Holistic Wisdom
Always The Best Prices With Our Low Price Guarantee!

 


 
Rewards Program

Low Price Guarantee



Products
ALL Products
Sex Toys For Women
Sex Toys For Men
Sex Toys For Couples
Sex Toy Lines
Bedroom Gear
Adult Gifts
Getting Started

Education
Sexual Health Articles
Sex Toy Care Guide
FREE Newsletter
Sex In The News
Free Resources

Special Offers
Sales & Specials
Low Price Guarantee
Free Samples & Gifts
Flat Rate Shipping
Make It A Gift Basket

Entertainment
Erotic Stories
Sex Jokes
Sexual Quotations

Hot Topics
Female Ejaculation
Fellatio
Cunnilingus
Prostate Massage
Anal Sex
Kegel Exercises

Security
Discreet Orders
No Spam
Confidential Services
Secure Site
Woman Business
Quality Products

Adult Gifts

 

Best Sellers



Make A Dildo Kit

Now you can finally make a very personal vibrating or non-vibrating realistic dildo! This one-of-a-kind kit will create an "identical twin" of yours or your lovers penis and scrotum, using the same patented replication technology employed by special effects houses in Hollywood!

Read & See More


Collections & Sets

Complete vibrator sets with sleeves and accessories. A perfect gift or for people wanting to explore different options!

Read & See More




Fleshlights:

Male Masturbation

Our revolutionary "Real Feel Super Skin" gel inserts elevate sexual pleasure and freedom to new and exciting peaks. You won't believe how real and lifelike these feel when they are lubed up and warmed to body temperature! Cleverly disguised, the Fleshlight™ can be stored & concealed in variety of settings.

Read & See More



Hitachi Magic Wand

May I just say Mmmmmmm! This is heaven. It is not only great for pleasuring the clit and vaginal lips, but your anus, nipples and for men... some like it on their balls, head and shaft. All right, you can use it everywhere! It is my favorite toy and if you only get one sex toy your whole life... get this!

Read & See More




The Waterdancer

This quiet little vibrator is great for clitoral and nipple stimulation. I love it because you can use it in the tub or when you spray over two cups of female ejaculation! Gotta have a waterproof toy when that is going on! It is powerful for a smaller vibrator and I like it better than the "bullet" and "egg" vibrators. It's also discreet and great for travel. Definitely a good choice.

Read & See More



The Rabbit Habit

This is better than the ever popular Rabbit Pearl because it is cordless. I really love this dildo / vibrator because it cradles your clit while it stimulates your g-spot. It is also bendable, rotates and vibrates and is one of our best sellers as well as a toy many of our customers have told me they love.

Read & See More



The Art of
Female Ejaculation

I could not help but recommend the video that I created because I feel it has helped so many women and their partners. I love when customers eMail me back and say that it worked for them as if they are surprised! I know that even people that purchase it are skeptical that it will work for them until they try the techniques. I then end up getting hundreds of eMails every week saying "Wow, it worked!" Obviously this the best video I can recommend.

DVD
VHS
VOD

Video On Demand




Bedroom Gear

Liberator:
Wedges, Ramps, Stages, Cube, Woody Goody Bag.

Read & See More



Rocky Road Baton

This is a favorite Pyrex glass dildos with many of our customers because of the handle and the wide head on the shaft. A wonderfully defined head for a very full sensation, a bumpy shaft for great stimulation (you really feel it when it's inside you) and the handle makes it so easy to manipulate. Great for g-spot and prostate massage and warms to your body temperature and is washed easily.

Read & See More



The Essence CD

When my hubby and I first began dating and I was planning for a romantic night in which we would make love for the first time, I made sure this was playing in the background. It made our night together more beautiful and sensual! Both of us to this day feel ready to whisk one another into the bedroom every time we hear it!!! This is the perfect CD to make the mood erotic, sensual, mysterious, spiritual, and downright spicy! - Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., CEO (Holistic Wisdom Founder)

Read & See More

To listen to a sample of this CD
CLICK HERE



Adult Gift Baskets

Romantic and sexy adult gift baskets and boxes!

 

N e w !



Bend Over Boyfriend DVD

A couple's guide to male anal pleasure. Sex educators Carol Queen and Robert Morgan guide you step-by-step through role-playing and fantasy, give suggestions on how to broach the subject of anal sex with a partner, and teach us the physical "ins and outs" of anal play.

Stars and Cast:
Carol Queen
Robert Morgan

Director:

Shar Rednour

Runtime:
60 minutes


(DVD) $24.99


Guide to Extended Orgasm DVD

Every couple can learn to extend their sexual pleasure with the clinically-tested techniques developed by Canadian physician and world-renowned human sexuality expert, Dr. Jean-Yves Desjardins. Discover easy-to-learn methods to increase your partner's pleasure and build her arousal so she can reach a fully satisfying extended orgasm. This DVD is approximately 60 minutes long.


$29.99


Anne Hooper’s
Sex Toys Book

Sex toys for everyone! From society’s hypocritical attitudes to historical steam-powered dildos, here’s everything you ever wanted to know about sex toys but were afraid to ask. The intimate “road test” analysis describes what each toy feels like and the most satisfying way to use it. This 8½” X 5¾” softbound 128 page book is entertaining and informative ­ the ultimate guide to a sizzling sex life!


$29.99


The One-Hour Orgasm Book

The One-Hour Orgasm demonstrates, with pictures and words, how you can master, to the delight of your sex partner, the famous "Venus Butterfly" technique, can improve your sex life. The authors claim that if a couple were to "do" the "Venus Butterfly" to each other for as little as three minutes each week, it will do more to put the spark back in a relationship than an hour of therapy!

