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November 19, 2004
Articles In This Issue...

~ See What's On Sale
   
Check Out Our Sale & Clearance Items!

~ Male Masturbation Techniques
   
Creative Ways To Love Your One Eyed Snake

~ New Products
   
Check Out Our Latest Additions

~ Oprah Covers Swinging & Infidelity
   
What Do Swingers Do & Why Are More Women Cheating?

~ Ask Lisa
   
Q&A From Our Readers To Our Founder

~ The Holistic Wisdom Charity Raffle! NEW!
   
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~ The Holistic Wisdom Reader's Forum
   
Comments From Our Readers


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The Sexual Wisdom™ Section    
   
Sex In The News

~ Beckham Spends $1.8 Million On Sex Toy For Wife
~ Florida Woman's Sex Toy Lawsuit Against Delta Goes to Appeals

~ FDA Orders "Wild Thing" Viagra Ad Pulled
~ Cross Dressing Causes Homosexuality?

~ Woman Breast Feeds Her Dog
~ HBO's Real Sex & Homegrown Video

~ Women of McDonalds: Playboy
~ Porn Spammers Are Sued By Microsoft

~ eContent Ratings In Taiwan
~ Nuns Have A Alcohol & Sex Filled Vacation
~ Spencer Gifts Charged In Selling Sex Toys
~ Adult Businesses Are Under Attack
~ Tornado Exposes Child Porn
~ Ways Conservatives Are Making Sexual Educators Jobs Challenging

~ Are You Male Or Bitch?
~ The Price Of Fear
~ Woman Attacks Couple For Not Having Sex

 

 

Quote of the Week-

You know "that look" women get when they want sex?

Me neither.

-Steve Martin

 

 

Sex Joke of the Week-

A young boy was looking through the family album and asked his mother, "Who's this guy on the beach with you with all the muscles and curly hair?" "That's your father." "Then who's that old bald-headed fat man who lives with us now?"

 

 

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Male Masturbation Techniques
Creative Ways To Love Your One Eyed Snake

Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
Holistic Wisdom Founder

 

Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., CEO

Member of American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists
( AASECT )

 

There are many ways for men to pleasure themselves. Here are just a few tips. If you would like to share your favorite or most creative method, let us know and we can post it in our Readers Forum in the next newsletter edition.

Fisting It

This is a very common technique in that you simply wrap your fingers around the shaft of your penis like a baseball bat and rub it up and down. It provides lots of contact between your hand and penis — and more contact means more pleasure. You can reverse grip it from this technique as well for a different sensation.

Fingering It

You can use all of your fingers to only two for this technique. With fingers on top of the shaft at a diagonal and your thumb below. Simply running your fingers along the shaft like this can provide a soft and mesmerizing effect.


The Blow Job-

In order to simulate the feeling of lips sliding over your penis, lube up your erection and hold the shaft in one hand while you put your dominant hand's index and middle fingers together horizontally, palm toward your face, in front of the penis head. Push the head into the gap between the fingers. The fingers should be relaxed, not tense. Now pull back and do this over and over the top third of your penis. Feel how the fingers conform to the penis's contour as they slide over the head and back. As you do this, position your other hand behind the "lips" your fingers are making and grip and squeeze the head as you push the penis in.


Mattress Love-

Get a plastic sandwich baggie, saran wrap or bubble wrap and put some lubricant in it. Then put your penis in and move it around to make sure your penis is fully lubricated. Once that is done, kneel in front of a bed. Lift the up mattress and put your penis, with the baggie, bubble wrap, etc. still inside it, between the mattress and the box-spring. Start thrusting in and out as if you were having sex. Bonus is the easy clean up- when you're done, all you have to do is throw away the baggie and wipe yourself off.

Sock & Condom-

Get a condom that's a little too big for your penis, fill the tip with water and water-based lube. Now get your penis wet and slippery and slide on the condom, getting rid of any air bubbles. Unroll it all the way so it has some excess at the end. It should feel super-smooth and should slide without much friction. Get a soft and elastic sock, and turn the open part inside out over the toe part. Carefully pull it over your penis while making sure there's still some slack at the end of the condom. Lie down on your couch, hold the cushions apart with one hand, pull the sock down in with the other, and settle into a lying-down position. If the lubrication is right, the slightest movement will make your penis slip one way or the other.

