Quote of the Week "Neither
a lofty degree of intelligence nor imagination nor both
together go to the making of genius. Love, love, love,
that is the soul of genius.
-Mozart
~
Gay
Marriage Ban Ruled Unconstitutional ~
Attack
On Tax Evasion & Porn Smells Fishy ~
Abstinence
Only Education Is Ignorance Only ~
Obscenity
Hearing In Washington, D.C. ~
No
Porn In Your Car ~
Regulating
Cable & The Internet ~
Prostitution
Vs. Porn ~
Man
Screws Dogs & Himself ~
Retirement
Home For Prostitutes ~
Sex
Doll Triggers Bomb Alert ~
Phone
Sex Operator Gets Settlement ~
Caught
With The Thongs That Were Wrong! ~
Designer
Vaginas
Sex
Joke of the Week-
Kid's Humor
How
Can A Stranger Tell If Two People Are Married?
You
might have to guess, based on whether they seem
to be yelling at the same kids. - Derrick, age
8
What
Do Most People Do On A Date?
Dates
are for having fun, and people should use them
to get to know each other. Even boys have something
to say if you listen long enough. - Lynnette,
age 8
On
the first date, they just tell each other lies,
and that usually gets them interested enough
to go for a second date. - Martin, age 10
What
Would You Do On A First Date That Was Turning
Sour?
I'd run home and play dead. The next day I would
call all the newspapers and make sure they wrote
about me in all the dead columns. - Craig, age
9
When
Is It Okay To Kiss Someone?
When
they're rich. - Pam, age 7
The
law says you have to be eighteen, so I wouldn't
want to mess with that. - Curt, age 7
The
rule goes like this: If you kiss someone, then
you should marry them & have kids with them.
It's the right thing to do. - Howard, age 8
Is It Better To Be Single or Married?
It's
better for girls to be single but not for boys.
Boys need someone to clean up after them. -
Anita, age 9
How
Would The World Be Different If People Didn't
Get Married?
There
sure would be a lot of kids to explain, wouldn't
there? - Kelvin, age 8
The
Art Of
Fingering Techniques
On Pleasuring The Vagina
By
Lisa & John Lawless
Holistic Wisdom Founders
Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., CEO
Many
inexperience lovers out there take the term "finger
fucking" too literally and believe that jamming their
fingers into the soft folds of a woman's vagina is the way
to go. Can we say "Ouch!"
The
ultimate tip of this article is to suggest that you have
a woman masturbate to show you what she likes first. We
will say this many times... communication in any sexual
experience is the key, and a visual display to show personal
preference is not only arousing, but helpful!
Let's
start with preparation-
~Clean
Hands-
You will want to wash hands well to make sure that you do
not introduce harmful bacteria into the vagina or introduce
it into the urethra.
~Avoiding
A Urinary Tract Infection (UTI)~
Unfortunately, there can be some negative side affects to
making contact with the urethra. The urethra is sensitive
and is easily irritated. It is fairly easy to expose the
urethral to bacteria that is harmful when introduced and
thus often results in a UTI. The activity that can cause
a UTI can be sexual or non sexual.
A
woman who wipes her genitals after urinating from the back
(dragging harmful bacteria from the anal region to the urethra)
can introduce the makings of a UTI. Any sexual activity
that makes contact with the urethra whether it is from fingers,
a sex toy, the mouth, the penis, etc. can result in painful
urination and infection. To help prevent infections and
reduce the chances of irritation, a woman should drink lots
of water and urinate just before and right after urethral
stimulation.
Taking
precautions such as washing whatever is going to come into
contact with the urethra beforehand may assist in preventing
such an infection. If an infection occurs it is easily treated
with antibiotics. If left untreated the infection can become
more serious and spread into the kidneys.
If
you ask most women who have had a UTI, they will tell you
that it is pretty painful and something that you would go
to a medical facility at 3am if you had to so that you could
get some relief!
~Shorten
Finger Nails-
Trim fingernails, so as to not cause pain or tears.
~Lubricant-
Have the necessary tools, and toys such as lubricant, STD
protection (if needed). Using lubricant is always welcome,
as no matter how excited and wet a woman gets, that moisture
is easily taken away and rubbed onto the fingers and hand
leaving her feeling a bit tender.