The One-Hour Orgasm is filled with fresh, easy to learn, new approaches and photos. This 9" X 6" soft-bound book has 171 pages of fascinating and informative reading material! You won't be able to put it down!


$19.99

 


Ultimate Vibrator & Dildo Guide

The smart lover learns how to join in, not compete, with these devices created to drive women and men to mind-blowing orgasm after orgasm. Participate or just watch as women show you how they really get off! Find out which vibrators women love the most and why. See new types of dildos, wands and vibrators designed by women for women. Watch as sexually open women show you how they learned to enjoy so much pleasure. This is an orgasm-drenching 100 minute long DVD not to be missed.


$29.99

 


Electronic
Stroke Master

It’s like a workout for your penis! Increase your sexual stamina with the incredible Electronic Stroke Master! It actually counts strokes per minute as you climb to an extended orgasm.

It is two units in one, a masturbator, and a training tool. The 6½” full-length masturbator has a ribbed life-like Futurotic™ sleeve for your pleasure, an adjustable sensor locator, and removable plug-in jack. The power pack records strokes per minute, number of strokes plus LED readout. Requires two AA size batteries, not included. Remember, the more strokes per minute, the longer you last during sex!


$69.99

 


ForPlay Lubricants

Pour some on, and suddenly you're delicious! ForPlay Succulent lubricants come in wide a variety of flavors, so there's something for every taste! They're all-natural, non-staining, water-based, and water-soluble. Latex-safe, sugar-free. 5.5 ounces.

Read & See More

Labia Vibrators
Clitoral & Labia Vibrators that focus amazing vibrations to your labia, anus and clitoris all at once!

Read & See More



Disguised Vibes
Looking for a discreet vibrator? Then choose from our line of vibrators constructed especially to fool those around you. From lipstick, nail polish, mascara and rubber ducky vibrators we have your privacy covered!

Read & See More

3D-SEXGAMES.COM

Female Ejaculation-
Free Female Ejaculation Movie
Female Ejaculation Technique
How To Make A Female Ejaculate
Female Ejaculation Video
Female Ejaculation And
G Spot
Real Female Ejaculation
Female Ejaculation Gallery
Female Ejaculate
Female Ejaculation Pic
Female Ejaculation Story
Free Female Ejaculation Clip
Female Squirting Ejaculation
Better Sex-
Better Sex Products
Better Sex Video
Better Sex com
Better Sex Tips
Better Sex Techniques
Better Sex Positions
Better Sex Life
Better Sex Video Series
Guide To Better Sex
Better Oral Sex
How To Make Sex Better
Better Sex DVDs
Better Orgasms With Sex Toy
Better Sex For Woman
Better Sex With Wife
Better Sex Series
Have Better Sex
Sex-
World Sex
Sex Stories
Sex Toys
Sex Position
Sex Video - Sex Movie
Teacher of Sex
Adult Sex
Sex Game
Same Sex Marriage
Sex Machine
Free Adult Sex Story
Real Sex
Sex Education
Safe Sex
Sex Shop
Sex Story Post
Sex Site
Sex Video-
Sex Video
Free Sex Video Clip
Free Sex Video Sample
Sex Video Trailer

The Holistic Wisdom Journal
              Read All of Our Sexual Health & Sex Tip Articles
              Read Articles By Subject:
Sexual Health I Sex In The News I Sex Advice I Holistic Health I And More

   Feature Article
~
Losing Sexual Desire For Your Partner
   How To Keep The Spark Ignited

   Ask Lisa
~
Vulvodynia- Painful Sex & Resources

   Sex Tip
~
Playing With Hair As Foreplay

  
Sex In The News 

~ Woman Convicted Of Raping A Man
~ A Thousand Kisses Political Support
~ Man Sues Ex- Fiancé After Sex Change

~ The Speedo Ban Has Been Lifted!
~ Former Lesbian Minister Wins Her Appeal
~ Steak For Sex?

~ Sexually Abused Animals In Sweden
~ Teacher Fired Over Licking Student's Ears
~ Vagina Sizes

~ Virginity For Sale
~ Gay Communist Rebels Marry In Philippines
~ Aids Funds In Danger
~ Gay Book Ban

May 1, 2005

Quote of the Week
"I believe in making the world safe for our children, but not our children's children, because I don't think children should be having sex."

-Jack Handey
Deep Thoughts
Saturday Night Live - NBC

 

Sex Joke of the Week-

Jake was dying. His wife, Becky, was maintaining a candlelight vigil by his side. She held his fragile hand, tears running down her face. Her praying roused him from his slumber. He looked up and his pale lips began to move slightly. “Becky my darling,” he whispered. “Hush my love,” she said. “Rest, don’t talk.” He was insistent. “Becky,” he said in his tired voice, “I have something that I must confess.”

“There’s nothing to confess,” replied the weeping Becky, everything’s all right, go to sleep.” “No, no I must die in peace, Becky I slept with your sister, your best friend, her best friend and your mother!”

“I know, my sweet one” whispered Becky, “let the poison work.”

 

 

 

Losing Sexual Desire For Your Partner
        How To Keep The Spark Ignited



Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D. CEO
Holistic Wisdom, Inc. Founder

 

 

Most couples will lose sexual desire for one another during the course of a long term relationship. It is normal, it is to be expected and it is certainly something that most people can work through.

This article will address several facets as to why people lose desire as well as what can be done about it. However, keep in mind that every relationship is unique and is complex in it's own way thus, if there is a serious concern with an on going problem, I would suggest seeking out a counselor to work with you and your partner. This way you can take time and address issues thoroughly with the attention that both you and your partner deserve.