Bananarama-

Simply peel a banana, slip the peel over your penis, and masturbate with it. The banana slime is a cool natural lubricant. You can warm up the peel in the microwave for added sensations. Just be careful not to overheat to avoid burning yourself! Also, you might have better results if you peel the banana by making just one cut in the peel and removing the fruit through the single cut; you can then cut off the end of the banana peel and insert your penis through that end.

Dress You Up In My Love-

Using a soft piece of fabric or clothing (silk is the best- such as silk boxers, but you can also use velvet, satin, etc.) Lie down, and place the cloth over your penis. Then, with both hands rub the fabric to the left and the right, with the silk touching the sensitive underside of your penis. But don't rub too fast or you will get the equivalent of carpet burn from the friction. You can enhance the feeling by draping some of the fabric over your scrotum so it gets stimulated, too.

Veggie Melt -

Select an eggplant, cucumber, zucchini that is sufficiently larger than your erect penis. Cut a hole in the peel that's the exact size of the base of your erect penis. Then make a hole in the pulp smaller than your erection (using a broom handle works well). Then put the eggplant in the microwave for about a minute, just so it gets warm inside and starts to get a little soft, but don't really cook it. Then, after you make sure with your finger that the inside is cool enough, put in some lube (try coconut oil), put the eggplant between a couple of pillows thrust away. You can lie on your back and just move the veggie back and forth on your erect penis. In addition, cantaloupe, watermelon are fruits that work well.

Pasta Masta -

Cook some noodles in boiling water, pour off the excess water, and let the noodles cool off. Then make a penis-size hole in the pasta, which should be fairly stuck together at this stage. Then away you go. The wet pasta should be enough for a lube. Caution: Don't be too eager with this one — to avoid burning yourself, the pasta must have cooled enough so you could hold a finger inside it without any problem. You can also use lasagna noodles to wrap around and slide up an down your shaft and head. Add oil or lubricant for a smooth glide.

Endurance

Set a timer, alarm clock, or digital watch to go off in 20 minutes and don't let yourself ejaculate until the timer goes off. You can increase the time if you desire. Waiting will increase the anticipation because the alarm could ring at any second. Try to hover right on the edge so you can orgasm immediately when the alarm rings. It may seem like an eternity! It's especially good if the alarm has a fairly long ringing cycle. If it continues to ring as you begin ejaculating, it will heighten the sense of urgency and tension relief.

 

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Grabbing His Behind
Making Him Tight
Hand Job Combo
Vacuum
Double Penetration
Teeth Guards
Thigh Highs
Hummers
The Harmonica
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Hot & Cold
Women's Lubricant
Hands On Your Head
Adore The Cock


Penis Anatomy
Messes
Orgasms
Perineum Love
Anal Love
Nipple Love
Mouth Love
Fatigue Warning
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Oprah Covers Swinging & Infidelity
What Do Swingers Do & Why Are More Women Cheating?

Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
Holistic Wisdom Founder

Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., CEO

Oprah is of course a leader among women and I was so happy to see that she covered these topics as they are truly important to be educated and speak openly about these things.

I couldn't help but think about the guests that appeared on the show and how coming out in public with the life styles that they chose for themselves would ultimately affect them. I think that they may find themselves surprised at how much positive and negative feedback they will receive as this is a topic that people get worked up about.

Shocking Swingers!

Obviously Oprah's staff looked for the most shocking types of people to reveal as swingers for that segment of the show; constantly saying things that reinforced their personalities to be the least likely type of person to do something like this.

For example they kept mentioning that the swinger guests were Ph.D.s, Masters educated, had children, was a minister, or even ran a Brownie group. I had to chuckle when they kept emphasizing that because I think people are truly so taken in by someone's "credentials" and in turn tend to make those who seem stereotypically "wholesome" seem incapable of sexual activity that involves anything out of mainstream. The reality is that it simply does not matter if you are a Ph.D. or a grade school drop out... your sexual preference is not dictated by education or social status. We are all human after all and have individual needs that work with our own sexuality.

For example, Tina and Sam have been married for 22 years and have three children together. They're basically upstanding citizens, they go to church every week, both have their Ph.D.s, and they also say they are kind of "boring" people.

However what most people do not know about Tina and Sam is that they are swingers, often having intercourse with other couples. They both look to clubs, or the Internet to meet other like-minded couples.

