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Sex In The News

March 21, 2005

Quote of the Week
"Neither a lofty degree of intelligence nor imagination nor both together go to the making of genius. Love, love, love, that is the soul of genius.

-Mozart

~ Gay Marriage Ban Ruled Unconstitutional
~ Attack On Tax Evasion & Porn Smells Fishy
~ Abstinence Only Education Is Ignorance Only
~ Obscenity Hearing In Washington, D.C.

~ No Porn In Your Car
~ Regulating Cable & The Internet
~ Prostitution Vs. Porn
~ Man Screws Dogs & Himself
~ Retirement Home For Prostitutes
~ Sex Doll Triggers Bomb Alert

~ Phone Sex Operator Gets Settlement
~ Caught With The Thongs That Were Wrong!
~ Designer Vaginas

 

Sex Joke of the Week-

Kid's Humor

How Can A Stranger Tell If Two People Are Married?

You might have to guess, based on whether they seem to be yelling at the same kids. - Derrick, age 8

What Do Most People Do On A Date?

Dates are for having fun, and people should use them to get to know each other. Even boys have something to say if you listen long enough. - Lynnette, age 8

On the first date, they just tell each other lies, and that usually gets them interested enough to go for a second date. - Martin, age 10

What Would You Do On A First Date That Was Turning Sour?

I'd run home and play dead. The next day I would call all the newspapers and make sure they wrote about me in all the dead columns. - Craig, age 9

When Is It Okay To Kiss Someone?

When they're rich. - Pam, age 7

The law says you have to be eighteen, so I wouldn't want to mess with that. - Curt, age 7

The rule goes like this: If you kiss someone, then you should marry them & have kids with them. It's the right thing to do. - Howard, age 8

Is It Better To Be Single or Married?

It's better for girls to be single but not for boys. Boys need someone to clean up after them. - Anita, age 9

How Would The World Be Different If People Didn't Get Married?

There sure would be a lot of kids to explain, wouldn't there? - Kelvin, age 8

 

 

The Art Of Fingering
Techniques On Pleasuring The Vagina

By Lisa & John Lawless
Holistic Wisdom Founders




Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., CEO
Many inexperience lovers out there take the term "finger fucking" too literally and believe that jamming their fingers into the soft folds of a woman's vagina is the way to go. Can we say "Ouch!"

The ultimate tip of this article is to suggest that you have a woman masturbate to show you what she likes first. We will say this many times... communication in any sexual experience is the key, and a visual display to show personal preference is not only arousing, but helpful!

Let's start with preparation-

~ Clean Hands-
You will want to wash hands well to make sure that you do not introduce harmful bacteria into the vagina or introduce it into the urethra.

~ Avoiding A Urinary Tract Infection (UTI)~
Unfortunately, there can be some negative side affects to making contact with the urethra. The urethra is sensitive and is easily irritated. It is fairly easy to expose the urethral to bacteria that is harmful when introduced and thus often results in a UTI. The activity that can cause a UTI can be sexual or non sexual.

A woman who wipes her genitals after urinating from the back (dragging harmful bacteria from the anal region to the urethra) can introduce the makings of a UTI. Any sexual activity that makes contact with the urethra whether it is from fingers, a sex toy, the mouth, the penis, etc. can result in painful urination and infection. To help prevent infections and reduce the chances of irritation, a woman should drink lots of water and urinate just before and right after urethral stimulation.

Taking precautions such as washing whatever is going to come into contact with the urethra beforehand may assist in preventing such an infection. If an infection occurs it is easily treated with antibiotics. If left untreated the infection can become more serious and spread into the kidneys.

If you ask most women who have had a UTI, they will tell you that it is pretty painful and something that you would go to a medical facility at 3am if you had to so that you could get some relief!

~ Shorten Finger Nails-
Trim fingernails, so as to not cause pain or tears.

~ Lubricant-
Have the necessary tools, and toys such as lubricant, STD protection (if needed). Using lubricant is always welcome, as no matter how excited and wet a woman gets, that moisture is easily taken away and rubbed onto the fingers and hand leaving her feeling a bit tender.

~ Atmosphere-
Creating a relaxing atmosphere can also include doing some sensual foreplay. Get into the mood doing such activities as: massage, using sweet or spiced body lotions or oils, soft kissing, a bubble bath, and many other creative ventures.

