What Do Two Women Do In Bed Together?

Two women in bed can do many things. They can cuddle, kiss, play with sex toys, like vibrators and dildos. They can also have oral or anal sex. They may engage in tribadism as well as talk dirty or act out fantasies.

What is Tribadism?

Hi,

My husband got some info. about Female Ejaculation and got a hold of Lisa and got her DVD to how to do this thing. Well we have been watching the DVD and trying it for weeks and a week ago it happened.

It was the most greatest thing that I have ever done I soaked every thing and we have done this for eight nights now and just don't think I can ever get enough of this great fun .

And by the way I am 50 years old so anybody can learn this great fun. It is very relaxing after it happens. It takes the shower curtain like Lisa says and allot of towels She is right about that. Every women needs to learn this cause of the joy It will bring to them

Diana

LISA LISA LISA,

I AM A 28 YEAR OLD MOTHER OF FOUR AND ONEON THE WAY. I AM A STAY AT HOME MOM AND I HELP RAISE OUR FAPh.D. AND CAN VEGETABLES FOR OUR FAMILY AND HELP MY HUSBAND BUTCHER THE ANIMALS. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 13 YEARS AND WE ARE GLORIOUSLY SEXUAL.

I HAVE RECENTLY LEARNED FROM The Art of Female Ejaculation AND DID IT FOR THE FIRST TIME AT THE END OF JANUARY...I HAVE YET TO ORGASM AND EJACULATE AT THE SAME TIME...MY FINGER CLITORAL STIMULATOR BROKE A FEW MONTHS AGO BECAUSE OF THE EJACULATE FROM ME *BLUSHING* AND IT HASN'T WORKED EVER SINCE....JUST WANTED TO THANK YOU FOR THE NEWSLETTER...IT MADE ME REALIZE THE JOY OF EJACULATION AND SO MUCH MORE FOR MY HUSBAND AND ME.

THANKS AGAIN,

AMY

Hi Amy,

Thank you for your kind words. I know what you mean about ruining toys because of the ejaculate fluid getting inside them and shorting them out.

That is why I recommend the Waterdancer as it is waterproof and you won't have that kind of problem when gushing a lot of female ejaculate.

Thanks again for your thoughtful and complimentary eMail it is always great to hear from those who love what we do!

Best,

Lisa

Hi Lisa,

My boyfriend and I have been together for 14 years and we still enjoy a very passionate and adventurous sex life! It's great to be "in lust" with your very best friend! We just watched your video on female ejaculation and I must admit, I was impressed! The video was very informative and tastefully done. We have viewed porn which included "Squirters" and thought it was just a stunt. We are having fun experimenting, I'll let you know if we succeed. You are the Best!!!!!

Sincerely,
Jeanne

Love the newsletter as always. I read every one of them. I was fascinated by the tight foreskin article, as I am uncircumcised. I didn't see any mention of yeast infections, which definitely tighten my foreskin and make it very painful to retract. The White Spots article was also enlightening. And the joke as always was cute.

Rick

Dear Lisa,

I think I am beginning to "get it." To understand the balance between decency and desire. All my life, (51 years), I have struggled with a sort of sexual schizophrenia. On the one hand, I have been deeply devoted to God and that love for God kept me kind and caring and doing good works for others. On the other hand, I have had a sensuality that was not allowed to "cum out and play," so to speak. And when I did "venture out in the street," I was scolded by my repressed mindset.

Your website and sexual products are helping me to see that I can still be a "good girl" and be one "bad momma!" Although, I have not put into practice the wonderful things I am learning, I am slowly acclimating to the world of erotica, balanced by a newfound sense of myself. I have a calendar that has a page for each day and these sayings are written by women to empower other women...like what you do...well, here is what it said: "Those who don't enjoy their own spirit, sensuality, personality, and preferences are never as beautiful as they could be." (Regina Thomashauer, writer and founder of Mama Gena's School of Womanly Arts)

I feel like I am in the process of being born again, not physically or spiritually, but sensuously. I see myself unfolding like a newborn babe into the arms of life. I am so happy, that I sometimes just start to cry for the sheer joy of becoming fully myself.