Tina expressed that for them, they felt that swinging enhances their experiences with one another. "Some of the best sex we've ever had is after we've been with somebody else," said Tina. Tim did provide a warning to the audience by saying of swinging that "This is a magnifier. If you have problems in your relationship, it's not something you should try."

What Is Healthy?

I think where there is the most confusion is how to know when a relationship is healthy and when it is not. The answer to that is complex, but to simplify... it is healthy when you are doing what fulfills you and allows for you to be empowered and furthers your growth. It is unhealthy when you cause harm to yourself or someone else (such as lying, cheating, and doing things that lower your integrity).

The best way to know what is right for you and/or your partner is to COMMUNICATE. If there is one thing that I could stress above all else in regard to what makes a relationship or sex great it is communication.

My husband and I have spent a great deal of time and effort to make sure that we speak with one anther. We do not assume that what we once felt or thought will always be the case because we respect that we are always evolving as people and as a couple. We find it essential to communicate about what we want in our lives from our sex life to our relationship. Without that communication I can't imagine that we would have the deep and loving marriage that we have.

For example, we touch base with one another to see how we are doing. We will ask if we are feeling satisfied with one another in specific areas and if not we discuss how we can improve. It is a great idea to envision a relationship as a car that will need to be fine tuned and provided maintenance over the years. Without that, it will breakdown just as many marriages breakup.

When my husband and I discussed having an open relationship and joining a swingers lifestyle neither of us felt that we would be happy with that path and so we have decided to have a closed monogamous relationship which has happily served us.

However, we do check in with one another to discuss whether we ever think about that or if we are feeling that our choice no longer serves us. So far we continue to desire a monogamous marriage, but the fact that we take the time to openly ask is what I believe is just one of the ways we show respect for one another through a willingness to truly explore one another's desires, insecurities, and other important aspects.

That is why many swingers will tell you they are happy. Swingers that are successful at their lifestyle are so because they do the same thing. They lovingly communicate with one another allowing open dialog that provides trust, safety and respect. When you do this in a monogamous relationship or an open one you will find a happier relationship.

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If you are someone who is interested in swinging but are not sure if it is for you. Make sure to read our article on Swinging & Becoming A Swinger.

 

Increase In Infidelity Among Women

Newsweek recently exposed a well-kept secret—the sex lives of American wives. What they've discovered is startling. With over 15 percent of women cheating on their husbands one must look at not only why there is a shift but why they do it.

Why The Shift?

One of the things that Oprah and her guests agreed upon was that marriage is changing. People are looking outside of what is defined as a "traditional marriage" to find what is right for them. Part of the reason is that women's roles on society have changed. With more than 60% of women in the work force and over 25% of those women earning more than their male partners, women are taking a different approach to sex.

Why They Do It?

Adrienne Lopez and Stephanie Gertler are journalists who have written a new book called To Love, Honor and Betray: The Secret Life of Suburban Wives. They found that women who were cheating on their husbands would end the affair if they were treated differently by their husbands. Yet, that conclusion sounds a bit one sided. It seems that if a woman or man cheats on their significant other married or not that there is more than just not being treated well.

 

Stephanie Gertler almost tearfully told the Oprah audience "we would ask them, If you came home one evening after having this affair, and you walked in the house and your husband had votive candles lit and was dressed beautifully, and he had a stew on the stove and a bottle of wine, and he looked at you and said, 'Tell me how to love you, tell me what it is I need to do to show you I love you,' what would you do? Would you leave your lover?" And every one of them cried and said that's what they want. They want their marriage. They want their husband.

Problem with a statement like that is the focus then becomes the cheater now appearing to be the victim. This is simply not the case in most situations. The truth is usually that neither partner has made an effort to make their relationship work.

Learn more about our views on Infidelity

 

 

 

 

 

Ask
Lisa

With hundreds of eMails coming in every day and while I answer man, it is not possible for me to reply to all of them. However, I wanted to provide a section where we take some of our readers questions and post them on our web site so that we can provide answers so that everyone can benefit from having the information available on our web site.

To submit your question such as those shown below eMail us for consideration of publishing it in our next newsletter.