L o s i n g   T h e   D e s i r e

It is not uncommon to look over at our partner and feel a loss of "sexual spark" that was once there. We may even find ourselves longing for the good 'ol days when the relationship was new and exciting, fantasizing about previous relationships and even fantasies of new ones.

 

Why does a relationship lose it's intensity?

Any relationship is initially more exciting on the surface in the beginning then it ever will be throughout it's course because there is so much of the "unknown" going on. Remember how you weren't sure if they would call or if they were interested enough for another date? Remember how you felt when you first felt your lips touch theirs? The adrenaline coursing through your body from sexual arousal and something else... fears around vulnerability.

Let's look at vulnerability for a moment as it is something important to think about. True, the sexual arousal was high, but that vulnerability was a big part of what made the relationship "exciting." It is the source of man's greatest fear... the fear of the unknown.

We tend to be afraid that we could at any moment be rejected by a new partner. They may not like our personality, our physical chemistry... whatever the reason, they could reject us. We in turn may have to reject them and find ourselves in a really awkward position. Either way it can be pretty scary.

This is risky stuff... taking a chance on love and sex. Our body often gives us the same chemical high it would if we were jumping out of an airplane when we are falling in love and even lust. Yet, we cannot be healthy people and be in a constant state of anxiety. Thus, we become familiar and adapt to our environment, our new expectations and relationships.

When it comes to love, we tend to overlook the "fear" and vulnerability aspect. We are not sure if they are right for us, if we are right for them and while we know that it is nerve racking to live in that state of unknown... it is terribly exciting. It is one of the ways we most feel alive... when we take such risks and make ourselves vulnerable.

C o m i n g   D o w n

Shortly after our partner confirms their feelings and we reciprocate, the honeymoon begins. It is often the most euphoric part of the relationship... you are still basking in the glow of the big adrenaline rush, but now, you can better enjoy the sexual attraction and emotional connection because the fear is made less through a reassurance that you both have a mutual interest in one another.

L e v e l i n g   O u t

Then comes the part that many people think of as boring for the long-term. It is the period of a relationship when you are very familiar with one another. You have complete assurance that they want to go the distance with you and with that, the sexual heat often tends to mellow.

 

 

In addition, it is during this time that the "real you" and the "real them" start to come out and all the things you dislike about yourself or were afraid they would dislike tend to come forward. Also, the little quirks that you found so "cute" about your partner often become annoyances and you realize that the rose colored glasses you were wearing when you thought they were the "perfect' person for you have come off.

Here is where true intimacy can begin, but it requires communication, honesty, compromise, listening, compassion and understanding. It requires work.


A beginning relationship is much like a beautiful potted plant. Nice, but it will require care... and now that you have a long-term relationship you and your partner are taking that plant and creating a garden of opportunity to have the kind of intimacy emotionally, mentally and physically that many people only dream of having.

Much like a beautiful garden that provides spectacular flowers, fruit and veggies... there is a lot of love and care that go into making it that way. In fact, there are times when you will need to sweet and use aching muscles to get that beautiful garden the way it is and it will require maintenance for it to stay that way. Yet the benefits are amazing. Ultimately you and your partner have to decide what you are willing to invest in it.

D o o m e d   T o   S t a y   B o r i n g ?

When it comes to the gardening period, most people neglect and take one another for granted. The plant that represented all the passion in the beginning of the relationship wilts and it is the time when many couples begin to feel bored in their relationship. I get many eMails from people who are in this stage of their relationship and they simply want to "spice up" their love life.

Look In The Mirror

Many of the correspondence I get has a problematic theme that I wish to point out. They blame their partner for their boredom. They claim to be sexually and/or romantically hungry with no where to turn as they feel their partner is not meeting their needs.

The problem with this attitude for most people is that there is no accountability. In most cases when I ask them if they have tried a variety of things the answer is no. They tend to return to blaming their partner for the problem.

The first thing that I can suggest to anyone seeking to spice up their sex life is to take personal responsibility. You have to be proactive to be successful at anything in life and your sex life is no different.

Communicate!

The second thing I often ask is if they have discussed these concerns with their partner. I am never surprised when they say no. Too often they are looking for a quick fix to their problem without taking responsibility for their sex life or taking the time to talk to the most important person about it... their partner!

Don't Cause Harm To The Relationship

Finally, there is the correspondence that I get asking about whether I think it would be all right for them to have affairs because their partner is not sexually satisfying them. I have taken the time to write an article about infidelity as I feel it is an important topic. I suggest those considering it... read it- When Is Infidelity Okay?. To sum it up... infidelity between committed couples is NEVER excusable.

It reminds me of the new AARP commercial in the U.S. for Social Security Benefits when the women has called a plumber to repair her sink and the plumber says... "Yes, your sink is clogged. Only thing to do now is tear-down your house." She gives this look of shock and horror as bulldozers begin tearing down her home.

Why would you tear apart a whole relationship by lying to and betraying your partner? If you have taken every step you can to repair it but the foundation is falling apart, then if you must walk away.... walk away from the relationship in a forthright and honest manner.

Bottom line on this... try and repair your sex life if that seems to be the problem, don't use it as an excuse to tear your whole relationship apart.

T a k i n g   C o n t r o l

First, if you want to have a hot, passionate, long-term sex life... you need to take responsibility for your relationship. You need to communicate to get things out on the table about what your desires are and how you can have those met. To make things more exciting, you can certainly read the sex tip articles of this site, bring in sex toys and try anything from role playing to taking a sexy vacation and making erotic dates.