Joy and Love,

Harpyer

Hi Lisa,

I purchased one of your video's, wow it increased our love making, she now shakes when she has ejaculation!

Porn For Women- A Growing Appeal

Porn for women, I think that its a great idea as it unleashes their sexual fantasies and inhibitions Although women are more mentally focussed than men, in the sense that they are generally deeper thinkers and more emotionally involved than men, they are very restricted in the way in which they can express that! Porn directed at women will definitely resolve that and we will probably find women a lot more seductive and open to try new things as they get their imaginations going. I think it will be a Great way to equalize the sexual desire between men and women. I also think that the next step is to introduce pornography that is specifically targeted at couples rather greatly emphasized at one gender as we will be able to find ourselves sharing these moments together in a new light! However it will be important for both parties to remember and focus their attention towards how their partner is feel! ing not solely at the movie!

Men's Fear of Sex Toys
Will She Like It Better Than Me?

Men's fear of sex toys, Ok here's a little tricky one but easily accomplished! There are some products on the market that guys simply cant compete with! (accept me)! like a rampant rabbit for example, a lot of the girls at UNI have them! although we might not be able to make a woman feel the same way as an electronic device that is specifically designed to please, we have to bare in mind that these devices are purely used with Fantasy and nothing compares to real seduction and fulfilling your fantasy's with someone else! Also how well you can satisfy a woman depends greatly on how much you can Turn her on, now no matter how good these devices are it wont turn her on as much as knowing some one else is brining her off effortlessly on her part! Also there's no reason why we as men cannot implement some of these toys into our sex lives in order to increase the fulfillment and to make things a little more exciting!

Also I strongly believe it will not be long before guys themselves begin to use sexual devices for when their partners are away or with their partners as they are becoming more common. Also because as time goes on we seem to be exploring our sexuality's in much greater depth. I think at the moment men are restricted in exploring their sexuality in greater depth due to the concerns of what others would think due to the great stereotypical opinions that float around today such as ; if a guy was to use a sex toy with his girlfriend or by himself he must have gay tendencies or be bisexual which is far from correct! If history has taught us anything it is that we create and adjust our own standards with time and once one person does something new, its not long before we all imitate and what was once seemed as forbidden is soon accepted amongst society!

Barbie Dumps Ken For New Love Interest: Blaine

Barbie and Ken....Huh! Well I Always thought she was too good for him anyway! I hope this information proves useful and you enjoy reading it! If you don't mind me asking, when are the articles regarding cunninglingus likely to be released as I greatly enjoy it and would like to learn morrrreee!!!!

Hi Lisa,

I am responding to your latest newsletter and about your site selling more porn. Is that something that you really want to get into? If I was you I would stick to educational and instruction videos. Of course, it is your business. If I wanted to buy porn I would go to a sex shop, but me and my wife usually just rent them but we do buy instruction videos. To us, porn is just a movie where you can pick up a few tricks or ideas, but after we watch it once, we don't care to watch it again. However, in our area we cannot find porn that interests us anymore. We are looking for something different such as strap ons (women on male), men using sex toys on themselves, women using dildos on men, or even women licking or fingering a guys ass. We wish our area would sell more of these movies instead of the same old thing. We need a change! Know what I mean? You have done such a good job with your site empowering women! I would concentrate on that. If you decide to sell more, I wish you the best of luck!!! Take care.

Robert H

Men's Fear of Sex Toys
Will She Like It Better Than Me?

Thanks, had my husband read the letter on toys and my enjoyment with for me but to let him know when he has seen me with my toys that I would rather have his penis inside me than the toy, sometimes I think he believes the toy is taking his place, and he needed to see from another woman that I love his penis, and he is very nice at my measurement on top of his dick from base to tip of his penis is almost nine inches, though long he is not as wide as some men.