See all of Lisa's Q&A Under Relationship & Sex Advice

 

Hi Lisa,

Does the vagina tighten up after a period of inactivity? I am seeing a woman who has not had sex in over two years and her vagina seems very tight. We had sex for the first time and she says that it is so tight because of not having had sex for so long and it hurt a little bit. Can that be accurate?

-Jerry

 

Hi Jerry,

Yes, vaginal tightness can occur from inactivity. Of course there are other reasons for tightness including menopause, psychological tension, and even lack or lubrication.

However, a woman's vagina can become tighter with inactivity alone. If it is painful for her then I recommend starting with finger activities that will help to stretch her opening a bit and a lot of lubricant. Take things slowly at first once you enter her with your penis and check in with her to make sure she is not experiencing pain. After about 3-4 times she should feel that she can take you in without too much friction. If she is still experiencing pain she may want to be examined by her OBGYN for other potential causes.

 

Hi Lisa,

Why do I sometimes cry after having an orgasm?

-Kerry

 

Hi Kate,

The sexual response cycle works like this:

1) A woman feels a slight interest in having a sexual experience and feels a
    "vague stirring" phase.

2) She may become aroused and feel actual desire for sexual expression.

3) She will experience excitement, during which many physiological changes
     occur, followed by heightened arousal at the plateau phase.

4) Then comes her orgasm, at which point she releases all the pent-up energy
     and blood engorgement that has accumulated.

5) She finds a resolution and sense of fulfillment.

All along these phases are indicators, such as change in color, increased breathing, swelling of genital tissue and hardness and wetness of the male and female sex organs. Throughout this process of arousal through to the "pop" of orgasm, energy is amassing and must be discharged. That energy may take the form of whatever the body is capable of releasing so that it may show up as crying.

Know that this is a perfectly wonderful means for letting out both feelings and energy. Crying, for you, may be your body's way of telling you it has completed a dance, or an intense journey, through sex. Be sure that you have thoroughly checked inside to make sure that these tears are of joy, not sadness or something else that may stem from a past wound around relationships, sex or your body image. Then go forth in delight that you can enjoy so much emotional juice. It's terrific that you can feel, express and know that you are truly alive.

 

 

 

 

 

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Holistic Wisdom
Readers Forum

This section allows our readers to provide feedback regarding articles and topics on our web site. All correspondence from our readers is with their permission. Opinions expressed through our forum are not necessarily our own, but we believe in the freedom of speech and allow for those who wish to be heard an opportunity to express themselves.

To submit your opinions such as those shown below eMail us for consideration of publishing it in our next newsletter.

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Lisa,

I wanted to let you know that I saw the movie- Kinsey as you reviewed in your last newsletter and I felt you were right on the money. It was a great movie and well worth my time. Keep up the good work in bringing more enlightenment and empowerment to sexuality!

Sincerely,

Jane S.

 

 

Hi Lisa,

I just wanted to say that I love your newsletter. My husband and I read it every week. We have always been sexually adventurous, but have learned so much from your articles not to mention use the toys you sell. We just wanted to share with you how much we love the Waterdancer that you sell because it is so quiet and discreet we take it everywhere! My husband even used it on me in the park! Humming away in Michigan...

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Hi,

My wife and I loved your video. We just got it yesterday and she is already able to ejaculate in gushes! She swears you have changed her into a new woman with the sexual releases she had and I am just here to thank you. We are so impressed with your site and the education that you have provided us. After having been married for 17 years you would think we would know it all, but we are finding ourselves like teenagers through our lack of really knowing what will make us scream out in delight to feeling new and alive sexually with one another!

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Sex In The News

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Beckham Spends $1.8 Million On Sex Toy For Wife

English soccer ace David Beckham has spent a staggering $1.8 million on the world's most expensive sex toy as a present for his pregnant wife Victoria. The platinum vibrator, with a 10-carat diamond encrusted base linked to a 16-carat diamond necklace, is one of only 10 in the world -- and was created by London strip-club owner Peter Stringfellow. Stringfellow reveals Rolling Stone veteran Mick Jagger is also keen to purchase one of the buzzing toys for his girlfriend L'Wren Scott.