The secret to a long and fulfilling relationship is to not just stay passionate about your relationship, but about life as well. It is through our perceptions that we create our reality. If we numb ourselves with television, and other forms of escape while neglecting our lives then we aren't truly living with passion and that carries over to the bedroom.

I like to think of it in terms of those home design shows... the ones like Trading Spaces, Designing On A Dime and other such shows on the Home & Garden Channel. Most people are content to live in a home that is drab, plain and even run down with need for repair. They may complain but they never get around to cleaning out that spare room or taking care of their garden. The same applies to one's sex life. If you neglect it, the only one you can blame for it is yourself and the same applies to your partner.

It is when you decide to be passionate about your relationship and invest in it through your time and even money... much like taking care of your home or car... you will be rewarded through your efforts. Why wouldn't you invest in your relationship... it is supposed to outlast your car, your job and basically everything in you life so isn't it what needs the most TLC?

G o i n g   B e n e a t h   T h e   S u r f a c e

Most people struggle with emotional intimacy to begin with, so the fact that so many people are in the dark about how to have amazing sex is not a surprise. What most people fail to understand is that really good sex is meaningful. How can you possibly enjoy every morsel of a meal if you are shoving food down your throat while watching television in three minutes time?

Yet, many people approach sex that way. They want a quick scratch to satisfy a physical itch... but if that is all that you put into it through your attitude and behavior, then that is all you will receive. To really understand what makes fantastic sex, think of the moments in your life when you have really been present with something... when you were not focused on a bunch of mind-chatter on surface things, but you were really "in" the moment.

The best sexual adventures comes from deep intimacy as it is completely interconnected. This is not to say that you can only have intimacy with one partner, it is more about how you approach intimacy. Do you jump into bed to get off or do you make a point of really allowing yourself to be vulnerable with someone. All your hopes, dreams, insecurities, pouring out through your eyes and your energy when you are with someone while sharing a sexual experience with them. When they are doing the same you, then you can both have mind shattering, whole body orgasms because you are surrendering every part of yourself to the sexual ecstasy, not just your genitals.

The beginning of a relationship is like a day at the beach. Beautiful and nice but only the surface. The true ecstasy is deep inside the ocean of your relationship.

That is why long-term relationships allow us to have deeper and more powerful connections, because it is through experience and time that we can reveal our ever changing and evolving self to them and they in turn to us.

Most of us are caught up in our busy schedules, our preoccupation with tasks, and are guarding ourselves, keeping our truly vulnerable hearts hidden. Yet, it is when we let go and bring down our walls of defense that we can truly be known and know someone else.

We are more than our genitals, we are more than an orgasm, we are a whole, complete person that requires multiple facets of passion in our lives... why stop at the physical surface?

I am not suggesting that every time you have sex with your partner it has to be a Tantric, mind altering experience... sometimes it is fun to have a quickie, a funny role play, etc. through a physically focused sexual experience. What I am suggesting is that when you or your partner are bored in your relationship... you both have to look into the mirror and there you will see the person making it boring!

I have seen people on vacation, surrounded by tropical beauty and oceans of blue who complain that it is boring. Are you kidding me? Life is what you make it. If you think that swimming amongst dolphins, fish and the underwater world of the ocean is boring it will be. If you see that you are able to explore a world that is rich, deep, while holding keys to many mysteries in the ocean, then it will be.

A relationship is no different. You can really explore it, nurture it, love it and bring to it creativity, appreciation and love. This is when you will know the riches it has to offer in and out of the bedroom.

W h a t   C a n   Y o u   D o ?

 

Of course finding what works for you and your relationship is something that you and your lover have to explore by communicating, compromise and loving effort on both of your behalves. Understand that there will be low points to any relationship, but what makes one relationship last with passion is what you each put into it.

From leaving love notes, to learning a new sexual technique, to taking a romantic getaway or date to simply listening to your partner's needs and then expressing your own... you and your partner make your relationship what it is... there are no bounds to what you can accomplish with imagination, creativity, love and desire!

 

Take a look at our sex techniques,
romantic ideas and get started today!

 

 

 

 

Enter Our Charity Raffle!


Proceeds Go To The
Holistic Wisdom Legal Aid Support Fund

 

 

 

For only $5 you will automatically receive access to the Fellatio Fun Online Manual for FREE (A $14.99 value) just for entering, so you automatically win and you get to help a charity! You will also be entered to win the grand prize!

Congratulations to
Jackson In Memphis, Tennessee
for winning the May 1, 2005 Raffle!

 

 

Ask Lisa
     Relationship & Sex Advice

 

With hundreds of eMails coming in every day and while
I answer many, it is not possible for me to reply to all of them. However, I wanted to provide a section where we take some of our readers questions and post them on our web site so that we can provide answers that everyone can benefit from having the information available on our web site.

To submit your question such as those shown below eMail us for consideration of publishing it in our next newsletter.

 

Hi Lisa,

I have been diagnosed with Vulvodynia (pain especially during sex). Where can I get resources to help me with this?

- Kate

 

Hi Kate,

Vulvodynia also referred to as Vestibulitis, and is diagnosed from the symptoms of pain or discomfort of the female genitalia or surrounding area. Symptoms of this can be general pain, burning, stinging, irritation, itching, inflammation or rawness. The discomfort can be constant or occasional and may be worsen during sexual activity.

In the medical community, Vulvodynia is being connected to a systemic connective tissue disorder.