He just needed to see I want him more than my toys but truly just enjoy my time alone with them to release and relax, I would like to maybe purchase the Fleshlight for him to have his time but would like to hear from a man on this site on the feeling of the Fleshlight . Is it good for him? feel fairly real? soft as my husband has said the older jelly sleeves are" too hard and rubbery and not soft and satiny" as my pussy is for him. This is why he has stop buying toys as "personal Pussies" because they did not feel right but felt like rubber. He bought one with that new material with baby powder, and was fair he said but still not right. I remember it was like 159 dollars too. I do not want another female in my bed but is the best thing to buy him a prostitute for him to fuck and me watch? This has to be the worst thought, but want to have something he will enjoy, yet not take the place of my PUSSY.

Debbie

No toy will replace the feel of a real vagina, but the Fleshlight is one of the top masturbation sleeves out there and is why it is the only one we carry.

Hi Lisa,

First of all I'd like to say that your newsletter is great. A very well thought out and informative publication. I really think the adult movie reviews are a great item. My wife isn't as big a fan of porn as I am (I know know....big shocker there :) ) but she does like the porn that is more geared toward women and couples. The adult videos with real storylines to go along with the explicit adult action are her favorites. In the past she has enjoyed the Vivid Video titles. If you could increase your coverage of the women/couples videos this reader would be most appreciative. (I'd also appreciate you teaching my wife how to squirt, but that is for another EMail :) )

Thanks again for your service. It's a pleasure reading it.

Steve

Hi Lisa,

Thanks for the personal message with each newsletter sent my way! Just to clue you in as to why I was drawn to your website in the first place: My last two girlfriends were 'squirters'. Quite a coincidence, if you ask me. Well, one could ejaculate and the other was more like what I'd describe as a 'flooder', where a large amount of fluid would 'pour' out, rather than squirt, when stimulating her G spot. In either case it was always "get a towel" before having sex.

To me it's the most erotic thing I've ever experienced, or seen a woman be able do. Unfortunately, I think I've been somewhat 'spoiled' and now seeing a woman experience the simple garden variety orgasm, just isn't as much of a turn on. It was a shame though, that the one who could squirt, had a lot of problems with her own body image and its functions and felt awkward and sometimes embarrassed by her projectile abilities. [She was something... she could ejaculate her fluids 5 or 6 feet sometimes.] It wasn't until after we ended up apart, that I ran across an article on Dorrie Lane and her videos on the subject... that was around 1996 or so. That probably would've helped her, but it was a little too late by then.

Anyway, the whole subject interests me to no end and it's almost a given that I'll be in a constant search for another 'able' bodied partner. Thanks again for the great newsletters and all the info.

Sincerely, B. Warren

Hi Lisa,

How are you I just want to say thanks for all your lovely eMails that you sent me its really nice to hear from you and your site its help me out allot and learn a lot from them. So the only thing I could think of doing is to thank you for your help its always nice to hear from you and please if you want to e-mail me your self love to hear from you.

Your friend,

Mark

Hi Lisa,

LOVE your newsletter, lots of good information and a different prospective on a vanity of topics. I am fascinated with Electro sex or electro stimulation. Have you had any experience with this method of self pleasure? Is it possibly a topic for one of your informative articles. I haven't tried it yet but it sounds interesting. Keep up the good work. SWAAAAK!!!

Namaste...

Rickie

Not, yet but keep your eyes open for the upcoming newsletters to review them.

Thanks so much for answering me, I read most of your book. A friend of mine has it. And I watched the video clips. I probably am not patient enough to do it. I have a gspot vibrator and I get a tremendous sensation after about 30 minutes. After that I can have a very satisfying orgasm, but I just don't ejaculate. But I want to, I'll keep trying.

Thanks again.

Sherrie

Lisa's Reply-

Hi,

Thank you for your inquiry. Here are some key points that may help you with female ejaculation.