~Atmosphere-
Creating a relaxing atmosphere can also include doing some
sensual foreplay. Get into the mood doing such activities
as: massage, using sweet or spiced body lotions or oils,
soft kissing, a bubble bath, and many other creative ventures.
Finger
tips that tease and play with the clitoris in the beginning
of a fingerings session will create a nice introduction
to getting a woman ready for penetration clitoral stimulation
will provide a nice opening, so let's start by discussing
the clitoral orgasm.
The Clitoral Orgasm
This
orgasm occurs at the peak of clitoral stimulation. It begins
with an intense sexual excitement within the clit and then
as the orgasm peaks it surges waves of pleasure throughout
the body. Only several years ago did Masters & Johnson break
the myth that this was the only kind of orgasm that women
could have, when they showed proof of the g-spot orgasm.
The
clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman's body and
sexual arousal is always felt in the clitoris no matter
where the orgasm takes place. It is usually that the sexual
arousal first originates in the clit, and is considered
an orgasmic starting point.
~What
Is The Clitoris And Where Is It?
It
is located below the mons veneris on the anterior portion
of the vulva. The inner vaginal lips, also called the labia
minora when closed, tend to hide the clit, but it is interesting
to note that those inner vaginal lips are attached to the
underside of the clitoris and thus play an important role
in the network of nerves, which transmit sexual stimulation.
The
clitoral hood is formed by the connection of the inner vaginal
lips. This small hood covers the clitoris in much the same
manner as a foreskin covers a penis. When you pull the hood
back you can see that the clit is USUALLY about the size
of a pencil eraser, however the size does vary from woman
to woman, much the same way penis size varies from man to
man.
The
clitoris is abundantly supplied with nerves. The part of
the clitoris that you see is actually much like the head
of a man's penis, and as a man has a shaft to his penis,
a woman has a shaft to her clitoris. The shaft is located
above the hood, and is more easily felt when a woman is
aroused as it become more rigid as it fills with blood.
~What
Does It Feel Like?
Clitoral
orgasms can be very intense, but may not be as "deep" as
others. These orgasms are no doubt very, very pleasureful
and helpful in achieving female ejaculation. Stimulating
the clitoris can be a very good place to start when trying
to achieve female ejaculation, after providing stimulation
to the g-spot.
A
Reminder- Remember that after an orgasm the clit can retract,
and becomes highly sensitive to any further stimulation,
often to the point of being painful.
~Fingering
The Clitoris
A
woman's lover will want to respect that the clitoris is
the most sensitive part of a woman's body. Rough rubbing
directly on it (especially with rough skin) is not usually
the ideal. Another area that if often misunderstood, is
that most women want to have constant, repetitive motion
to one or both sides of her clit. Many women have a favorite
side, so it is always good to ask which side your baby likes,
or if you are the receiver of such divine fun, to tell your
lover. Communication is always key during GOOD sex.
Variation
of speed and moving all around the clit is not generally
preferred. Most women need a constant, repetitive, stimulation
with little to no variation just as a vibrator would offer.
That is one reason why women love those beautiful toys so
much!
Pulling
back the hood- This is going to depend on a woman's clitoral sensitivity
and how aroused she is. The more aroused a woman is, the
more she may want or not want her clitoris directly stimulated.
For
those woman who are particularly sensitive, pulling back
the hood and receiving direct clitoral stimulation is not
going to be a pleasureful experience.
If
a woman likes her hood pulled back, the best way to do so
is by spreading her lips apart, or pulling up on the mons.
Range
Of Motion- When women masturbate, they often rotate around their
clit in a circular motion, while other women prefer a side-to-side
or up and down motion. Another technique is rolling the
clitoris with the thumb and pointer finger. This should
be done gently.
In
part one of this article, we reviewed clitoral fingering
techniques as well as the clitoral orgasm. In this article
we will begin by reviewing the G-spot orgasm and then discuss
some very effective fingering techniques.
~The
G-Spot Orgasm
This
orgasm may begin at the g-spot and stay focused there throughout
the building and final release of the orgasm, or may expand
throughout the body. This orgasm is demonstrated when the
g-spot is stimulated and becomes "puffy" and swollen as
the tissue surrounding the female Parurethral/Skenes glands
fill with blood during sexual arousal. This results in the
tissue becoming firm to the touch.
~
What Does It Feel Like?
Like
the vaginal orgasm, this usually takes longer to build.