Finger tips that tease and play with the clitoris in the beginning of a fingerings session will create a nice introduction to getting a woman ready for penetration clitoral stimulation will provide a nice opening, so let's start by discussing the clitoral orgasm.

The Clitoral Orgasm

This orgasm occurs at the peak of clitoral stimulation. It begins with an intense sexual excitement within the clit and then as the orgasm peaks it surges waves of pleasure throughout the body. Only several years ago did Masters & Johnson break the myth that this was the only kind of orgasm that women could have, when they showed proof of the g-spot orgasm.

The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman's body and sexual arousal is always felt in the clitoris no matter where the orgasm takes place. It is usually that the sexual arousal first originates in the clit, and is considered an orgasmic starting point.

~ What Is The Clitoris And Where Is It?

It is located below the mons veneris on the anterior portion of the vulva. The inner vaginal lips, also called the labia minora when closed, tend to hide the clit, but it is interesting to note that those inner vaginal lips are attached to the underside of the clitoris and thus play an important role in the network of nerves, which transmit sexual stimulation.

The clitoral hood is formed by the connection of the inner vaginal lips. This small hood covers the clitoris in much the same manner as a foreskin covers a penis. When you pull the hood back you can see that the clit is USUALLY about the size of a pencil eraser, however the size does vary from woman to woman, much the same way penis size varies from man to man.

The clitoris is abundantly supplied with nerves. The part of the clitoris that you see is actually much like the head of a man's penis, and as a man has a shaft to his penis, a woman has a shaft to her clitoris. The shaft is located above the hood, and is more easily felt when a woman is aroused as it become more rigid as it fills with blood.

~ What Does It Feel Like?

Clitoral orgasms can be very intense, but may not be as "deep" as others. These orgasms are no doubt very, very pleasureful and helpful in achieving female ejaculation. Stimulating the clitoris can be a very good place to start when trying to achieve female ejaculation, after providing stimulation to the g-spot.

A Reminder- Remember that after an orgasm the clit can retract, and becomes highly sensitive to any further stimulation, often to the point of being painful.

~ Fingering The Clitoris

A woman's lover will want to respect that the clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman's body. Rough rubbing directly on it (especially with rough skin) is not usually the ideal. Another area that if often misunderstood, is that most women want to have constant, repetitive motion to one or both sides of her clit. Many women have a favorite side, so it is always good to ask which side your baby likes, or if you are the receiver of such divine fun, to tell your lover. Communication is always key during GOOD sex.

Variation of speed and moving all around the clit is not generally preferred. Most women need a constant, repetitive, stimulation with little to no variation just as a vibrator would offer. That is one reason why women love those beautiful toys so much!

Pulling back the hood-
This is going to depend on a woman's clitoral sensitivity and how aroused she is. The more aroused a woman is, the more she may want or not want her clitoris directly stimulated.

For those woman who are particularly sensitive, pulling back the hood and receiving direct clitoral stimulation is not going to be a pleasureful experience.

If a woman likes her hood pulled back, the best way to do so is by spreading her lips apart, or pulling up on the mons.

Range Of Motion-
When women masturbate, they often rotate around their clit in a circular motion, while other women prefer a side-to-side or up and down motion. Another technique is rolling the clitoris with the thumb and pointer finger. This should be done gently.

In part one of this article, we reviewed clitoral fingering techniques as well as the clitoral orgasm. In this article we will begin by reviewing the G-spot orgasm and then discuss some very effective fingering techniques.

~ The G-Spot Orgasm

This orgasm may begin at the g-spot and stay focused there throughout the building and final release of the orgasm, or may expand throughout the body. This orgasm is demonstrated when the g-spot is stimulated and becomes "puffy" and swollen as the tissue surrounding the female Parurethral/Skenes glands fill with blood during sexual arousal. This results in the tissue becoming firm to the touch.

~ What Does It Feel Like?

Like the vaginal orgasm, this usually takes longer to build. Because the g-spot is not stimulated as much by friction as much as pressure, using a rhythmic pushing against the g-spot is more pleasureful than light rubbing.

Most women describe this type of orgasm as an intense, deeply sensual pressure that builds until it feels like the entire vaginal explodes with ecstasy and is usually followed by euphoric energy that spreads throughout entire body. This orgasm, like the vaginal orgasm can release an emotional response as it provides women with a sense of being penetrated more than just physically, but also in a more emotionally vulnerable sense.