Listed below you will find some helpful resources-

Vulvar Pain Foundation

National Vulvodynia Association

Vulvodynia.com

Vulvarpain.com

SexWithoutPain.com

Women's Heath

DrDonnica.com

Vulvar Links Page

Best,

Lisa

 

 

 

Sex Tip

Play With Your Lovers Hair

When you want to begin a sexual experience, a great way to relax your lover is to simply play with their hair. From brushing it, to braiding it stimulating the scalp through hair play is a great way to stimulate the nerve endings and quite the mind. It allows for a soft, sweet beginning to getting physical and allows your lover to feel pampered!

 

 

 

Holistic Wisdom Readers Forum

This section allows our readers to provide feedback regarding articles and topics on our web site. All correspondence from our readers is with their permission.  Opinions expressed through our forum are not necessarily our own, but we believe in the freedom of speech and allow for those who wish to be heard an opportunity to express themselves.

To submit your opinions such as those shown below eMail us for consideration of publishing it in our next newsletter.


Lisa,

I was having problems ejaculating and I was able to do it a little after I watched your video. That was when I emailed you to ask what I could to to increase my ejaculate and I was so happy to hear from you. I just wanted to let you know that the extra tips you provided to me did the trick... now I just need to find a great way to cover the bed because I am squirting so much! Thanks for all of your help. My husband and I are like kids again.

- Janet


Dear Lisa,

I can't commend or thank you enough for your news letter and bringing little known info to light; distancing it from the solely prurient and profit motivated "porn world" to a more clinical, if not scientific view.

Don't misunderstand, I have an active libido and prurient interests. Porn certainly has it's place. I actually blame the scientific/medical community for not making this information readily available to inquiring and curious minds (like me). Not until I read The Clitoral Truth by Rebecca Chalker would I have believed there exists so much politics in the science of anatomy!

Thanks for your knowledge, experience and for you and your husband for sharing. -Michael

 

 

Want To See More Information About Our
Female Ejaculation Movies?

Female Ejaculation Movie Packages

Experience Female Ejaculation Today!!!

 

 

Sexual Wisdom
      
Sex In The News

         This section is for sexual current events and news; allowing our web site visitors
         to hear sex news around the world.

 


Woman Convicted Of Raping A Man


A Norwegian woman has been sentenced to nine months in jail for raping a man.
A 31-year-old man fell asleep on a sofa at a party in January 2004 and woke to find the 23-year-old woman was having oral sex with him. Under Norwegian law, all sexual acts with someone who is "unconscious or for other reasons unable to oppose the act" are considered rape.

The court sentenced the woman Wednesday to nine months in jail and ordered her to pay 40,000 Norwegian crowns ($6,355) in compensation. "This is a very harsh sentence," the woman's lawyer, Per Magne Kristiansen, told the Norwegian news agency NTB. The woman argued the man had been awake and consented.

The prosecutor had sought a 10-month sentence and argued the court should not be more lenient with a woman than a man. It was Norway's first conviction of a woman for rape. Norway has long traditions of equality -- 40 percent of the cabinet of Prime Minister Kjell Magne Bondevik, for instance, are women.

 


A Thousand Kisses Political Support

A performance artist aims to do just that when he attempts to kiss a photograph of Blair for eight hours in a marathon display of affection for the British leader, who is seeking reelection on May 5, 2005. Mark McGowan, whose previous stunts include sitting in a bath of baked beans for two weeks with sausages strapped to his head and nailing his feet to a gallery wall, said he felt Blair was the best candidate in the upcoming election.

"I'm just going to give the picture of Blair quick kisses, they won't be long smooches," said McGowan, who will perform his amorous stunt outside the prime minister's residence at 10 Downing Street on election day.

"He's been really feeling the heat from the opposition recently an I wanted to show him some affection. I've been practicing on my hand and using a stopwatch and figure I can kiss the picture about 200 times a minute," he added. McGowan famously protested against Blair in 2003 when he pushed a nut across London pavements with his nose to draw attention to student debt, but said the prime minister would get his vote next Thursday. Polls show Blair and his ruling Labour party on course to win a third term in power.

 


Man Sues Ex- Fiancé After Sex Change

Kuttiyamma, (29 yo) was born with both male and female genitals, had been in love with his relative, Laura, 25, for 15 years before having surgery to become a man and change her name to Binu. But Laura became engaged to another man and Binu is suing her for breach of trust after spending $1,150.00 on the sex change in southern Kerala state. "She had agreed to marry me after the surgery," the paper quoted Binu saying in the petition. "I took loans to pay the hospital bills." Laura's fiancé has since backed out of the wedding after hearing of Binu. The paper did not say how Laura and Kuttiyamma/Binu are related.

 


The Speedo Ban Has Been Lifted!


For more than 30 years, a Victorian-themed resort at the southern tip of New Jersey said no to "skintight, formfitting or bikini type" bathing attire on males over the age of 12.

For an ocean resort that once required men and women to swim at different times of day, wearing heavy woolen, cover-everything swimsuits, it made sense to modernize. "It's a beach town, for God's sake," said Police Chief Diane Sorantino. The town also agreed to lift a rule that stopped bare-chested men from strolling along the beach front promenade.

Not that everyone's cheering. It's often the older guys — the ones with beer guts, or wrinkly skin, or unsightly tufts of hair — who wear the tiny swimsuits. "The people you want to see in the Speedos, you don't," said Maggie Creighton, 19, who works in a downtown lingerie store.

"I haven't been to the beach in years, but now I'm thinking I'll go down there this year," said Joann Quinn, of North Cape May. "The beach ought to be interesting this year."