 


Florida Woman's Sex Toy Lawsuit
Against Delta Goes to Appeals

Renee Koutsouradis of Tarpon Springs, Fla., was on a Delta Air Lines jet awaiting takeoff from Dallas when her name was called over the loudspeaker and she was pulled from the plane. Something was buzzing in her luggage. When taken to the taxiway, she told a Delta security agent that the buzzing was likely coming from a sex toy she and her husband had just bought during their trip to Las Vegas.

She was then ordered to remove the toy, hold it up and remove its batteries, all in full view of some other passengers on her flight. She claims a baggage handler then licked his lips and made sexually inappropriate comments as other Delta employees laughed.

Renee has suffered nightmares and panic attacks and has been treated for post-traumatic stress disorder because of the incident. It says she was most disturbed by the "offensive and outrageous" comments made by the Delta baggage handler about her sex life. "

She felt that in order for this to not happen to someone else she was going to have to stand up to the airline," said Craig Berman, Koutsouradis's attorney from St. Petersburg, Fla. "She is facing further embarrassment to correct wrongdoing."

Koutsouradis is seeking unspecified damages from Delta. Because it's in federal court. Last October, the judge dismissed it, saying federal aviation laws protect airline workers from lawsuits while they are performing their jobs.

Koutsouradis' attorneys say the law should not have applied to this case. "Obviously, making sexual comments is not an airline service," Berman said. "You can handle bags without offering a sexual service."

 


FDA Orders "Wild Thing" Viagra Ad Pulled

The government ordered Pfizer Inc. to discontinue ads that promised better sex for men taking Viagra because they failed to disclose known risks associated with the drug. The commercial features a leering middle-aged man whose head sprouts blue devil horns that become the "V" in Viagra.

In a letter, the agency says the ad fails to provide necessary information about the drug's known risks and side effects, such as heart risks. And while the commercial proclaims that with Viagra, the guy who used to be known as "Wild Thing" is back -- the FDA says there's no substantial evidence that the drug can deliver better sex. Pfizer has already removed the ad from its Web site and says it's also being pulled from TV. The company is drafting a formal reply to the FDA's letter.

 


Cross Dressing Causes Homosexuality?

This is news to me! I did not even know they were related... oh, that is right they aren't! Yes, Texas has another person up in arms about sexuality. It turns out that a homecoming tradition in which boys dress like girls and vice versa in a tiny Texas school district won't be held after a homophobic parent complained about what she regarded as the event's homosexual overtones.

Despite the fact that the school has done this during their spirit week for not just years, but generations it seems a bit odd that someone would suddenly complain. However, Delana Davies, 33, said she complained after reading a school notice about it. Davies, whose 9-year-old son and 4-year-old daughter attend Spurger Elementary, said she viewed the day not as a silly Homecoming Week activity, but rather something related to homosexuality. ``It's like experimenting with drugs,'' Davies said. ``You just keep playing with it and it becomes customary. ... If it's OK to dress like a girl today, then why is it not OK in the future?''

First of all Delana, let me explain to you that many cross dressers are not gay, so you may want to expand your mind a bit before you begin your backward crusade. What we do know is that men who have had life long desires to be a cross dresser have been found to have brains much like a female and that it is truly a physical and chemical difference that comes into play.

Secondly, having kids dress up for fun as the opposite sex is not going to contribute to someone choosing a life of homosexuality. I know that many people think that gays develop from such ridiculous things, and we also thought that masturbation could make you blind or grow hair on your palms. Time we all joined this century and be a bit more educated on the topics that we as people tend to go running around preaching hate and fear about... shall we?

 


Woman Breast Feeds Her Dog

As you read this just remember that we think this woman is a bit off her rocker... A woman in New Zealand says she is breast feeding her pet puppy because she wants it to protect her baby daughter as they both grow up. Kura Tumanakosaid that she had started breast feeding her Staffordshire bull terrier pup after her 2 month old baby stopped taking her milk. "I didn't want to waste it so I gave it to Honey Boy. He drinks more than the baby. It doesn't hurt, but it's a little bit ticklish," she said.

 


HBO's Real Sex & Homegrown Video

Amateur video production house Homegrown Video will be featured on HBO’s Real Sex: Pornucopia: Women On Top, today- November 19, 2004. The show’s producers shot clips with HomegrownVideo.com contributors Seska and her husband James discussing why they broadcast their sex lives on the Web.

