give out. We head back to the hotel.
All the while we were skiing I kept having erotic thoughts of
getting you back to the hotel. Now that we are there, I peel you
out of your ski gear and expose your young, round and firm breasts.
Before the rest of the clothing comes off I am teasing your nipples
with my tongue. They become hard little nubs between my lips.
I can hear you making little moans of pleasure. I sit you down
on the bed and remove your cute sexy panties and the remainder
of your clothes.
As I feast at what is laying before me, I quickly get out of my
ski gear. My hard cock is standing out like a flag pole and you
reach out ever so lightly and caress it with your fingernails
and you smile that devilish smile as you watch it twitch with
each tender touch. I lay down next to you on the bed and you raise
up over me and slowly take hold of it and guide it into your waiting
mouth.
You cannot imagine the feel my cock was going through. I mean
going from the frigid ski slopes to your hot wet mouth is almost
to much. I feel myself getting ready to cum and I grab you by
your hair and start to fuck myself in and out of your mouth. I
can feel my balls tightening, and they are ready to let loose.
I have such a powerful orgasm that I have lifted up almost off
the bed and feel the pulsating all the way down to the bottom
of my balls.
As
you are finished swallowing my load, I collapse next to you on
the bed. After a few minutes to get myself collected. I go and
begin running the Hot tub that is outside on the privacy fenced
patio. You are in complete awe that I had reserved a room with
an outside hot tub. As it is bubbling we can watch the steam rising
out of the tub and into the sub zero air. I walk back into the
room and scoop you up in my strong arms and carry your hot petite
body to the hot tub. I set you into the hot water and climb in.
What a wonderful sight. Y
our
blond hair and pale skin with a back ground of snow. A picture
of what dreams are made of. I slip in next to you and reach over
and pull you closer until our lips meet. A long and lasting kiss
is enough to make my cock begin to stiffen again for another round.
As if we were reading each others minds. You take hold of my cock
and at the same time I reach and begin feeling your beautifully
shaved pussy under the water. As you are stroking my hard cock
I slip a finger into your very wet and slick wanting and waiting
cunt. As my finger enters I can feel the difference between the
water and your slippery juices.
You
begin undulating your hips fucking yourself on my hand. Your moans
of delight increase as your orgasm builds. By now I am sliding
my fingers in and out of your pussy as fast as I can. Your orgasm
hits and you let out a deep throated scream and clamp down on
my fingers with your thighs and hand. You stay that way shuddering
in the aftermath of your orgasm. You lean over and whisper in
my ear. "Fuck me now, I want your cock inside me" I grab you by
the waist and lift your tiny body up above my now throbbing cock.
Now
facing me you lower yourself onto my cock. You let out a gasp
as the big mushroom head just pops in to your tight pussy and
then I enter you fully and completely. My hands now on your hips,
I pull you down until your pussy totally engulfs my cock. I hold
you there for a moment savoring your tight warmness surrounding
me and I can feel the head of my cock bumping against the back
of your warm womb. With the aide of the buoyancy of the water
I begin lifting and bringing you back down on my cock. The feeling
is incredible. I can feel every inch of my erect, hard cock as
each time it enters you until your beautiful ass cheeks are resting
against my nuts.
Our
mouths find each other and as I am pumping my rock hard cock in
and out of you, your moans are being stifled into my mouth. Now
I can feel my own orgasm building. I begin pumping in and out
faster and harder. This brings more moans and an increase in pitch.
Just as I am releasing my load of cum into you, your orgasm hits.
We both are now just quivering in each others arms. We stay in
the hot tub in a lovers embrace. My now soft cock still in your
pussy. Neither one of us wanting to back away and free our bodies
from the other.
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This
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site visitors to hear sex news around the world.
Male
Circumcision Reduces Some Health Risks
A
new study from the New England Journal of Medicine (NEJM) has
shown that circumcision can significantly reduce their risk of
herpes simplex virus type 2 (HSV-2), the cause of genital herpes,
and human papillomavirus (HPV), which can cause cancer and genital
warts. The study also showed that circumcision has no effect on
their risk of becoming infected with the bacterium that causes
syphilis.
Read
the original article- PhysOrg.com
Romance
Can Endure
Released
in the March issue of the Review of General Psychology, researchers
have examined why romantic love does not necessarily fade over
time. They explain that while the manic, obsessive feelings that
come with a new love tend to fade, romantic love may not. Those
that reported that their romantic desires remained were determined
to have more satisfying relationships as well.
