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The
Art of A Great Blow Job, Oral
Sex At It's Finest
Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
Holistic Wisdom Founder
Giving head,
a blow job, fellatio, call it what you like, but there are many
wonderful benefits to performing this delicious sex act.
For one,
it can provide the one giving it empowerment with infinite possibilities
to be creative and provide amazing pleasure. Particularly when
performed with enthusiasm it can not only be incredible to the
receiver but to the one providing it as well.
Let's first
discuss the most important ingredient to giving fantastic fellatio...
ATTITUDE.
If you approach
this as something that disgusts you, or even a chore then in
my opinion, you shouldn't bother doing it. No matter how many
cool tips you know, you will never give really good head with
out desire driving it. Sex
should be fun and exciting to each partner no matter what you
are doing.
Several
women I know have told me that they exchange favors with their
husband for fellatio. For example, one friend told me that her
husband will do the dishes for a week just to get a blow job!
I have to say that if that is the kinda of sex life you have...
you are missing out on some serious passion.
Don't ever
underestimate the power of your perceptions. If you perceive
any sex act, including fellatio to be dirty, repulsive, or a
chore then it will be. If you approach it as an opportunity
to be the sexual goddess or god in the bedroom where you have
total (consensual) control over your partner, with the ability
to make them scream out for more until they reach an earth shattering
orgasm where they can't stand up for a half an hour due to the
sheer mind blowing sexual experience they just had... then I'd
say you are going in the best direction for attitude in giving
fellatio.
My husband
and I always say that desire starts in the mind and honestly
I see nothing more important to a good sex life than your attitude
and perception toward it. That is why I always suggest communication
as it provides a way to talk about what really turns you on.
It also gives you the opportunity to work through old belief
systems about sex that no longer serve you and end up holding
you back sexually.
You don't
want to make the mistake of thinking that figuring out what
the best techniques are will make you the best lover. Remembering
that attitude will make up for any lack of technique is probably
the best sex advice you'll ever get!
To those
wanting to give incredible fellatio, let me give you a quick
example of what I mean about attitude.
Negative
Attitude-
Imagine
your man lying on the bed. You pull his pants down as though
you are trying to just get down to business. You open your mouth
and take him in going up and down with no variation, no passion
and secretly, you just can't wait for this to be done. You demand
that he tell you when he is about to cum so you can jerk your
mouth away to prevent from taking any of that nasty semen in
your mouth. Then when he does orgasm, you let it go all over
him and then leave him there because you have things to do.
Positive
Attitude-
Imagine
your man lying on the bed. You come in slowly from his ankles
smiling at him while keeping eye contact. You teasingly strip
the clothes off his entire body looking him over as though you
can hardly contain yourself, while licking and rubbing him everywhere
you touch him. You slide your body against his, then downward
now so your genitals are positioned over his knee while you
toy with his inner thigh and pubic area. You run your fingers
through his pubic hair and over his balls slowly and you lick
the tip of his penis softly while gazing into his eyes showing
your desire. Holding him now in your hand you take some warming,
flavored lubricant and run it up and down his head and shaft
like pouring hot chocolate syrup onto a sundae you are about
to devour. Licking his balls lightly and then sucking softly
on them you move your hand up and down his now slickened cock
and use the other hand to squeeze the base while you grind your
genitals against his leg.
Then
after a variety of tantalizing techniques you eagerly await
his orgasm with an open mouth waiting for him to either shoot
inside your mouth or if you do not care for the taste take it
deep in the back of your throat so you fuck him with your mouth
and let his cum slide down the back of your throat with no aftertaste
or let it cum into your hands, or even better... let it moisten
your lips, face and chest.
Are you
seeing a difference here? Even if you decide to give a "Quickie"
blow job, your attitude will allow you to be the best he's ever
had. Men, just like women, want to feel desired, so to make
him feel like orally pleasuring him is repulsive to you is certainly
a "blow" to his ego. Show him that you desire him
no matter what sexual activity you do and you will really make
it fantastic.