Because the g-spot is not stimulated as much by friction
as much as pressure, using a rhythmic pushing against the
g-spot is more pleasureful than light rubbing.
Most
women describe this type of orgasm as an intense, deeply
sensual pressure that builds until it feels like the entire
vaginal explodes with ecstasy and is usually followed by
euphoric energy that spreads throughout entire body. This
orgasm, like the vaginal orgasm can release an emotional
response as it provides women with a sense of being penetrated
more than just physically, but also in a more emotionally
vulnerable sense.
~The
Double Pleasure Clamp Techniques~
These
Clamp techniques are quite effective pleasure techniques.
The following is step-by-step instructions on how to implement
it~
1)
The Clamp~ Stimulates the clit using the thumb, while
using one or more fingers to stimulate the g-spot. A good
technique when you are able to be in front of a woman. Most
women prefer one to two fingers, although some women like
a lot of pressure and three to four can be used as well.
2)
The Two-fingered Clamp ~ is best used when a woman is
on her knees or standing with her bottom outward. Her partner
then uses this technique from behind her. The thumb stimulates
the g-spot, and the fingers make a "V" around her clit.
The
most effective stimulation is using rhythmic thrusting.
These rhythmic movements create vibrations, which induce
pleasure in the cervix and uterus as well as in the G-spot
and vagina. When fingers are introduced into the
vaginal opening, the initial pleasure is primarily from
the
feeling of distention or fullness.
Using
more than one finger may increase pleasure felt in some
women as it stimulates the vaginal walls which may also
stimulate the G-spot as pressure increases and the vagina
is filled.
This
sexual stimulation is due to the highly sensitive and many
nerve endings in the g-spot. While discomfort may initially
be felt, these sensations may gradually fade. Fingers that
curve upward place pressure on the g-spot and this can be
very stimulating. While width is a positive pleasure inducer,
it is not as important as where the fingers are stimulating
a woman in her vagina.
Because
all women are different, and some have different preferences
for stimulation, you may find that while some women prefer
hard thrusting, others prefer softer, strokes. As in all
sexual techniques, the best is good communication. Enjoy!
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Lisa,
I know you make a lot of recommendations on your site,
but I really wanted to know what your favorite vibrator
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Hi
Lacie,
I
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I love using it while my hubby fingers me or has sex with
me, but it is great for my alone time in the bath too!
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Gay
Marriage Ban Ruled Unconstitutional
A California judge is making the state follow Massachusetts
in allowing same-sex couples to tie the knot. The debate
is predicted to have vigorous court fight before California
can implement it. San Francisco County Superior Court
Judge Richard Kramer ruled that while withholding marriage
licenses from gays and lesbians has been the status quo,
it constitutes discrimination the state can no longer
justify.
"The
state's protracted denial of equal protection cannot be
justified simply because such constitutional violation
has become traditional,'' Kramer wrote. "Simply put, same-sex
marriage cannot be prohibited solely because California
has always done so before.'' Ushering out a social norm
long considered sacred won't happen right away, however.
Kramer's decision is stayed automatically for 60 days
to allow time for appeals, and conservative groups that
oppose same-sex marriages vowed to uphold California's
one woman-one man marriage laws.
Supporters
of same-sex marriage said they are prepared for a lengthy
appeal process, but described Kramer's ruling as an unqualified
victory. They compared it to the 1948 state Supreme Court
decision that made California the first state to legalize
interracial marriage. "Today's ruling is an important
step toward a more fair and just California that rejects
discrimination and affirms family values for all California
families,'' San Francisco City Attorney Dennis Herrera
said. Jeanne Rizzo, 58, and Pali Cooper, 49, one of the
first couples to be denied the chance to marry after the
Supreme Court ruling last year, said they were "basking''
in the decision.
Assemblyman
Ray Haynes, a Republican, predicted the judge's ruling
would spur efforts to amend the state Constitution to
ban gay nuptials, as was done in 13 other states last
year. Haynes has introduced a bill to place such a constitutional
amendment on the November ballot, but if the Democrat-controlled
Legislature defeats it, he said gay marriage opponents
would accomplish the task themselves by petition. "This
ruling demonstrates absolutely what we have to do, which
is to amend the Constitution so that we can take the question
out of the hands of any judge anywhere at any time,''
he said.