~ The Double Pleasure Clamp Techniques~

These Clamp techniques are quite effective pleasure techniques. The following is step-by-step instructions on how to implement it~

1) The Clamp~ Stimulates the clit using the thumb, while using one or more fingers to stimulate the g-spot. A good technique when you are able to be in front of a woman. Most women prefer one to two fingers, although some women like a lot of pressure and three to four can be used as well.

2) The Two-fingered Clamp ~ is best used when a woman is on her knees or standing with her bottom outward. Her partner then uses this technique from behind her. The thumb stimulates the g-spot, and the fingers make a "V" around her clit.

The most effective stimulation is using rhythmic thrusting. These rhythmic movements create vibrations, which induce pleasure in the cervix and uterus as well as in the G-spot and vagina. When fingers are introduced into the
vaginal opening, the initial pleasure is primarily from the
feeling of distention or fullness.

Using more than one finger may increase pleasure felt in some women as it stimulates the vaginal walls which may also stimulate the G-spot as pressure increases and the vagina is filled.

This sexual stimulation is due to the highly sensitive and many nerve endings in the g-spot. While discomfort may initially be felt, these sensations may gradually fade. Fingers that curve upward place pressure on the g-spot and this can be very stimulating. While width is a positive pleasure inducer, it is not as important as where the fingers are stimulating a woman in her vagina.

Because all women are different, and some have different preferences for stimulation, you may find that while some women prefer hard thrusting, others prefer softer, strokes. As in all sexual techniques, the best is good communication. Enjoy!

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by Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., CEO
Holistic Wisdom Founder

We want to collect your eMails to show that services and products like ours are helpful and desired by the public. With so many uptight, conservative politicians banning sex toys and declaring sexuality as dirty, we want to devote a part of our site that will show to the world that what we do is not only normal, healthy and a beautiful part of who we are, but also something that the majority of us want in our lives.

Even if you have never purchase anything from us and simply enjoy our web site, please take the time to write a little blurb about why you want the rights as an adult to have access to sexual information and products. Let's tell the world that we are entitled to our sexual freedoms!

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Penis vs. Lips Theory
Do Your Lips Reveal Your Penis Width & Color


Does a man with full lips have a wider penis? Is it the same color as his lips when not erect?

Those who have heard of the idea that a man's foot is telling of the size of his Johnson have heard wrong. The size of a man's foot is not relevant at all, nor is the size of his nose. But there is a theory that we have heard that we would like to examine further... how a man's lips can tell you the width and color of a man's penis.

Therefore, we would like to ask that men submit a picture of their penis and of their lips so that we can determine if there may be any truth to this. We will then be posting the results in a later article.

So send in your pictures and put the header as Project Lip.

We ask that you also enclose measurements of the size of your lips vertically and horizontally and the measurements of your penis in length and width at it's widest point. Your personal information will remain confidential other than the pics and measurements. Thanks!

 

 

 

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Please note- entries containing obscene descriptions of rape, incest or bestiality will be discarded. We may make grammatical corrections if they are warranted. When you submit a story submission, you will be granting us permission to use it in any manner we see fit for publication.

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Barry Winchell (Troy Garity) was a young man with an educational disability who volunteered for the United States Army and found himself stationed in Tennessee, where he soon struck up a friendship with Justin Fisher (Shawn Hatosy), a high-strung fellow GI with a drug problem.

One night with nothing to do, Winchell and Fisher tagged along with a group of soldiers who ended up taking in a drag show at a bar in Nashville. One of the performers on the bill that night was Calpernia Addams (Lee Pace), a transsexual and former combat medic in the Navy who was a veteran of the Gulf War before taking the first steps towards sexual reassignment.

While Winchell, who was straight, was aware that Addams was at least partially still male, he found himself attracted to her for her intelligence and sensitivity, while she found herself similarly drawn to him. As Winchell and Addams' mutual attraction grew into a romance, the unstable Fisher found himself increasingly confused and angry with Winchell, and he struck back by spreading rumors that one of the men in their company was gay, with fingers soon pointing towards Winchell.