It will also feature Homegrown Video president Farrell Timlake talking about the impact of the Internet on Adult entertainment and his company’s role in popularizing the amateur niche. “The interview went very well and they were very flattering. It wasn’t like a trap where they tell you they’re going to talk to you about one thing and then they corner you with something else. It was very much lovey-dovey about what we do.”

With the mainstream’s continued fascination with Adult entertainment, Timlake has been approached to do interviews with numerous media outlets. He taped a segment for ABC news magazine 20/20, which he said is scheduled to air in December. “They all want to tell the same story. They just try to tell it over and over again,” Timlake said.

 


Women of McDonalds: Playboy

Playboy.com unveiled their latest “Women Of” series– the Women of McDonalds. The series, which follows the Women of Starbucks and Women of Wal-Mart, Women of Home Depot, among others, is exclusive to the Playboy Cyber Club.

Six women were chosen to shed their clothes from hundreds of entries submitted by employees of the fast food giant.

“I’ve heard about Playboy.com doing other ‘Women of’ pictorials so when I heard they were interested in employees from McDonald’s, I knew I wanted to submit my photos,” said Cristy Creighton, one of the Women of McDonald’s models. “The experience of posing for Playboy has been so exciting and I am honored to have been chosen as one of the models for this pictorial.”

The women appearing in the pictorial are Amanda Bell of Surrey, British Columbia, Cristy Creighton of Louisville, Kentucky, Jennifer Takach of Erie, Pennsylvania, Randy Occhialini of Winter Park, Florida, Shawnna Getzinger of Bowling Green, Ohio, and Wanda Coallier of Vancouver, Canada. In addition to the pictorial, Cyber Club members can also view submission galleries containing photos submitted by other McDonalds employees.

 


Porn Spammers Are Sued By Microsoft

Microsoft has sued a group of porn spammers it accuses of sending unsolicited porn eMails to millions of MSN Hotmail and Internet Access customers.

The litigation accuses the unnamed spammers of placing "a tremendous burden on Microsoft" by flooding MSN and Access users with spam aimed at luring them to porn sites.

 


eContent Ratings In Taiwan

Taiwan intends to impose an Internet content ratings system similar to movie ratings starting in late October 2005.

The Taiwanese GIO said Internet content under the coming ratings system would likely fall under four categories, general, protection (barred from children under six years old), PG18 (barred from those under 12 years old, with those 12-18 requiring parental or guardianship accompaniment), and restricted (adults only).

The government intends for city and county governments to enforce the ratings, though it isn't yet determined exactly what kind of content beyond porn and violent content might be considered adults only or acceptable for kids joined by their parents.

The government may also fine Internet service providers and content providers alike in six figures and order their suspension from operations, if they fail to grade their information under the guidelines of the coming ratings system, the CIO said.

 


Nuns Have A Alcohol & Sex Filled Vacation

Twelve American nuns have been suspended from their convent after going on an alcohol and sex fueled holiday. The women, all aged between 22 and 31, went on the Club 18-30 holiday without telling anyone where they were going. During the trip it has been claimed the nuns slept with a total of 43 men between them on the two-week trip. Every single one of the "holy women" confessed to what they had been up to. Amazingly the 12 ladies tried to excuse their behavior by claiming they wanted to experience sin.

 


Spencer Gifts Charged In Selling Sex Toys

The Tupelo Police Department in northeast Mississippi recently charged a Spencer Gifts clerk with the distribution of unlawful sexual devices. The American Family Association were behind the bust.

The state of Mississippi forbids a person to knowingly sell, advertise, publish, or exhibit "to any person any three-dimensional device designed or marketed as useful primarily for the stimulation of human genital organs."

After sending an undercover agent into the mall store to purchase one of the sexual devices, local law enforcement officers found the clerk in violation of the state law.

Following the sting operation, officers went into the store and seized approximately $2,000 worth of merchandise that may fall in this category. The maximum penalty for violating the law is a fine of $5,000 and six months imprisonment. He also noted that Mississippi is not the only state with laws that regulate the sale of sexual devices -- Alabama, Colorado, Georgia, Kansas, Louisiana, Oklahoma, and Texas have similar laws.

Spencer Gifts, which is owned by Gordon Brothers Group, is located in all of those states -- and has a total of 660 stores throughout the U.S. and 27 in Canada.