A
federal grand jury in Texas has indicted a Denver-based
pornographer and six associates, accusing them of underpaying
sales taxes and distributing obscene movies to stores
in 18 states. Edward Wedelstedt, 62, who heads Goalie
Entertainment, a porn empire run out of a nondescript
brick building faces racketeering, obscenity and tax evasion
charges outlined in a 54- page indictment. It took them
5 years to try and get Goalie for Taxes, so it seems they
have now combined their charges with distributing porn
that they deem obscene.
Goalie
admits that it is one of the largest distributors of adult
entertainment in the country. But Wedelstedt's attorney,
Henry Asbill, scoffed at the indictment, saying it was
an attempt by a new regime at the U.S. Justice Department
to take a swipe at his client after the federal government's
tax investigation of Wedelstedt went nowhere. "He distributes
adult movies to consenting adults in adult-only stores,"
said Asbill, based in Washington. "It's legal."
He
is accused of conducting transactions in such a way that
the enterprise's true revenues were obscured. Asbill said
the evidence will show that Wedelstedt's companies actually
paid more than their fair share in taxes. Prosecutors
are attempting to seize at least $48 million in proceeds
acquired over the last dozen years and all shares of stock
owned by Wedelstedt and his companies.
Luke
Lirot, a lawyer who routinely represents adult entertainment
operators, said Wedelstedt is well-known in the industry.
Lirot called him a good businessman with a philanthropic
soul. Wedelstedt's nonprofit foundation, called Eddie's
Kids, has given thousands of tickets for Denver Nuggets
and Colorado Avalanche games to poor children, Lirot said.
During conventions for porn executives, Wedelstedt would
pressure his peers to donate to his foundation, said Lirot,
based in Tampa, Fla.
Indeed,
Wedelstedt's name appears in society columns over the
years as attending and holding fundraisers. Lirot said
the case will boil down to a jury's perception of whether
the material is obscene by common standards in their community.
And he wondered why the case was pursued in the Northern
District of Texas, instead of
Videos deemed obscene included 1 Pink & 1 Stink
that features multiple double vaginal scenes in
addition to double anal from cover girl Jayna Oso.
Denver,
which is generally considered to be more liberal. "That
doesn't pass the smell test," Lirot said
The
allegedly obscene videos named in the indictments are
In The Pink # 1, In The Stink # 5
(Red Light District); American Bukkake # 7 and
# 8 (JM Productions); Cumshots # 4 (Anabolic
Video); Gangbang Angels # 11 (Elegant Angel
Productions) and Tits and Ass # 8 (Devil’s
Films). According to Wedelstedt’s attorney Hank Asbill,
the government’s tax investigation went nowhere, and the
expanded indictments are an attempt by a new regime at
the DOJ to take a swipe at his client.
Abstinence
Only Education Is Ignorance Only
It has long been known that teens who pledge to remain
virgins until marriage are more likely to take chances
with other kinds of sex that increase the risk of sexually
transmitted diseases.
The latest study, published in the April issue of the
Journal of Adolescent Health, found that teens pledging
virginity until marriage are more likely to have oral
and anal sex than other teens who have not had intercourse.
That behavior, however, "puts you at risk,'' said Hannah
Brueckner, assistant professor of sociology at Yale and
one of the study's authors. Among virgins, boys who have
pledged abstinence were four times more likely to have
had anal sex, according to the study.
Overall,
pledgers were six times more likely to have oral sex than
teens who have remained abstinent but not as part of a
pledge. "Kids who pledge abstinence are taught that any
word that has 'sex' in it is considered a sexual activity."
-Leslee Unruh, president of the National Abstinence Clearinghouse
The pledging group was also less likely to use condoms
during their first sexual experience or get tested for
STDs, the researchers found. Data for the study was taken
from the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health.
An in-school questionnaire was given to a nationally representative
sample of students in grades 7-12 and followed up with
a series of in-home interviews roughly one, two, and six
years later. It was funded in part by the National Institute
of Child Health and Human Development and the Centers
for Disease Control and Prevention. Leslee Unruh, president
of the National Abstinence Clearinghouse in Sioux Falls,
S.D., called the study "bogus,'' disputing that those
involved had pledged true "abstinence.'' "Kids who pledge
abstinence are taught that any word that has 'sex' in
it is considered a sexual activity,'' Unruh said. "Therefore
oral sex is sex, and they are staying away.''