Despite the Army's "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy, the company's drill sergeant (Barclay Hope) took it upon himself to find and remove the gay soldier in his ranks, while the increasingly vicious Fisher aligned himself with Calvin Glover (Philip Eddolls), a young and narrow minded recruit eager to strike out with violence against those different from himself. Directed by veteran filmmaker Frank Pierson, Soldier's Girl premiered at the 2003 Sundance Film Festival.

 

 

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With hundreds of eMails coming in every day and while
I answer many, it is not possible for me to reply to all of them.

However, I wanted to provide a section where we take some of our readers questions and post them on our web site so that we can provide answers that everyone can benefit from having the information available on our web site.

To submit your question such as those shown below eMail us for consideration of publishing it in our next newsletter.

 

Lisa,

I know you make a lot of recommendations on your site, but I really wanted to know what your favorite vibrator is and why.

- Lacie

 

Hi Lacie,

I love vibrators, so that is a tough one. I would have to go with the Waterdancer with Rabbit Attachment. I love it because it is small enough for me to be discreet with it, and for my hubby and I to use during sex in many positions and for many areas of our body. It is waterproof and it is very quite and powerful. A great all around vibrator and my true favorite. I first began using the Waterdancer without the attachment thinking that the little rabbit would only take away from the vibration... however, I was wrong. The rabbit does not take away from he vibration, in fact those little ears cradle a woman's clitoris in such a way that I can orgasm using it within 60 seconds! I love using it while my hubby fingers me or has sex with me, but it is great for my alone time in the bath too!

That's the buzzzzzzzzz,

Lisa

 

 

 

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Hi Lisa,

I saw the preview for your video on your site and I thought it worth a try... boy, am I glad that I got it. I have got to say it is much more than I thought. Your approach to sexuality is refreshing, matter of fact and easy to understand. I am sure the next women I am with will be able to achieve female ejaculation once I teach her your techniques. I may even show her the video as it is really awesome! Thanks for a job well done.

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IT IS NEVER TOO LATE

I am 62, my wife is 60. We have been happily married for 38 years. Due to my career and the raising of our four children, sex has not been a priority for us so far. We only have had pleasant but short and common intercourse for many years. We were convinced that our best years concerning intimacy and sex were behind us.

I am now retired and I discovered on the net many interesting things concerning sexuality. My wife and I now experience real sexual mutual pleasure through love sessions of more than one hour. I can master my ejaculations and I satisfactorily practice dry orgasm.

Consequently I can concentrate on giving my beloved as much pleasure as she can savor. I know how to have my wife come with my only fingers and we regularly reach full body orgasms we did not know were possible. Due to mutual confidence we have experimented together many new practices and we have considerably improved our skills to make ourselves sexually happier. Some weeks ago we had the great mutual satisfaction to reach her first multiple orgasm: four in row crowned by a wonderful sensual loud ecstasy and followed by a long lasting floating feeling. A few days later, after more than an hour of mutual masturbation and shared pleasure just on the verge of climaxing for both of us, she eventually had the joy of her first ejaculation.

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Gay Marriage Ban Ruled Unconstitutional

A California judge is making the state follow Massachusetts in allowing same-sex couples to tie the knot. The debate is predicted to have vigorous court fight before California can implement it. San Francisco County Superior Court Judge Richard Kramer ruled that while withholding marriage licenses from gays and lesbians has been the status quo, it constitutes discrimination the state can no longer justify.

"The state's protracted denial of equal protection cannot be justified simply because such constitutional violation has become traditional,'' Kramer wrote. "Simply put, same-sex marriage cannot be prohibited solely because California has always done so before.'' Ushering out a social norm long considered sacred won't happen right away, however. Kramer's decision is stayed automatically for 60 days to allow time for appeals, and conservative groups that oppose same-sex marriages vowed to uphold California's one woman-one man marriage laws.

Supporters of same-sex marriage said they are prepared for a lengthy appeal process, but described Kramer's ruling as an unqualified victory. They compared it to the 1948 state Supreme Court decision that made California the first state to legalize interracial marriage. "Today's ruling is an important step toward a more fair and just California that rejects discrimination and affirms family values for all California families,'' San Francisco City Attorney Dennis Herrera said. Jeanne Rizzo, 58, and Pali Cooper, 49, one of the first couples to be denied the chance to marry after the Supreme Court ruling last year, said they were "basking'' in the decision.