Hydration-

You will want to first start by making sure that you are well hydrated. Drinking a lot of water will aid in the amount as it will allow for the fluid to be more easily created when your body is well hydrated.

Alcohol-

While I am not advocating drinking alcohol to do this, it has seemed to aid some women in gushing after have a couple of glasses of wine. The reason for this is because the body is more relaxed and there is less focus on inhibitions, or performance anxiety.

Relaxation-

Do not under estimate the importance of being relaxed. It is the number one reason that women find they are unable to ejaculate. You would be surprised that not focusing on ejaculating and just letting yourself go is the best way to get there. The G-Spot- The G-Spot engorges only with stimulation, making it very hard to locate in some women. The G-Spot is located along the upper/front wall of the vagina, about two inches in, towards the stomach. Try some manual exploration. Lie on your back on the floor with your knees bent and rest your feet on the bed in front of you. Insert your middle finger into your vagina and gently stroke the front wall behind the pubic bone, about two inches up. You should feel a patch of skin that has a different texture from the rest of your vaginal walls, slightly rough or "ruffled." Using a "come-hither" motion, press into the center of this ruffled patch until you feel an area that is sensitive to pressure.

That's your G-Spot, also known as your urethral sponge. It's on the other side of your vaginal wall, which is why you'll probably respond more to pressure than light stroking. The area is about the size of a pea, but can enlarge to the size of a walnut when stimulated. You should also know that many women feel like they need to urinate when this area is stimulated.

This is due to the fact that, as it enlarges, it presses on the same nerves that signal a full bladder. Most women find, however, that as stimulation is continued, this feeling goes away and is replaced with pleasurable sensations. Many women find G-Spot stimulation easier and more pleasurable in positions other than on their backs. Try rolling over on your stomach or getting on all fours. Women don't usually enjoy penetration until they are somewhat aroused. Engage in whatever foreplay you find arousing: touching, kissing, stroking, oral sex, talking ... whatever works for you. G-Spot stimulation should come at the middle or the end of your sexual play, not at the beginning.

Use lubrication when you're ready for penetration, even if your body is already producing natural lubrication, which can often run dry at an inopportune moment.

Sex Toys-

If you do not already have a good vibrator... get one. Getting blood flow to the vaginal area is VERY important! It is what signals the body that you are aroused and begins filling the Skenes / Paraurethral Glands with the ejaculate. Remember that in the video and book The Art of Female Ejaculation the best technique discussed and use toys like the Rabbit Habit. I also highly recommend the Hitachi Magic Wand, and the Water Dancer for vibrators.

The Hitachi Magic Wand is great for power and for when you are in a location that you can plug the cord in. The Water Dancer is small, very quiet and very powerful for a small vibrator the size of a marker. Arousal Time- It is also important to remember that you need to be aroused for about 10 - 20 minutes with full on clitoral or g-spot stimulation in order to get the juices flowing.

Solo Or With A Partner-

If you are having a difficult time in your attempts to ejaculate, you really need to try masturbation sessions solo. It is key that you fully get to know your body sexually by yourself in order to know how a lover can satisfy you. Try new toys, try new ways of stimulation. The simple act of taking time out for you and making this about an erotic journey that you get to take the less inhibitions, the less performance anxiety you may feel. Also, being alone will allow you to completely focus on your body's sensations, not worrying if your lover's arm is tired or if they are still enjoying themselves. Once you have achieved female ejaculation on your own, then you can share it with your partner.

Location, Location, Location-

If you have not ejaculated I highly recommend you try masturbation in a dry tub with a towel down first. If you do not, then you are going to have possible inhibitors such as worrying about how much will come out, if it will spray, and that nagging thought that it might be urine (even though it will not be). Being in the tub allows you to RELAX and know that no matter what kind of mess you make, it is okay to really let go. Atmosphere- Have the mood relaxed with a scented candle, soft music and absolute privacy.

Do not have a situation where you are rushed or have distractions like a lover waiting outside ready to ask if you did it. You need to make this time for you, about your sexuality, so that you can fully experience your body's sensations, sexuality with no outside interference.