 


Former Lesbian Minister Wins Her Appeal


Reuters

A lesbian Methodist minister defrocked last year after admitting to living with a woman won her appeal against the church's decision because it had not defined "practicing homosexual," the United Methodist Church said.

She had been stripped her of her credentials as a minister at the First United Methodist Church of Germantown, Philadelphia. She was allowed to have a lesser role in the church but could not perform ceremonies such as baptisms and weddings. "An appeals committee has reversed a clergy court verdict in the case of Irene Elizabeth Stroud," the statement said.

In a 14-page decision, the committee reversed both the conviction and the penalty on the technical grounds that the church has not properly defined the term "practicing homosexual". The committee also held that the church law under which the charges were brought was a new standard that had not been formally ratified by the church authorities and so could not be used to convict Stroud.

Stroud, 34, was originally found to have violated the church's Book of Discipline, which forbids the ordination and appointment of "self-avowed practicing homosexuals." Stroud told the hearing she was in a committed relationship with another woman and had decided to be open about her sexuality because it was the honest, Christian thing to do.

Her stance was backed by many members of her Philadelphia congregation. The committee said it recognized that "practicing homosexual" may involve engaging in "genital sexual activity" but that the term had not been clearly defined by the church and so it could not be used against Stroud.

Stroud said in an interview on Friday she was relieved at the decision but not elated because she didn't know whether the church would actually appeal to the Judicial Council. "I'm encouraged and I'm hopeful, and I'm grateful that the committee took seriously the case that was brought," she said.

 


Steak For Sex?

Rhode Island police say that a man had offered steak for sex! He didn't have any money, but police say that didn't stop Wayne Glaude, 22, from soliciting sex from an undercover officer. Instead, police said, he offered steak. Wayne, who works at a meat company, tried to strike a deal with the undercover officer, according to Detective Capt. Luke Gallant. "He didn't have any money, and had a couple of nice T-bones sitting at home." He was arrested and pleaded innocent in Providence District Court to a count of soliciting from a motor vehicle. He was released on personal recognizance.

 


Sexually Abused Animals In Sweden


More than 200 animals, mostly horses, have been sexually abused in Sweden since the 1970s, the country's animal-protection agency said Friday in its first report on bestiality. The government commissioned the study after reports sexual abuse of animals could be on the rise in Sweden.

Most of the cases were reported by veterinarians and police after 2000, the study said. But it was not clear if sex with animals had become more common or if people had become more likely to report it, it said. Authors of the report noted Sweden has not outlawed bestiality, as has Canada, Britain and some US states. Abusers can only be prosecuted if the animal is physically injured. The study found 209 cases of sexual abuse of animals, including 161 involving horses, 18 dogs and 17 cattle.

 


Teacher Fired Over Licking Student's Ears

A Main High School teacher has been charged with having unlawful sexual contact with a 17-year-old female student during a tutoring session at the teacher’s home, police said. The teacher is free on $500 bail pending a June 14 court date, after her arrest at her home. She is a longtime teacher at Bath’s high school. Brunswick Detective Sgt. Mark Waltz said the teacher-student relationship makes the consensual relationship a criminal act.

 


Vagina Sizes

According to a study just out in a British obstetrics journal, “women vary widely in genital dimensions.” In other words, variety is normal. Vaginas tend to mirror body type. Bigger, taller women tend to have somewhat larger vaginas. Of course, age and childbearing affect dimensions. The older you get, the more kids you have, the bigger you become. But remember, Kegel exercises can do a lot to help return vaginal muscles back into pre-kid shape.

In a 1996 study of 56 women, doctors found the length of the vagina varied between 2.7 inches to 5.8 inches. Width varied from 1.9 inches to 2.5 inches. How long should I last? One interesting study showed that men think they ought to last forever, but women are just as happy to have them last just long enough. Other research suggests the typical “ejaculatory latency” time ranges from over 7 minutes to around 10 minutes.

See more About Vagina's

 


Virginity For Sale


Inside a tiny breeze block house, beneath the dusty hills on the desert outskirts of Lima, religious paintings like the Virgin and Child and the Sacred Heart share wall space with photographs of a beguiling young woman posing as a model.

Graciela's bid to sell her virginity provoked outrage in Peru despite doing it to help her sick 43-year-old mother, whose daughter, Graciela, is prepared to take drastic measures to help her.

Graciela - or Gracia as she prefers to be known - has been working since the age of eight, left school at 15 and now three years later earns around $60 a month acting or modeling.

Her mother is too sick to work and she does not want her 12-year-old brother to miss school. But Gracia says the money she earns is not enough and every month she worries about not being able to pay the bills or having to say No when her brother Guillermo comes back from school asking for money for books.

Last month, Gracia decided to sell her virginity to pay for her mother's medical treatment and to improve her family's quality of life. "My mother was ill and my brother and me too. [And I felt] the utter hopelessness of wanting to move forward, wanting to study, be someone and you just don't get the opportunity because it's all about money," says Gracia.

"Sometimes you find yourself at a crossroads and you see no way out," she adds, staring at the terra-cotta painted walls. "You stop and see there's only thing that's going to help you and perhaps it only has to happen once in your life. "That's what I thought. And you never have to do it again. "You have to get on with it, without looking back, because you can study, work with this money and help lots of people who are poor like me." She said she offered to sell her virginity to the highest bidder, advertising herself in newspapers, on television and the Internet.

It did not take long before many in this staunchly Catholic country were up in arms. Some said her actions were nothing short of prostitution. Others said she needed psychological help. She says some people admired her ingenuity, saying she was doing more than the teenage girls who lost their virginity in the parks because they wrongly thought they were in love.