Assemblyman Ray Haynes, a Republican, predicted the judge's ruling would spur efforts to amend the state Constitution to ban gay nuptials, as was done in 13 other states last year. Haynes has introduced a bill to place such a constitutional amendment on the November ballot, but if the Democrat-controlled Legislature defeats it, he said gay marriage opponents would accomplish the task themselves by petition. "This ruling demonstrates absolutely what we have to do, which is to amend the Constitution so that we can take the question out of the hands of any judge anywhere at any time,'' he said.

So basically he wants to amend the constitution to discriminate.
Read why gay marriage is a civil right
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Attack On Tax Evasion & Porn Smells Fishy

A federal grand jury in Texas has indicted a Denver-based pornographer and six associates, accusing them of underpaying sales taxes and distributing obscene movies to stores in 18 states. Edward Wedelstedt, 62, who heads Goalie Entertainment, a porn empire run out of a nondescript brick building faces racketeering, obscenity and tax evasion charges outlined in a 54- page indictment. It took them 5 years to try and get Goalie for Taxes, so it seems they have now combined their charges with distributing porn that they deem obscene.

Goalie admits that it is one of the largest distributors of adult entertainment in the country. But Wedelstedt's attorney, Henry Asbill, scoffed at the indictment, saying it was an attempt by a new regime at the U.S. Justice Department to take a swipe at his client after the federal government's tax investigation of Wedelstedt went nowhere. "He distributes adult movies to consenting adults in adult-only stores," said Asbill, based in Washington. "It's legal."

He is accused of conducting transactions in such a way that the enterprise's true revenues were obscured. Asbill said the evidence will show that Wedelstedt's companies actually paid more than their fair share in taxes. Prosecutors are attempting to seize at least $48 million in proceeds acquired over the last dozen years and all shares of stock owned by Wedelstedt and his companies.

Luke Lirot, a lawyer who routinely represents adult entertainment operators, said Wedelstedt is well-known in the industry. Lirot called him a good businessman with a philanthropic soul. Wedelstedt's nonprofit foundation, called Eddie's Kids, has given thousands of tickets for Denver Nuggets and Colorado Avalanche games to poor children, Lirot said. During conventions for porn executives, Wedelstedt would pressure his peers to donate to his foundation, said Lirot, based in Tampa, Fla.

Indeed, Wedelstedt's name appears in society columns over the years as attending and holding fundraisers. Lirot said the case will boil down to a jury's perception of whether the material is obscene by common standards in their community. And he wondered why the case was pursued in the Northern District of Texas, instead of


Videos deemed obscene included 1 Pink & 1 Stink that features multiple double vaginal scenes in addition to double anal from cover girl Jayna Oso.

Denver, which is generally considered to be more liberal. "That doesn't pass the smell test," Lirot said

The allegedly obscene videos named in the indictments are In The Pink # 1, In The Stink # 5 (Red Light District); American Bukkake # 7 and # 8 (JM Productions); Cumshots # 4 (Anabolic Video); Gangbang Angels # 11 (Elegant Angel Productions) and Tits and Ass # 8 (Devil’s Films). According to Wedelstedt’s attorney Hank Asbill, the government’s tax investigation went nowhere, and the expanded indictments are an attempt by a new regime at the DOJ to take a swipe at his client.

 


Abstinence Only Education Is Ignorance Only

It has long been known that teens who pledge to remain virgins until marriage are more likely to take chances with other kinds of sex that increase the risk of sexually transmitted diseases.

The latest study, published in the April issue of the Journal of Adolescent Health, found that teens pledging virginity until marriage are more likely to have oral and anal sex than other teens who have not had intercourse. That behavior, however, "puts you at risk,'' said Hannah Brueckner, assistant professor of sociology at Yale and one of the study's authors. Among virgins, boys who have pledged abstinence were four times more likely to have had anal sex, according to the study.

Overall, pledgers were six times more likely to have oral sex than teens who have remained abstinent but not as part of a pledge. "Kids who pledge abstinence are taught that any word that has 'sex' in it is considered a sexual activity." -Leslee Unruh, president of the National Abstinence Clearinghouse The pledging group was also less likely to use condoms during their first sexual experience or get tested for STDs, the researchers found. Data for the study was taken from the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health.