Why
Do Men Love it So Much?
Most
men love oral sex performed on them for a few reasons. It of
course feels really good, especially when it is done well. It
makes them feel desired and of course it lets them know that
you really appreciate their penis and them.
I
think too often men are made to feel ridiculous for focusing
so much attention on their penis whether it be size or it getting
attention. I think what women forget is that we focus on things
that could be perceived as being ridiculous too. Think about
how much most women obsess about how big their butt looks in
a certain dress or if the bra with underwire makes their breasts
look good so that we can get that compliment when we walk out
to go to a party. Underneath it all we all have the same need...
to be appreciated.
What
must men feel when you barter with them to suck their cock for
the dishes to be done? I don't know about you, but it would
be a terrible blow to my self esteem to have someone tell me
that in order for them to be sexual with me, I would have to
do the dishes for the week!
No
wonder men and women often think of fellatio as something a
bit dirty... we tend to make it that way don't we? Cleaning
the dishes is dirty and undesirable and yet it gets compared
to the equivalent of fellatio? We also often think of it as
derogatory to the giver... yet in reality it is an opportunity
to take control! I think when we take negative attitudes toward
our sex life then the true beauty of love and sex is terribly
belittled.
Even
when a person chooses to be with a variety of partners while
dating or through open relationships, we can really enjoy sex
on a deeper level when we let ourselves BE with people. Being
aware of the beauty of sensuality in our partner(s) and ourselves
is what makes any sexual moment an amazing experience. Isn't
that true of anything in life? How often do we drive to work
not even taking a moment to notice the beautiful sun shining
down through the clouds and lighting the world up with it's
brilliance. How about how often we shove food down our throats
without taking the time to really enjoy each morsel of what
we are eating?
The
same applies to sex... when we are mindful of our partner(s)
and our own needs, sensations, and emotions then you will be
better able to truly enjoy what life has to offer when it comes
to oral sex or any kind of sexual activity!
Basic
Information On Fellatio-
~
You can get STDs
(including HIV-AIDS) from giving oral sex.
~
You do not have to swallow or "deep throat" a man
to give good oral sex.
What
Is Cum (Semen)?
A
man's semen is about the amount of a teaspoon. Semen is not
unhealthy, fattening (the average ejaculation is approximately
15 calories), and it will not get you pregnant. The average
ejaculate contains ascorbic acid, blood-group antigens, calcium,
chlorine, cholesterol, choline, citric acid, creatine, deoxyribonucleic
acid (DNA), fructose, glutathione, hyaluronidase, inositol,
lactic acid, nitrogen, magnesium, phosphorus, potassium, purine,
pyrimidine, pyruvic acid, sodium, sorbitol, spermidine, spermine,
urea, uric acid, protein, enzymes, sodium, vitamin B12, and
zinc.
Deep
Throat Or Not To Deep Throat-
Often people
think that someone highly skilled in the art of fellatio will
not only deep throat, but will do it for the entire length of
the blow job. Nothing could be further from the truth. Of course
if you are comfortable with it then by all means deep throat
him during the course of oral sex, but if you are not using
other techniques with your tongue, lips, hands and fingers then
you are probably giving a rather boring blow job.
The pleasure
created through deep throating is created by the uvula pressing
the frenulum and gulping reactions perfectly massaging the corona.
Translation- it is a snug, warm, wet environment... a
most pleasureful place for a penis. The average depth of our
mouth cavity is 3 - 4 inches and the average penis size is 5
– 6 inches, thus you can see the difficulty in getting a full
penis in your mouth and down your throat.
This leads
us to the breathing issue. If you are deep throating your partner,
then you are most likely cutting off your air supply for certain
amounts of time. Learning to breathe through your nose or taking
breaks by using your hands is a good way to maintain the pleasureful
flow of stimulation to his penis.
Gagging
Remedies-
Some people
have a hard time with controlling their gag reflex when giving
head. It happens to even the skilled fellatio giver from time
to time, so there is nothing to be embarrassed about.