If you have specific questions that are not addressed in the book or video or this eMail, feel free to let me know what they are. Once you have done it this way you may better understand your own body's signals. You may also want to prolong your sexual arousal before trying to ejaculate as the longer you are aroused the more filled the skenes glands will become. I hope these tips assist you and that you have fun trying them.

Enjoy!

Best,
Lisa

Regarding Whether We Should Carry Porn-

I disagree with some of your other readers when it comes to any of your Videos. Reading is fine & may stretch the mind to differ mirages;Yet to see in ACTION is to SHARE with another. Loves ya site! So informal. Many Thanx!

Hi Lisa,

I have not communicated with you in almost a year now but I have been reading your newsletters. I have to go someplace private to do so and I save them on my message board until I can do so. If I can refresh your memory, you and I had established a heavy dialog a year ago and I shared with you that I could not afford your e-book and you offered to me as a gift. I will never forget that act of kindness. It was also during the time that you were experiencing turmoil with your family about using the name on your website and they being connected to it. That situation also never left my memory.

Since our last direct communication, my life has been turned topsy turvy. As of September of last year, my family and I became homeless and we have been living in a shelter here in the outskirts of Atlanta, GA. Just prior to that happening, I have been trying to seek out business opportunities for myself and I have finally created something that will rescue us. It is just going to take some time to get off the ground especially with the situation I am in. I am writing you now because, I have always admired your site and the way you had it set up. I especially like the newsletter in which you are able to send it out in mass form but it is address to each individual personally. I am not computer literate enough to know how to do that and I wanted to ask if you can share a source with me on how I can setup a system such as that. Please share your thoughts.

Gwen F.

Hi Gwen,

I am so sorry to hear that you fell on rough times. I certainly am glad to hear that the eBook was useful to you and that you enjoyed it. The autoresponder that we use is called Get Response. I wrote an article about it on our web site. There are a lot of articles I have written about eCommerce which you can find on the following web page- eCommerce Tools. Good luck in your endeavors I wish you all the best!

Love & Light, Lisa

Hi Lisa,

My name is Sue I live in Australia and I have only just discovered your web site. My first news letter from you regarding 'Female Ejaculation' was both informative and a relief. I have been a 'Squirter' for years and only discovered this fact with my husband John (much to his delight). It is a great relief to find that although I can get extremely wet that it is not pee. I still am embarrassed but through your article and other good reading I'm sure I will overcome this. I am beginning menopause at the moment and my libido is very low however I will continue to read with interest your newsletters. I hope you are well and will catch you later.

Thank you,
Sue M.

Lisa,

Keep thinking about you and your educational services for women. You are dead on the mark when it comes to what you say and such. Not sure you can actually change a woman's brain function by such help, but it is nice to think even this might be possible to some degree. Always good to understand what a woman is maximally, and your info. Sure helps very much in that regard.

Jeff K.

Hi Lisa,

I enjoy your website, it has made my life more enjoyable!

Love and Light to you as well!

Bob

Dear Lisa,

We have been married 35 years and I am looking forward to learning about this art form not only to please my husband ( he would love a mouthful when going down on me ) but also to add pleasure for me. I had better start shopping for some rubber / plastic bed sheets.

Have a Great Sat & Sun,

Diane

I have received my order and I am very pleased with it. Thank you for keeping in such good contact with me about the status of my order. I will defiantly be ordering from you again.

In Regard To The Joanne Web Case

I know the case against Joanne Webb was dismissed, but WHY are adds allowed, especially featuring Bob Dole, for Viagra (and others like Cialis) that is an "item designed to stimulate the genitals". Are companies afforded more rights under the constitution than individuals? To my recollection, drug companies are never mentioned in the Bill of Rights, nor are they recognized by the government as a protected class (nor are aging Republicans with sexual dysfunction)? Either get rid of the sexual repressiveness or get rid of the ads!