Millions
of teens have signed written pledges or verbally promised
to abstain from sex, part of a church-led effort to discourage
premarital sex and the spread of disease. President Bush
has boosted funding for abstinence-only education in schools.
Critics say that education needs to be coupled with safe-sex
education to be effective. "If adolescents only had sex
in monogamous, married relationships, by definition there
would be no STDs,'' Brueckner said, echoing President
Bush's remarks in last year's State of the Union address.
"But the majority of adolescents don't live like that.
They do have sex.'' Last year, the same research team
found that 88 percent of teens who pledge abstinence end
up having sex before marriage, compared with 99 percent
of teens who do not make a pledge.
Obscenity Hearing In Washington, DC As Seen In The
Free Speech Coalition's Newsletter
The
Senate Judiciary Committee’s Subcommittee on the Constitution,
Civil Rights and Property Rights recently conducted an
abbreviated hearing where Senator Sam Brownback (R-KS)
presided and was the only senator participating other
than Russ Feingold, (D-WI) the ranking Democrat on the
subcommittee, who joined the meeting briefly.
Senator
Brownback has expressed strong opinions about the adult
entertainment industry and in particular has stated outrage
over the recent decision by federal District Court Judge
Lancaster in dismissing charges in the Extreme Associates
obscenity case. This subcommittee meeting, in which no
bill was under consideration a fact which could help explain
the brevity of the meeting and why the members of the
subcommittee did not participate was rather transparently
a forum for Brownback to stir up interest in his cause.
Those
testifying included Patrick Trueman, the former head of
the Justice Department’s Child Exploitation and Obscenity
unit under Presidents Reagan and Bush; Robert Destro,
a law professor at Catholic University known for conservative
positions on culture war issues such as same sex marriage;
and Frederick Schauer, a law professor invited to testify
by Senator Feingold. Schauer contributed substantially
to the Meese Commission Report on Pornography in the eighties,
by some accounts taking a more moderate position than
some of the other commissioners. The invited testimony
was brief and the opinions expressed widely divergent
with little time for clarification. This format provided
little substance but served as a backdrop for Brownback
to express senatorial alarm over a variety of issues involving
adult entertainment. Brownback cited, for example, the
trafficking of women into sexual slavery, which was reported
in the Los Angeles Times in March (although not in connection
with the adult entertainment industry).
“We’re
seeing people trafficked into the pornography industry,”
said Brownback. On this and on other matters Senator Brownback
appears obviously misinformed about the nature of the
industry and clearly could benefit from some accurate
information. After learning that the hearing was scheduled,
FSC (Free Speech Coalition) offered but was denied the
opportunity to provide a live witness for the subcommittee,
although FSC was allowed to submit written testimony.
No
Porn In Your Car
A bill which would have outlawed adult entertainment on
vehicle video screens has been defeated in the Assembly
Public Safety Committee. Assemblyman John Benoit (R-Palm
Desert) says his bill, supported by the conservative Traditional
Values Coalition and California Family Alliance, was pro-family
but not anti-adult entertainment.
“If
you want to play a pornographic film in the privacy of
your own home or your own bedroom, that’s your business,”
he said. “But when you display it where people can see
it while they’re driving, that’s inappropriate. Try to
explain to your 5-year-old what he just saw when he wonders,
‘Why was that man doing that to that woman?’ It’s a hard
thing.”
Kat
Sunlove, FSC Legislative Affairs Director, opposed the
bill and testified on behalf of FSC. She said the bill
didn’t restrict only DVDs, and would have improperly required
drivers to monitor the reading, listening and viewing
habits of their passengers. “I want drivers to be focused
on the roadnot on whether a kid half a car length behind
them is looking into their car,’’ she said.
I
have to say that I do not feel that porn should be viewed
in public. I feel it goes against what so many in the
adult industry believe that children should not be exposed
to pornography. The bill may have gone beyond reasonable
expectations on this point, but as far as porn in public,
I feel while nudity is all right, actual sex acts should
not be shown in front of children. Lisa Lawless
Regulating Cable & The Internet
Senator
Ted Stevens, (R-AK) who has already proposed that broadcast
indecency standards be expanded to cable and satellite,
is now talking about the possibility of policing content
when it is delivered over broadband Internet or by new
Internet technologies such as Voice over Internet Protocol
(VolP).