Some people
use Chloraseptic Throat Spray or children's teething gel to
numb the back of their throat and allow for easier deep throating
and swallowing. Although psychologically letting go of the fear
of gagging is really the best approach. Think about how sword
swallowers get that blade down their throat... it certainly
isn't by tensing their throat muscles!
Remember,
a blow job should not just be up and down motions or about deep
throating, it can have many facets to it, including licking,
kissing, using your hands, and rubbing that delicious cock all
over your face, neck, chest and elsewhere. This provides amazing
visual stimulation as well as the pleasure of feeling his hard,
pulsating cock all over you!
Communicate-
If
he thrusts or pushes you down a bit onto him and you find yourself
gagging, pull back up and pause to let him know that it is uncomfortable.
If he does not clue in on this you can come up and begin using
your hand to recuperate or let him know that you were beginning
to hit the gag reflex a bit and you want to rest a minute while
playing with his cock. He most likely will be happy you do this
because the last thing a man wants is for you to throw up on
him because you were too worried that he would not understand
that his penis is going to hit the back of your throat from
time to time and cause a gag reflex.
If you really
have an issue with gagging, let him cum elsewhere whether in
a condom, in your hands, on himself, inside you (vaginally or
anally), on your chest or neck as you revel in it. The best
thing to do to make your intentions known is to make a comment
before or during oral sex to let him know where you want him
to cum. You can make this sound really sexy if you say it with
passion. For example- "I can't wait to feel you
cum in between my breasts, I want to rub it all over me!"
Body
Strategies-
Having
him on his back allows you to better control his thrusting by
using your forearms to push him down if he begins to thrust
to a point that it is uncomfortable for you. You can also gently
tug on his testicles as though you were pulling on the reins
while riding a horse to let him know he needs to slow it down.
Remember not to do this too hard, as you don't want to cause
him pain... just enough to cause him to come back and allow
you to avoid gagging.
Hand
& Mouth-
One
of the best ways to give oral sex is to also include your hands.
Any porn actress will tell you that the following technique
is a must when your mouth is tired, your gag reflex is getting
triggered or he is well endowed and deep throating is a challenge.
Taking
your hand, make a fist around the shaft of your lover's penis
with your little finger resting on his pubic bone. Then at the
same time take your mouth and go up and down the head and upper
shaft of his penis while you go up and down with your hand at
the same time. This gives the same sensation of you "deep
throating" him (taking him deep into your throat). Adding
different combinations with both hands, or your mouth make for
creativity and fun!
Advanced
Fellatio Instruction
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Face Fucking
On Your Knees
On The Side
Visual Importance
Stage Fright
The Exhibitionist
Deep
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Gagging Remedy
Using
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Kisses & Tongue
Do The Twist
Shirley Temple Licks
Head, Shaft & Scrotum
Grabbing His Behind
Making Him Tight
Hand Job Combo
Vacuum
Double Penetration
Teeth Guards
Thigh Highs
Hummers
The Harmonica
The Drum
Hot & Cold
Women's Lubricant
Hands On Your Head
Adore The Cock
Penis Anatomy
Messes
Orgasms
Perineum Love
Anal Love
Nipple Love
Mouth Love
Fatigue Warning
Health Concerns
STD Prevention
Hygiene
Tips For Receiver
Clean Up
Post Etiquette
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If
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Many
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are using them including women on men and men on women.
Using
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Sexual
Wisdom™ Sex In The News
This
section is for sexual current events and news;
allowing our web site visitors to hear sex news
around the world.
Massachusetts
Senate Repeals Gay Marriage Ban
The
Democrat controlled Senate voted overwhelmingly to rescind
the 1913 statute that forbids nonresidents from marrying
in Massachusetts if the union would not be legal in their
home state. The
law was originally enacted as a way to bar the recognition
of interracial marriages. The statue may not remain overturned
for long as it has some conservative hoops to pass.