Dear Lisa,

This is the second time I have written. The first time I shared our experiences with female ejaculation, something my wife has done for 25 years. It told a little about how we made the discovery and more important, how we have never stopped once we made the discovery.

Sex may not be as frequent today as it was then, but we still take the time to make sure she has several ejaculations during our love making. I wanted to share with you some observations I have made since I first emailed you which might help some readers of your newsletter. As we get started at building excitement, I notice the following sequence of events prior to my wife’s ejaculations.

Her vagina is contracting strong enough to put pressure on a finger if inserted, enough to almost force it out. She produces a more creamy fluid that oozes out. The quantity is greater than normal lubricating and it is slick. She has several vaginal contractions during this period, and then she begins to release fluids. The first is a short burst, as is usually the second, but after that they are two to three second expulsions with considerable force. She can do that five, six times or more, enough that we use a good size bath towel.

Every now and then, not always, she ejaculates during intercourse and I can feel the force of the expulsion. I hope this is worth while. In thinking back to when we were younger, I think we knew my wife was ready for penetration when she was contracting and lubricating. I believe my point is that you still have to wait a few more minutes before the real, intense ejaculations start. It is well worth the wait. My wife told my daughter about your tape and she ordered it.

Jim

Hi Lisa,

I got your video and I have read some what of your book that you have send me And I really find this to be very interesting. I read your EMail today. I have to tell you I have in the past when my Husband is away have got 10 to 15 in a hour. And I get pretty relaxed. My Husband is all excited to have me do this new thing but I don't feel right doing this practicing in front of him. . I have told him I am going to do this alone no problem their. I love you video. I tried one night But it didn't work Do you have to stimulate the G spot to make it swell? Stimulate all over but I guess I never thought their is a certain spot in order to squirt like this. Is it ok to feel like I need to be along to make this work. With nobody around? I can pleasure my self I can reach orgasm in 2 to 3 minutes so maybe I can the other to. I will keep watching your video and read you book . O I am 50 years old and I think I can do this with practice. I will keep you update. Right now I am in my monthly for 3 days so I have to hang low till its over Keep you in touch,

Diana

Dear Lisa:

I am a 55 year old female, and my boyfriend is 58. This had never happened to me or him in our whole lives. One night after having protected sex, we discovered the bed linens were soaking. He looked at me and asked me if I lost control of my bladder during sex. At first, I thought he was nuts, but there was no explanation for the wet bed, his condom was intact. We just stared at each other. I never figured out what that was until I read your article about female ejaculation. I tried to tell my boyfriend about it, but he doesn't believe me that there's such a thing as this. I wish more people were better informed about this kind of thing! I don't have the video, and don't know how it happened, but at least now I understand that it did! Thanks so much for your informative website!!! I really enjoy it.

I have found your site informative. I have learned things that I do not know about (...because of the way I am...shy). You seem to know what you all are talking bout and I hope to learn more from you.

Hi,

I was looking for ways to give my husband more pleasure and I found your website, thank you it is wonderful, I have female ejaculations and at first they terrified me but I knew it wasn't urine, I can't hold that much! My problem is that I have had 5 children and I have a very large rectocele, a prolapsed bladder and uterus as a result of childbirth, and of course with all these problems my vagina is just not as tight as I would like for it to be. I have just had my last 2 children in the past 18 months, the baby is 2 months old. My husband and I have had discussions on this because I feel undesirable because I don't feel he gets as much from intercourse and I would like to know if there is anything I can do to make vaginal sex more pleasurable for both of us. Oral sex is something I feel I do not lack in and we have just now started to become more open about sex, we have been together for ten years and sex has always been a sore point between us unt! il recently. He never wanted to, now that he does I don't want to give up the frequency because he doesn't get enough from it.

Thank you, Rhonda

Hi Lisa,

First of all let us say keep the good work up! We find your letters most interesting and helpful we may be in our early 60s but as they say your never to old to learn, Secondly Lisa may I say your a good looking lady to. Well, we are writing to say many thanks for the DVD on female ejaculation we found it most useful and may I say we are getting there to.