An in-school questionnaire was given to a nationally representative sample of students in grades 7-12 and followed up with a series of in-home interviews roughly one, two, and six years later. It was funded in part by the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Leslee Unruh, president of the National Abstinence Clearinghouse in Sioux Falls, S.D., called the study "bogus,'' disputing that those involved had pledged true "abstinence.'' "Kids who pledge abstinence are taught that any word that has 'sex' in it is considered a sexual activity,'' Unruh said. "Therefore oral sex is sex, and they are staying away.''

Millions of teens have signed written pledges or verbally promised to abstain from sex, part of a church-led effort to discourage premarital sex and the spread of disease. President Bush has boosted funding for abstinence-only education in schools. Critics say that education needs to be coupled with safe-sex education to be effective. "If adolescents only had sex in monogamous, married relationships, by definition there would be no STDs,'' Brueckner said, echoing President Bush's remarks in last year's State of the Union address. "But the majority of adolescents don't live like that. They do have sex.'' Last year, the same research team found that 88 percent of teens who pledge abstinence end up having sex before marriage, compared with 99 percent of teens who do not make a pledge.


Obscenity Hearing In Washington, DC
As Seen In The Free Speech Coalition's Newsletter

The Senate Judiciary Committee’s Subcommittee on the Constitution, Civil Rights and Property Rights recently conducted an abbreviated hearing where Senator Sam Brownback (R-KS) presided and was the only senator participating other than Russ Feingold, (D-WI) the ranking Democrat on the subcommittee, who joined the meeting briefly.

Senator Brownback has expressed strong opinions about the adult entertainment industry and in particular has stated outrage over the recent decision by federal District Court Judge Lancaster in dismissing charges in the Extreme Associates obscenity case. This subcommittee meeting, in which no bill was under consideration a fact which could help explain the brevity of the meeting and why the members of the subcommittee did not participate was rather transparently a forum for Brownback to stir up interest in his cause.

Those testifying included Patrick Trueman, the former head of the Justice Department’s Child Exploitation and Obscenity unit under Presidents Reagan and Bush; Robert Destro, a law professor at Catholic University known for conservative positions on culture war issues such as same sex marriage; and Frederick Schauer, a law professor invited to testify by Senator Feingold. Schauer contributed substantially to the Meese Commission Report on Pornography in the eighties, by some accounts taking a more moderate position than some of the other commissioners. The invited testimony was brief and the opinions expressed widely divergent with little time for clarification. This format provided little substance but served as a backdrop for Brownback to express senatorial alarm over a variety of issues involving adult entertainment. Brownback cited, for example, the trafficking of women into sexual slavery, which was reported in the Los Angeles Times in March (although not in connection with the adult entertainment industry).

“We’re seeing people trafficked into the pornography industry,” said Brownback. On this and on other matters Senator Brownback appears obviously misinformed about the nature of the industry and clearly could benefit from some accurate information. After learning that the hearing was scheduled, FSC (Free Speech Coalition) offered but was denied the opportunity to provide a live witness for the subcommittee, although FSC was allowed to submit written testimony.

 


No Porn In Your Car

A bill which would have outlawed adult entertainment on vehicle video screens has been defeated in the Assembly Public Safety Committee. Assemblyman John Benoit (R-Palm Desert) says his bill, supported by the conservative Traditional Values Coalition and California Family Alliance, was pro-family but not anti-adult entertainment.

“If you want to play a pornographic film in the privacy of your own home or your own bedroom, that’s your business,” he said. “But when you display it where people can see it while they’re driving, that’s inappropriate. Try to explain to your 5-year-old what he just saw when he wonders, ‘Why was that man doing that to that woman?’ It’s a hard thing.”

Kat Sunlove, FSC Legislative Affairs Director, opposed the bill and testified on behalf of FSC. She said the bill didn’t restrict only DVDs, and would have improperly required drivers to monitor the reading, listening and viewing habits of their passengers. “I want drivers to be focused on the road­not on whether a kid half a car length behind them is looking into their car,’’ she said.

I have to say that I do not feel that porn should be viewed in public. I feel it goes against what so many in the adult industry believe that children should not be exposed to pornography. The bill may have gone beyond reasonable expectations on this point, but as far as porn in public, I feel while nudity is all right, actual sex acts should not be shown in front of children. Lisa Lawless


Regulating Cable & The Internet

Senator Ted Stevens, (R-AK) who has already proposed that broadcast indecency standards be expanded to cable and satellite, is now talking about the possibility of policing content when it is delivered over broadband Internet or by new Internet technologies such as Voice over Internet Protocol (VolP).