Read
the original article- Kvia.com
Vacuum
Sex Sucks
Jason Leroy Savage got it on with a vacuum at a car wash on 10-16-08
and just went to court for the matter. This occurred at a car
wash in Thomas Township, 90 miles east of Detroit, Michigan. The
29-year-old man pleaded no contest to the incident, and now faces
90 days in jail.
New
Men's Swimsuit Guards Against 'Shrinkage'
A
new swim suit modification is geared to help make men appear to
have their bulge in tact in cold water or warm while keeping their
manhood well protected during swimsuit season. It is kinda like
stuffing your bra which women should be quite comfortable with
these days with all their padded bras, bra inserts not to mention
breast implants. So why should men be let out? Nick named the
"Rooster Booster" this $25 Lycra bathing suit comes with a pocket
in the crotch which holds an insert made of breathable foam padding.
Committing
Child Porn On Herself?
The
law seems to get rather ridiculous these days when a 14-year-old
girl faces child pornography charges after posting nude pictures
of herself on MySpace.
Detectives
with the Passaic County, New Jersey Sheriff’s Department’s Internet
Crimes Unit arrested her even though they determined that she
was the one that posted them. She has been charged with one count
of possession of child pornography and one count of distribution
of child pornography and released into her mother’s custody.
This
is an absurd interpretation of the law and is no different than
arresting someone for raping themselves for rough masturbation.
At what point are law makers going to see that they are doing
harm to children in such cases rather than helping them, which
is what the point of the law was in the first place.
Read
the original article- NorthJersey.com
Girl
Harassed For Sex Abuse On Self
Marissa
Miller, 15, a high school cheerleader in northeastern Pennsylvania
was told that she might face criminal charges after investigators
reported finding a nude photo of her on someone else’s cellphone.
However, the photo was not nude, it was of her an another friend
at a slumber party showing them from the waist up wearing bras,
which is no different than wearing a swimsuit on a public beach.
District
Attorney George P. Skumanick of Wyoming County said he considered
the photo “provocative” enough and told Marissa and her friend
in the picture, Grace Kelly, that if they did not attend a 10-hour
class dealing with pornography and sexual violence, he was going
to file a charge of sexual abuse of a minor against both girls.
The
girls, unlike 17 students that took the deal, decided with their
parents that what Mr. Skumanick is doing is violating their rights
rather than upholding the law and have filed a lawsuit against
him citing that it was
“retaliation” for the families asserting their First and Fourth
Amendment rights to oppose his deal.
“I’m
simply giving them an option,” said Mr. Skumanick, who is a Republican
who has been district attorney for 20 years (facing reelection
again in November). “We’re not forcing anybody to do anything,
Frankly, it’s sad to me that their parents don’t realize this
is wrong and they should be encouraging them to take the classes.”
Really
Mr. Skumanick.... girls taking pictures of one another in their
underclothes at a slumber party is wrong? Better start making
more jails because we will need the room for most girls in America
to be locked away!
Read
the original article- NewYorkTimes.com
Boy
Paints Penis On Top Of Parents Home
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Rory
McInnes a wily 18 year old climbed on the roof of his parent's
home and painted a penis on it, after watching a program
about Google Earth. However, his parents did not know about
their son's bold artwork until a helicopter spotted it on
top of their home near Hungerford, Berks in the UK. Rory's
dad asked his four kids about it and Rory confessed by saying
"Oh, you've found it then!" His dad said that he will
be having Rory clean it off soon.
Read
the original article- Telegraph.co.uk
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New
Condoms Closer To Skin
LifeStyles
is the first condom made form Polyisoprene a new non-latex
material that is marketed as close to wearing nothing. The
microscopically thin Lifestyles SKYN
condom is now being shown on commercials and if you
have used them, let us know what you think... was it all
you hoped it would be?
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India
Increasing Use Of Sex Toys
India
is now seeing that more and more of it citizens are buying sex
toys even though the sale of sex toys is a punishable offense
under Section 293 (Sale of obscene objects) and punishment varies
from one year to seven years with a fine of up to Rs 5,000 ($124.50).
But
it is the fear of AIDS that is making people try and find other
ways to achieve sexual gratification. There has been a 50% rise
in the use of sex toys and a 30% drop in brothel visits.
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