Declan
McCullagh, in a CNET article, suggests that Stevens may
be worried about the trend of movies and TV shows being
offered for downloading through the Internet, which places
the material outside the purview of the FCC. “We ought
to find some way to say, here is a block of channels,
whether it’s delivered by broadband, by VoIP, by whatever
it is, to a home, that is clear of the stuff you don’t
want your children to see,” said Stevens.
It
is unclear exactly what Stevens, the powerful Chair of
the Senate Commerce Committee, has in mind. (Laws totally
banning indecency on the Internet have already been ruled
unconstitutional by the Supreme Court.) McCullagh speculates
that Stevens may be considering requirements for certain
types of Web publishers to rate sexually explicit sites
through a mechanism like the Platform for Internet Content
Selection, which is built into the Internet Explorer browser.
“It looks like Stevens is talking about some sort of ratings
system for the Internet,” said Marv Johnson, legislative
counsel for the ACLU. “But you really can’t have the FCC
or the federal government be the taste police for the
American citizens. It’s just not going to work.”
Prostitution
Vs. Porn
A turnabout legal strategy is being employed by the defense
attorneys for Jenny Paulino, the so-called “Million-dollar
Madam” recently arrested for running a high-priced escort
service in Manhattan. Paulino’s attorney, Gerald Lefcourt,
says that that cracking down on escort services is unconstitutional
because media companies have been allowed to produce adult
entertainment unchecked. “Promoting prostitution is paying
someone to have sex,” said Lefcourt.
“Time
Warner and the others who have adult channels pay people
to have sex so they can film it and show it, but they’re
not being prosecuted.” Whether this argument will fly
in New York is unknown. However, in California, heartland
of adult video entertainment, a ruling by the California
Supreme Court in the pivotal Harold Freeman case (1988)
held that pandering laws do not apply “to the conduct
involved in the payment of wages to actresses performing
lawful sexual acts in the making of a motion picture that
was not determined to be obscene.”
Man Screws Dogs & Himself
Reuters
- A Belgian man on trial for having sex with dogs claims
he did it out of compassion for man's best friend. Daily
Gazet Van Antwerpen said the 36-year old in the eastern
Belgian town of Genk told the court he had sex with dogs
"out of love for animals," since a lot of them can't have
sex, especially those locked up in refuges. The man, only
identified by his initials, could face six months in jail
if convicted. He had worked in an animal refuge before
and had also posted thousands of pictures on the Internet
of himself having sex with dogs, the paper said.
Retirement
Home For Prostitutes
Reuters-
Distressed to find aging homeless women still working
as prostitutes in downtown Mexico City, women's' groups
are preparing a roomy retirement home to take 65 of them
off the streets. Reuters Photo Rejected by their families
and stripped of much of their earnings by policemen and
pimps, the elderly sex workers say they have no choice
but to keep working, sometimes for less than $2 a day
or just a plate of food.
"I
may have two or three clients a day but I can't charge
what the young ones do. Sometimes I just ask for food
or a hotel room," said Gloria Maria, a kindly faced woman
of 74 who mostly sleeps outdoors in a grimy downtown food
market. Funds raised this week will go toward fixing the
roof of a an elegant but crumbling 18th century building
donated by the Mexico City government to serve as a retirement
home for Gloria Maria and others.
Like
many of her co-workers, Gloria Maria was raped as a teen-ager
and fell into prostitution soon afterward. Prostitution
is not legal in Mexico but sex workers are tolerated,
along with the shoe shiners, orange juice vendors and
tamale sellers who clog the streets of big cities, creating
a gray economy that absorbs millions of unemployed. While
some of these workers can put savings under the mattress
for old age, or hope their children will support them,
prostitutes often have nothing after a life of exploitation
by pimps and paying bribes to avoid arrest. Few are in
touch with their families or children. "Other people pay
taxes and can retire with a pension.
We
are exploited by society then thrown away when we get
old," said one lithe young prostitute, with long blond
hair and funky platform shoes. "We should have the same
rights as anyone else," she said at a fund-raising concert
for the retirement home Tuesday. Organizers are collecting
funds from private donors and hoping local companies will
provide beds and help with improvements to the retirement
home like painting, plumbing and rewiring. The women will
be expected to cook and clean for themselves and earn
money through handicrafts to help with running costs.
The home is seen as a pilot project and the organizers
realize it needs to be part of a longer-term solution
for sex workers.