Declan McCullagh, in a CNET article, suggests that Stevens may be worried about the trend of movies and TV shows being offered for downloading through the Internet, which places the material outside the purview of the FCC. “We ought to find some way to say, here is a block of channels, whether it’s delivered by broadband, by VoIP, by whatever it is, to a home, that is clear of the stuff you don’t want your children to see,” said Stevens.

It is unclear exactly what Stevens, the powerful Chair of the Senate Commerce Committee, has in mind. (Laws totally banning indecency on the Internet have already been ruled unconstitutional by the Supreme Court.) McCullagh speculates that Stevens may be considering requirements for certain types of Web publishers to rate sexually explicit sites through a mechanism like the Platform for Internet Content Selection, which is built into the Internet Explorer browser. “It looks like Stevens is talking about some sort of ratings system for the Internet,” said Marv Johnson, legislative counsel for the ACLU. “But you really can’t have the FCC or the federal government be the taste police for the American citizens. It’s just not going to work.”

 


Prostitution Vs. Porn

A turnabout legal strategy is being employed by the defense attorneys for Jenny Paulino, the so-called “Million-dollar Madam” recently arrested for running a high-priced escort service in Manhattan. Paulino’s attorney, Gerald Lefcourt, says that that cracking down on escort services is unconstitutional because media companies have been allowed to produce adult entertainment unchecked. “Promoting prostitution is paying someone to have sex,” said Lefcourt.

“Time Warner and the others who have adult channels pay people to have sex so they can film it and show it, but they’re not being prosecuted.” Whether this argument will fly in New York is unknown. However, in California, heartland of adult video entertainment, a ruling by the California Supreme Court in the pivotal Harold Freeman case (1988) held that pandering laws do not apply “to the conduct involved in the payment of wages to actresses performing lawful sexual acts in the making of a motion picture that was not determined to be obscene.”


Man Screws Dogs & Himself

Reuters - A Belgian man on trial for having sex with dogs claims he did it out of compassion for man's best friend. Daily Gazet Van Antwerpen said the 36-year old in the eastern Belgian town of Genk told the court he had sex with dogs "out of love for animals," since a lot of them can't have sex, especially those locked up in refuges. The man, only identified by his initials, could face six months in jail if convicted. He had worked in an animal refuge before and had also posted thousands of pictures on the Internet of himself having sex with dogs, the paper said.

 


Retirement Home For Prostitutes

Reuters- Distressed to find aging homeless women still working as prostitutes in downtown Mexico City, women's' groups are preparing a roomy retirement home to take 65 of them off the streets. Reuters Photo Rejected by their families and stripped of much of their earnings by policemen and pimps, the elderly sex workers say they have no choice but to keep working, sometimes for less than $2 a day or just a plate of food.

"I may have two or three clients a day but I can't charge what the young ones do. Sometimes I just ask for food or a hotel room," said Gloria Maria, a kindly faced woman of 74 who mostly sleeps outdoors in a grimy downtown food market. Funds raised this week will go toward fixing the roof of a an elegant but crumbling 18th century building donated by the Mexico City government to serve as a retirement home for Gloria Maria and others.

Like many of her co-workers, Gloria Maria was raped as a teen-ager and fell into prostitution soon afterward. Prostitution is not legal in Mexico but sex workers are tolerated, along with the shoe shiners, orange juice vendors and tamale sellers who clog the streets of big cities, creating a gray economy that absorbs millions of unemployed. While some of these workers can put savings under the mattress for old age, or hope their children will support them, prostitutes often have nothing after a life of exploitation by pimps and paying bribes to avoid arrest. Few are in touch with their families or children. "Other people pay taxes and can retire with a pension.

We are exploited by society then thrown away when we get old," said one lithe young prostitute, with long blond hair and funky platform shoes. "We should have the same rights as anyone else," she said at a fund-raising concert for the retirement home Tuesday. Organizers are collecting funds from private donors and hoping local companies will provide beds and help with improvements to the retirement home like painting, plumbing and rewiring. The women will be expected to cook and clean for themselves and earn money through handicrafts to help with running costs. The home is seen as a pilot project and the organizers realize it needs to be part of a longer-term solution for sex workers.