Her virginity almost became a question of national pride, with some commentators and chat show hosts accusing her of trying to damage Peru's reputation. But Gracia was unfazed by the criticisms. "People in Peru are opportunistic and they see everyone else's problems, but never their own," she says. "I'm just a person who's trying to get ahead in life. I've always worked since I was little, but here there are no opportunities for young people. I came out and said publicly what my situation was and nobody, nobody has been capable of saying, thank you, I'll help you with something."

Graciela laughs as she recounts how a Canadian man offered her $1.5m (£780,000) to have sex with her. "He said he'd prefer I didn't do it, but if I was going to do it with anyone, it should be with someone who treated me right and I think he knew his bid wasn't going to be topped. "He was really happy when I said No."

Almost a month after Gracia advertised her virginity for sale, her economic situation has not changed. But her moral situation has. She says she has decided not to give up her virginity for any price. "Mum lives with me 24 hours a day, and respects my decision because I am an adult. "But she was giving me advice, and explaining how my life might be if I did this: What example would I give my children, what kind of man would accept me with this past, would it make me happy, this money?

"Obviously it's a necessity, but it's not everything, it's a bad necessity and it made me realize that this money wasn't going to make me happy, I could make myself happy with my own merits." Some critics have suggested that Gracia offered to sell her virginity solely to court publicity and never actually intended to go through with it. Only she will know if that is the case. Certainly, her arguments are convincing, but perhaps so too is her acting. But what she has done, indisputably, is come out and say: The way many people live in Peru is wrong and I want to do something about it.

 


Gay Communist Rebels Marry In Philippines

Two communist rebels in the Philippines truly became "brothers in arms" when the men were married in a jungle camp. Draped in a red flag with hammer and sickle in gold sequins, they exchanged vows, walked under an archway of assault rifles and were serenaded with revolutionary love songs by a choir of New People’s Army comrades.

Ka Andres and kA Jose, who both use the word for “brother” before their names, each held a bullet during the ceremony on the southern island of Mindanao to show their “commitment to the armed struggle”, the Philippine Daily Inquirer said. Homosexuality is a largely taboo topic in the Philippines, with stereotypes of flamboyantly effeminate men reinforced in the media.

 


Aids Funds In Danger From Using Sexy Language

The web site is at PrideAlive.org. The material may not be appropriate for all audiences. A Minnesota legislator who said he was "shocked and disgusted" by explicit language on a gay-outreach web site has won approval in a House committee to eliminate all Health Department funding for the state's largest AIDS-prevention program.

A measure sponsored by Rep. Tom Emmer, R-Delano, would end $425,000 in funding for the Minnesota AIDS Project (MAP). It would forbid state funding for "web sites, pamphlets, or other communications that contain sexually explicit images or language."

Emmer said he objected to language and images in articles on the web site of Pride Alive, a program sponsored by MAP that targets gay and bisexual men. The articles were from two Pride Alive magazines, Shameless and Outsight, published in printed and electronic forms. While defending the web site language, MAP said Friday that no state money is used for the Pride Alive project or its magazines, which are supported by private donations, a distinction noted on the Pride Alive site.

"The language is appropriate for the gay and bisexual audience it's aimed at, written with language that communicates directly with them," said Amy Weiss, MAP spokeswoman. State Health Commissioner Aggie Leitheiser said her department is talking with House members about Emmer's amendment to the Health Department budget bill.

"MAP has been a pretty good partner for us, doing things we can't do. But as far as sexually explicit language, I'm not sure what that means." Said Emmer: "I'm not trying to change anybody's lifestyle. People can do whatever they want. I just don't think state money should be used for this childish and offensive language."

Emmer said he hasn't talked with Health Department officials about his concerns, and he isn't sure how to define inappropriate sexual language. "Maybe that's a role for the [Health] commissioner," he added. Health officials said the department's review committee has approved AIDS-prevention material supported with public money, based on federal guidelines.

Losing Health Department funding would cut the MAP budget by about 10 percent, including money for the state AIDS hot line, HIV testing clinics and HIV prevention outreach programs, said Lorraine Teel, MAP executive director. "This amendment is telling us to shut up, and we won't shut up," she said. "We are doing important public health work to protect Minnesotans Emmer, an attorney, said he might be persuaded to restore some MAP money but not to change the prohibition against sexually explicit language because "it's just plain wrong."

 


Book Ban Shows Violation Of Free Speech


Alabama Representative Gerald Allen (R) has put forward a bill under which public school libraries could no longer buy new copies of plays or books by gay authors, or about gay characters.

Books by Tennessee Williams, Truman Capote and Gore Vidal, for example, would get the axe. Shakespeare is safe for now. Allen originally wanted to ban some of the Bard’s works, but in the face of criticism, has exempted the classics.

Allen also had to back down from including public and college libraries in the bill. “I don’t look at it as censorship,” said Allen. “I look at it as protecting the hearts and souls and minds of our children.” In book after book, says Allen, he reads about the “homosexual agenda.” “It’s not healthy for America, it doesn’t fit what we stand for,” said Allen.

Problem is Allen, that is what you don't stand for, and it is YOUR agenda. It is in complete violation of this country's constitution.

 

 

 

Specials
         Sale Items, Clearance, Gift Ideas, Featured Items & More!

New Red Liberator Shapes!


For All Colors Of Liberator Shapes Click Here

 



For Larger Picture

Water Gems Hummer

A must have for water fun!

Water Gems Hummer has a jelly soft head, rotating beaded shaft with reverse rotation with flickering hummer for intense clitoral action. There are easy push buttons for powerful vibrations and an auto reverse function. With an insertable shaft of 5.5" x 1.25", you will be glowing in ecstasy. The removable Easy-Load battery pack requires four AA batteries (not included). Take this Water Gems to the next level of water sex!