 


Adult Businesses Are Under Attack

Efforts by local governments to regulate adult businesses have spawned legal battles across the country, with at least 10 cases decided by federal appeals courts this year. "There is more adult-business litigation under way now than I've ever seen," said C. Michael Hatzell, a lawyer who represents several adult businesses in a dispute with Louisville, KY.

Seven of the 10 rulings handed down by federal courts this year have gone against adult businesses. Governments appear to be doing a better job of drafting ordinances that don't violate the free-speech rights of the business owners a typical argument in litigation.

The most recent Supreme Court decision on the matter, issued in June, reinforced local governments' authority to license adult businesses. It answered a question about how adult-business operators must be allowed to appeal adverse decisions by municipal officials, he said.

In the New Albany case, the lawyer for New Albany DVD argues that the city violated his clients' First Amendment rights by closing the store and that it must submit specific evidence about the impact of adult businesses on neighborhoods if it wants to keep the store from reopening. City officials shut the store down by citing its lack of building and zoning permits. New Albany DVD's operators said the city illegally refused to perform a final inspection they had requested.

 


Tornado Exposes Child Porn

In Frederick, Maryland workers repairing a home damaged in a tornado discovered nearly two dozen boxes filled with child pornography. The homeowner, Robert L. Medvee, 52, was charged with 48 counts of creating computer images of child pornography and 48 counts of possession of child pornography, sheriff's Deputy Jennifer Bailey said.

The seized material -- computer discs, videotapes and photographs -- filled 20 to 24 boxes, Frederick County State's Attorney Scott Rolle said. "It was the largest seizure of child pornography I've ever seen. We had to bring in a pickup truck to get all of it out of there."

 


Just One Of Many Ways Conservatives Are Making Sexual Educators Jobs Challenging

Minnesota AIDS Project (MAP) submitted a brochure for approval to the Minnesota Department of Health aimed at preventing the spread of HIV. The pamphlet featured four photographs of a man demonstrating how to don a condom.

MAP intended to distribute the provocative literature at gay bars and other locales as part of its "safer sex kit." But shortly after the brochure was delivered to the health department, MAP received a strange request.

The state agency asked the organization to provide a "model release," basically a signed waiver from the man whose penis was featured rather graphically in the brochure.

One problem: the organization had no idea whose penis was featured on the literature. The image had been pulled from a website. Since there was no way to obtain a release form, the AIDS organization was forced to hire a model and recreate the images to use on the pamphlet.

"What should've been a no-brainer became a three-month process," recalls Bob Tracy, MAP's director of development. "That is the way bureaucracies are able to shut you down without coming right out and saying, You can't do this." MAP and other AIDS organizations fear that they will soon run into more such hurdles in attempting to do effective prevention work, especially among gay men.

In June, the Centers for Disease Control issued new proposed guidelines for prevention materials that have raised serious concerns among AIDS service organizations. If implemented, all federally funded prevention materials, including web content, would have to be green-lighted by a local or state health agency.

The purpose of the new requirement is supposedly to ensure that the materials are scientifically accurate and not obscene. In the past, nonprofit groups have had the option of creating their own panel to review literature. Many AIDS officials fear that the change will lead to censorship, bureaucratic meddling, and, ultimately, less effective efforts to prevent the spread of HIV.

This is not the only troubling provision in the proposed regulations. In addition, all federally funded prevention materials would be required to include information warning people that condoms are not 100 percent fail-safe. AIDS organizations fear that this will have the practical impact of discouraging people from using condoms.

"Condoms are an effective way to stop transmission of HIV," says Tracy. "To say otherwise is inaccurate." A 60-day public comment period on the proposed changes ended in August. The CDC is expected to announce the final regulations by mid-December. The changes are part of a larger, nationwide trend of attacks on organizations that run prevention efforts aimed at gay men.

The most notorious recent example is that of the STOP AIDS Project, a San Francisco nonprofit group that has long been a pioneer in developing effective, often provocative, safe-sex programs. Starting in 2001, the organization was beset by a string of federal audits questioning its financial integrity and programmatic effectiveness.

More tellingly, the group was criticized for supposedly promoting sexual activity. Even though the feds found no significant shortcomings, in July STOP AIDS Project was denied federal prevention funding. Jason Riggs, communications director for STOP AIDS Project, believes that the elimination of funding was simply a backhanded way to punish the organization even though the government couldn't find any wrongdoing by the group. "You can't prove it, but it feels like it," he says.