"Sex workers are doubly marginalized," said Emilienne de Leon, head of a local women's' rights group called Semillas. "They are rejected by society and by their families. When they get old, either they sell themselves very cheaply or they don't have enough to eat. It's a very difficult world."


 

Sex Doll Triggers Bomb Alert

Reuters- A blow-up sex doll sparked a bomb alert in a German post office after it started to vibrate inside a package awaiting delivery, police said Wednesday. Reuters Photo "Workers were unsettled when it began vibrating and made strange noises," a spokesman for police in the eastern city of Chemnitz said. "They were worried the package might be a bomb." Officers brought the sender to the scene and discovered the source of alarm was an electrical device inside a life-size female sex doll. The man told police he had wanted to return the doll because it kept turning itself on at the wrong moment. Order was restored after the sender removed the doll's batteries so the defective product could be returned.

 


Phone Sex Operator Gets Settlement

A Florida phone sex operator has won a workers’ compensation settlement claiming she was injured after regularly masturbating at work, her lawyer said. The lawyer told Reuters he was not sure whether the Fort Lauderdale woman’s claim was the first of its kind, but it certainly was out of the ordinary. He said his client agreed to a “minimal settlement” earlier this month. He declined to disclose the amount. During the course of her claim for workers’ compensation benefits, the now 40-year-old employee of Fort Lauderdale’s CFP Enterprises, Inc. said she developed carpal tunnel syndrome - also known as repetitive motion injury - in both hands from masturbating as many as seven times a day while speaking with callers, said the attorney, who spoke about the case this week on the condition that his client’s name not be revealed. “She was told to do whatever it takes to keep the person on the phone as long as possible,” he said. The woman used one hand to answer the telephone and the other to note customer’s names and fetishes and to give herself an orgasm during the verbal exchanges.

Now, anyone who has ever been in the phone sex industry knows that it is the rare woman who actually masturbates for phone sex... it is usually a big act. Most women are doing things like sitting in a flannel shirt and sweat pants while folding laundry when they take calls, so this claim is a bit much. Take my word for it... this woman is ridiculous for making this case. What she should have asked for was that phone sex operators get paid more. As most only see $8 - $10 an hour if that and are not guaranteed work, while the companies that promote the phone sex are seeing thousands in an hour.


Caught With The Thongs That Were Wrong!

Two women described by police as professional shoplifters stole nearly $8,000 worth of clothes, including 228 pairs of thong underwear, police said. The two were stopped after running a red light in downtown Fairfield, CT. Officer Felix Esposito searched the car and found more than 400 items of clothing allegedly taken from Victoria’s Secret, Ann Taylor Loft, The Gap and Banana Republic.

The clothes still had tags on them. Police said they found bikini tops and bottoms, maternity dresses, maternity tops, corsets, women’s tops, button-down shirts and a cashmere sweater. Arrested were Monica Barbosa, 32, of Queens, N.Y., and Anparo Cruz, 43, of Stamford.

Police say they had a device called a booster bag that allowed them to take clothes out of stores without activating magnetic sensors designed to deter theft. The women were held overnight and appeared Friday in Bridgeport Superior Court, where their bonds were set at $50,000 for Cruz and $25,000 for Barbosa. Detective Sgt. Gene Palazzolo said the two have also been arrested for shoplifting in Florida. He said none of the store owners were aware the clothes were missing until police contacted them.

 


Designer Vaginas

An increasing number of women are opting for plastic surgery on their vagina, citing discomfort during sport, embarrassment during sex and aesthetic reasons as prime motivating factors. Despite the lack of figures, gynecologists and cosmetic surgeries also claim that plastic surgery on vaginas has become “a trend”. Most operations are designed to reduce the size of a woman’s inner labia (labia minora), which can sometimes be larger than the outer labia (labia majora). “It gets in the way, for example, when sitting on a bike seat or during sex. It can also lead to embarrassment during sex,” Dr. De Bruijn said. “In comparison, most women with a very large labia don’t have any troubles.” In the US, labia corrective surgery is widely accepted and women are also opting to have surgery narrowing their vaginal cavity. The surgery is intended to improve their sex life and photos of pornography stars often serve for women as the “designer vagina”.

 

 

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