K&J in the UK

Hello Lisa:

This is Gary just wanted to say thanks for sending the C.D. me and my wife Joanna enjoyed it very much and it was very informative. We are looking forward to by more of your products. And we loved to sample candle that came with it also...

Lisa,

As parents of young children I have to say it is a true challenge to keep our sex life alive and strong. My husband thought I spent too much on this new toy (my Liberator wedge) but boy o boy is he happy now! Correction - we are both absolutely beyond thrilled. It's so much fun to use and to think up new and different variations. (We don't exactly need that guide book that comes with the wedge!) Anyway - you can be certain that I am recommending Liberator to all my friends. I think the wedge is a bedroom essential no matter what your situation....

Thanks so much,
Jayne

Dear Holistic Wisdom,

I have been visiting your website for awhile now and am always left with a kind of sad/sick feeling whenever I read your stuff. It's not because of anything y'all say or do, it's me. I can never imagine being able to really enjoy sex and nakedness. I am an attractive woman in my early 40's, widowed, with 3 grown children. My husband was a kind and loving man, but we were very shy about sexual matters. It was always hard for us to discuss private things. Maybe we thought there was a moral boundary we would be crossing or that we were just not supposed to like sex...just do it. I look at the different positions you showed in one newsletter and I don't understand how a woman gets to be so open as to let a man actually look at her genitals. I was married for 22 years and we never saw each other naked in the light. I wish we would not have been so afraid. You might think this is so dumb, but we just were really bashful even though we were married. I'm grateful to Miss Lisa and Mr. John for imparting their openness to others. It must be wonderful to be like they are. Thank you for reading my letter.

Bye, Clara

I would just like to say I love getting your newsletters, they are very interesting and informative, thanks for providing such a good free service.

Rachel.

Hi Lisa,

I don't know if this is the right place to send this but I just wanted to say this has got to be one of the most informative sites on the Internet. I never fail to learn something new and look forward to reading it every week. Keep up the good work & keep them coming.

Duane

In Regard To The Joanne Web Case

Dear Joanne & Chris and kids

You are modern heroes ... You are modern angels ... You are wonderful ... You are sent by God (the REAL God, whose REAL missionaries always pay high prices to do their work of bringing REAL light where there is REAL darkness) ... You are so inspiring in many terms! Watching a TV report about you and the case in Texas I felt how wrong and backwards the local law have treated you. I don’t have other ways to express my support and profound admiration for you and for your work other than by sending this EMail Know that you all are in my prayers (I never do my sacred things in any church. It’s in between me and HIM/HER/THEM in the privacy of my heart and mind, where your work comes as a healing) Love, love, love, much love to you (beautiful family!) and to all the ones surrounding you with their gifts (their legal, social, moral, spiritual, ... supports). More love!!!

Cesar B.
San Francisco, CA

MY DECLARATION OF SELF-ESTEEM I AM ME

In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything that comes out of me is authentically mine. Because I alone choose it - I own everything about me. My body, My feelings, My mouth, My voice, All my actions, whether they be to others or to myself - I own My fantasies, My dreams, My hopes, My fears - I own all my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes. Because I own all of me, I can become intimately acquainted with me - by so doing I can love me and be friendly with me in all my parts - I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other aspects that I do not know - but as long as I am friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously and hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles and for ways to find out more about me - However I look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically me - if later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought and felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that which is unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that which I discarded - I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do. I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be productive, and to make sense and order out of the world of people and things outside of me - I own me, and therefore I can engineer me - and I am me and I AM OKAY

(by Virginia Satir)

I've taken a great liking to your website, and I must admit that it has been extraordinarily helpful in helping myself and my girlfriend in our sex life. We both enjoy reading the newsletters, and we have picked up a number of sexual tips in terms of her sexual pleasure. We really appreciate it, and hope things go well for the site. Cheers, Michael