"Sex
workers are doubly marginalized," said Emilienne de Leon,
head of a local women's' rights group called Semillas.
"They are rejected by society and by their families. When
they get old, either they sell themselves very cheaply
or they don't have enough to eat. It's a very difficult
world."
Sex
Doll Triggers Bomb Alert
Reuters-
A blow-up sex doll sparked a bomb alert in a German post
office after it started to vibrate inside a package awaiting
delivery, police said Wednesday. Reuters Photo "Workers
were unsettled when it began vibrating and made strange
noises," a spokesman for police in the eastern city of
Chemnitz said. "They were worried the package might be
a bomb." Officers brought the sender to the scene and
discovered the source of alarm was an electrical device
inside a life-size female sex doll. The man told police
he had wanted to return the doll because it kept turning
itself on at the wrong moment. Order was restored after
the sender removed the doll's batteries so the defective
product could be returned.
Phone
Sex Operator Gets Settlement
A Florida phone sex operator has won a workers’ compensation
settlement claiming she was injured after regularly masturbating
at work, her lawyer said. The lawyer told Reuters he was
not sure whether the Fort Lauderdale woman’s claim was
the first of its kind, but it certainly was out of the
ordinary. He said his client agreed to a “minimal settlement”
earlier this month. He declined to disclose the amount.
During the course of her claim for workers’ compensation
benefits, the now 40-year-old employee of Fort Lauderdale’s
CFP Enterprises, Inc. said she developed carpal tunnel
syndrome - also known as repetitive motion injury - in
both hands from masturbating as many as seven times a
day while speaking with callers, said the attorney, who
spoke about the case this week on the condition that his
client’s name not be revealed. “She was told to do whatever
it takes to keep the person on the phone as long as possible,”
he said. The woman used one hand to answer the telephone
and the other to note customer’s names and fetishes and
to give herself an orgasm during the verbal exchanges.
Now,
anyone who has ever been in the phone sex industry knows
that it is the rare woman who actually masturbates for
phone sex... it is usually a big act. Most women are doing
things like sitting in a flannel shirt and sweat pants
while folding laundry when they take calls, so this claim
is a bit much. Take my word for it... this woman is ridiculous
for making this case. What she should have asked for was
that phone sex operators get paid more. As most only see
$8 - $10 an hour if that and are not guaranteed work,
while the companies that promote the phone sex are seeing
thousands in an hour.
Caught With The Thongs That Were Wrong!
Two
women described by police as professional shoplifters
stole nearly $8,000 worth of clothes, including 228 pairs
of thong underwear, police said. The two were stopped
after running a red light in downtown Fairfield, CT. Officer
Felix Esposito searched the car and found more than 400
items of clothing allegedly taken from Victoria’s Secret,
Ann Taylor Loft, The Gap and Banana Republic.
The
clothes still had tags on them. Police said they found
bikini tops and bottoms, maternity dresses, maternity
tops, corsets, women’s tops, button-down shirts and a
cashmere sweater. Arrested were Monica Barbosa, 32, of
Queens, N.Y., and Anparo Cruz, 43, of Stamford.
Police
say they had a device called a booster bag that allowed
them to take clothes out of stores without activating
magnetic sensors designed to deter theft. The women were
held overnight and appeared Friday in Bridgeport Superior
Court, where their bonds were set at $50,000 for Cruz
and $25,000 for Barbosa. Detective Sgt. Gene Palazzolo
said the two have also been arrested for shoplifting in
Florida. He said none of the store owners were aware the
clothes were missing until police contacted them.
Designer
Vaginas
An increasing number of women are opting for plastic surgery
on their vagina, citing discomfort during sport, embarrassment
during sex and aesthetic reasons as prime motivating factors.
Despite the lack of figures, gynecologists and cosmetic
surgeries also claim that plastic surgery on vaginas has
become “a trend”. Most operations are designed to reduce
the size of a woman’s inner labia (labia minora), which
can sometimes be larger than the outer labia (labia majora).
“It gets in the way, for example, when sitting on a bike
seat or during sex. It can also lead to embarrassment
during sex,” Dr. De Bruijn said. “In comparison, most
women with a very large labia don’t have any troubles.”
In the US, labia corrective surgery is widely accepted
and women are also opting to have surgery narrowing their
vaginal cavity. The surgery is intended to improve their
sex life and photos of pornography stars often serve for
women as the “designer vagina”.
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