Our Low Price- $59.99
$6.00 S&H USA



For Larger Picture

Gemini Probe

It's all in the movement!

The Gemini Probe is a vibrating double dong is double jointed for her pleasure. The anal probe is 6" x 1" and the vaginal penis shaped probe is 4.5" x 1.25". Three AAA size batteries (not included) provide the multi-speed vibrations. The easy grip handle allows the Gemini Probe to move effortlessly!

Our Low Price- $49.99
$6.00 S&H USA


For Larger Picture

Crystal Bunny

Hours of pure orgasmic pleasure!

The bunny ears provide clitoral stimulation, the firm jelly 4" x 1.25" penis rotates, squirms and vibrates for multiple sensations and last but not least, the bunny tail for tingling anal pleasure! The wide, soft adjustable straps fit most sizes. The powerful multi-speed battery pack fits in the palm of your hand. Three AA size batteries (not included) provide the powerful vibrations.

This Crystal Bunny is fantastic!

Available In Pink or Blue
Our Low Price- $49.99
$6.00 S&H USA

 

System JO
Women's H2O Warming Personal Lubricant

Warming & Waterbased!
Contains no oil, wax, or silicone! Women's H2O Warming Lubricant has all the benefits of the original System JO, similar in feel and viscosity, yet contains no oil, wax, or silicone. It is 100% latex safe and manufactured under strict US FDA guidelines. It enhances your senses of pleasure like no other waterbased lubricant.

Click Here For Different Sizes


For Larger Picture

Jesse's Vibro Flex Dong

Sometimes you just need to be flexible! Jesse's Vibro Flex Dildo has a bendable shaft that has been designed specifically for the Jesse Jane Collection. The Crystalessence material is soft, pliable and for extra stimulation, the shaft is noduled. Overall length is 9.5" with a 1.5" shaft diameter. Two AA size batteries, not included, provide the multi-speed vibrations. Bend it, shape it, have it your way!

Our Low Price- $34.99
$5.00 S&H USA

 


Clearance & Sales

We want to provide you with low cost incentives to give you the best in quality as well as the best in prices! Make sure to stay updated through our newsletter or rechecking this site as we will be discounting items as well as providing clearance opportunities for you to save!

 

Gift Services

Adult Gift Baskets


Gift Certificates

Paper & Electronic

Gift Wrapping

With Gift Cards

Featured Items

Customer Favorites
& Staff Picks-
Let Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., CEO provide you with our most recommended products, pictures, descriptions, ordering information and why they are the best for sexual play and education!
Remember that we offer a LOW PRICE GUARANTEE on all of our products!

 

Better Sex Videos

Better Sex Videos

Techniques and tips for Female Ejaculation, Foreplay, Oral Sex, Sex Toys, Anal Sex, Kama Sutra Sexual Positions, Tantra, Erotic Massage, Extended Orgasm, Virtual Sex DVDs, Hot New Adult Videos, And Many More!

Female Ejaculation

Female Ejaculation

Best Female Ejaculation Movie
  Instructional
ALL Female Ejaculation Videos
  Educational
Female Ejaculation Videos
  Entertainment
Female Ejaculation En Español
  Spanish Educational
Female Ejaculation Book
  Educational & Entertaining
Female Ejaculation Info.
  Educational & Entertaining
Female Ejaculation Gift Box
  Educational & Entertaining

 

Sex Toys & Romantic Gear

Sex Toys &
Romantic Gear

Dildos, Vibrators, Make Your Own Dildo Kits, Male Masturbation Toy: The Fleshlight, Pyrex Glass Dildos, Personal Lubricants, Kama Sutra, Liberator Shapes, Waterproof Sex Throws, Storage For Sex Toys & Valuables Highly Scented Candles, Romantic Music, Gift Sets, Bedroom Gear... And Much More!
See All

 

Holistic Wisdom Is Your
Female Ejaculation Resource

From information on how to make a female ejaculate, to female ejaculation pics, movies, and even free female ejaculation movie clips / MPEGS we can help you understand, learn and experience female ejaculation today!

Intimate Shaving For Pubic Hair
The Best Tools For Getting Those Sensitive Areas!

To find out more or to order one
CLICK HERE

Remember to bookmark our site
before leaving it!



Buy Deep Throat On DVD


The most famous of all adult movies! Linda Lovelace's classic story of a young beautiful lady with a special problem: she feels she should be getting more out of sex than a lot of little tingles… and mix her together with a young kookie, horny physician who discovers the whys and hows of getting her bells ringing! Deep Throat is the funniest, sexually explicit romp to ever come along in motion picture history!

See All Of Our Articles On Sexual Health & Sex Tips

CLICK HERE- TO RETURN TO THE MAIN NEWSLETTER PAGE

Thank You For Reading The Articles Contained In
The Holistic Wisdom Journal

This web site contains links to third party web sites. These links are provided solely as a convenience to you and not as an endorsement by Holistic Wisdom of the content or on such third party web sites. Holistic Wisdom is not responsible for the content or products of linked third party sites, nor do we make any representations regarding the content or accuracy of materials on such third party web sites. If you decide to access linked third party web sites, you do so at your own risk.

 



Holistic Wisdom ® Is A Registered Trademark With The Holistic Wisdom Corporation Serial # 77365375

 Disclaimer & Title 18 Information   This Site Is For Adults Only  

Bookmark and Share



Copyright © 2000-2010
The Holistic Wisdom Corporation
Namaste