The government harassment of STOP AIDS Project has had a ripple effect across the country, causing AIDS organizations to think twice before utilizing sexually explicit prevention materials. Tracy fears that the end result will be a gutting of effective safe-sex programs for gay men. "If we keep going down this road I can guarantee that in the next four years HIV intervention is going to be about reversion therapy," he says, referring to programs that attempt to convert gay people to heterosexuality. "We're going to be funding those programs as HIV prevention."

 


Are You Male Or Bitch?

A Spanish-language version of Windows XP, destined for Latin American markets, asked users to select their gender between "not specified," "male" or "bitch," because of an unfortunate error in translation.

 


The Price Of Fear

A San Diego woman said she drove home from Denver rather than submit to what she viewed as an intrusive search by airport security screeners.

Ava Kingsford, 36, said she was flagged down for a pat-down search at Denver International Airport last month as she prepared to board a flight home with her fiancé and 3-month-old son. Ava objected when a female screener with the Transportation Security Administration told her, "I'm going to feel your breasts now."

"She was patting me down, and frisking me, and basically covering all parts of my body, my legs, and wanding me with the security wand. And when I thought she had completed her search, she looks at me and said, 'I'm going to be feeling your breasts now,'" Kingsford said. "I was stunned, and I said, 'I beg your pardon?!" Ava said when she told the screener that she was uncomfortable with it, more security agents and police officers arrived.

They told her that she couldn't board her flight without submitting to the final step of the search. "I was shaking, I was sobbing. I couldn't believe that this was happening to me. It was surreal. It was like out of a movie, with these guys yelling at me, telling me that, yes, she has to feel my breasts or I'm not getting on my airplane," Ava said.

They took her to a private area to continue the search, but she said she was still uncomfortable with them touching her breasts so she tugged down her shirt to show them that she wasn't hiding anything. "And then they said, 'That's it. We're not going to complete the search and you're not boarding your plane,'" Kingsford said. "They escorted us out and said they didn't care how we got home, it wasn't their problem." She and her fiancé ended up renting a car for the 15-hour drive home.

 


Woman Attacks Couple For Not Having Sex

Julie Rose and her husband William, propositioned a foursome to their Mexican neighbors Marcio Morais and his wife Sandra Carvalho, by slipping a note under their door. However when the Rose's request was ignored they arrived at their neighbors house and put forth their suggestion. Marcio said that Julie slapped him when he asked her to leave, and punched his wife in the face when she tried to intervene. Rose denied charged assault, claiming self-defense, but was convicted and ordered to pay 130 pounds compensation.

 


Meet The Fockers~
Meet The Parents Sequel Shows Liberator Shapes!
In Theaters December 2004


Cast-
    Robert De Niro, Ben Stiller, Dustin Hoffman,
    Blythe Danner, Teri Polo and Barbra Streisand

Directed by-
   Jay Roach

Story by-
   Jim Herzfeld and John Hamburg

Screenplay by-
    Jim Herzfeld and John Hamburg and
    Vince Di Meglio & Tim Rasmussen

Based on Characters Created by-
    Greg Glienna & Mary Ruth Clarke

Produced by-
   Jane Rosenthal, Robert De Niro, Jay Roach

Executive Producers-
    Nancy Tenenbaum, Amy Sayres

Universal Pictures/DreamWorks Pictures

The makers and stars behind the runaway hit of 2000,
Meet the Parents
, are re-united-and joined by some formidable future in-laws in the the follow-up comedy, Meet the Fockers.

Now that Greg Focker (Ben Stiller) is "in" with his soon-to-be in-laws, Jack (Robert De Niro) and Dina (Blythe Danner) Byrnes, it looks like smooth sailing for him and his fiancée, Pam (Teri Polo).

But that's before Pam's parents meet Greg's parents, Bernie and Roz Focker (Hoffman and Streisand). The hyper-relaxed Fockers and the tightly-wound Byrneses are woefully mismatched from the start, and no matter how hard Greg and Pam try, there is just no bringing their families together-which all adds up to a disastrously funny time of "getting to know you."

We learn that Bernie Focker (Hoffman) is a retired legal-aid lawyer and Roz Focker (Streisand) is a sex therapist for seniors.

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