New HIV Testing Policies For Porn Studios
Red Light District & Platinum X
Performers
working for either the Red Light District or sister company
Platinum X will be required to have HIV PCR-DNA testing
every two weeks, in addition to other measures called
for in a new HIV prevention policy for the companies.
Women who have just started performing will need to have
two negative HIV tests before they can work for either
company without a condom.
Darren
James
Veteran
performer Darren James has been deemed to be “patient
zero,” the person who introduced the virus into this latest
epidemic in the porn industry. He is believed to have
caught the virus in Brazil, where testing procedures are
considered to be less than adequate. There is a consensus
in the adult industry that foreign shoots provided a gap
in the testing protocols that needed to be addressed.
Jenna
Jameson's company
Club Jenna hosted a pool party charity event at Hard
Rock Hotel
Jenna
Jameson and Krystal Steal of Club Jenna hosted a pool
party at the Hard Rock Hotel and Casino Sunday with a
portion of the proceeds benefiting the Adult Industry
Assistance Fund. Partygoers that included Jill Kelly,
Janine, Sky Lopez, Haven, Skye Blue and Justin Sterling.
Childless Couple Didn't Know They Had To Have Intercourse-
A
German couple (married for eight years and trying to have
a child the entire time) went to a fertility clinic to
find out why they had not conceived. Doctors subjected
them to a series of examinations and found they were both
apparently fertile, and should have had no trouble conceiving.
When they were asked how often they had sex they looked
at the clinician with a blank stare and said "What
do you mean?"
It
turns out the couple is not unintelligent, just uneducated
and were brought up in a religious environment that was
very strict. The 30-year-old wife and her 36-year-old
husband are now being given sex therapy lessons while
the university clinic undertakes a study to try to find
out if there are more couples with a similar lack of sex
education.
Just
goes to show what lack of sexual education can do. Although
if this couple is that naïve perhaps they shouldn't
have children?
Louisiana
Bill To Ban Low-Slung Pants
Louisiana
state representative Rep. Derrick Shepherd, a Democrat
from the New Orleans suburb of Marrero, wants to make
it illegal for people to wear low-slung pants that expose
underwear or more.
The
bill would make it a crime to wear clothing in public
that "intentionally exposes undergarments or intentionally
exposes any portion of the pubic hair, cleft of the buttocks
or genitals." Launching a fiery speech in support of the
bill, Shepherd said, "There comes a time in every society
where we must draw a line of decency, where we must speak
to a group of individuals who would flaunt the laws of
our state, who would flaunt the morals of our community."
The
result: laughter from some and a facetious chant of "No
more crack!" from Rep. Tommy Wright, D-Jena.
Heather
Hall of the American Civil Liberties Union (news - web
sites) said Shepherd's bill would institute a literal
"fashion police" and a "really invasive violation of the
fundamental right to public expression." House Criminal
Justice Committee Chairman Danny Martiny, R-Kenner, said
he agreed with the spirit of the measure, but he said
the law would be impossible to enforce. "I don't know
that it's respectful to pay my respects at a funeral without
my shirt on, but that's not illegal; that's just stupid,"
he said. "Government can't fix everything."
Women With AIDS Raping Men As Revenge
In
South Africa one in two women are at risk for being raped.
With a 50% rape statistic some African women have sought
out revenge on men by raping them to infect them with
the AIDS virus.
In
a recent case, a 39-year-old father of three was ambushed
on his way home from work late at night on the East Rand,
near Johannesburg. Three armed women forced him to accompany
them to an isolated field near his bus stop. The man was
ordered to strip and was then raped by each of the women.
The traumatized victim told police one of the women had
mocked him with the words: "Welcome to the world of AIDS."
What
most people are not aware of is that men have been rape
victims for quite some time, it just has not been widely
reported. The most common rape of a man is by another
man, but women raping men is nothing new. With the threat
of AIDS men are now coming forward to report the crime,
whereas before they would have been ashamed to do so.
With 5.2 million of South Africa's 47 million people being
infected with HIV there needs to be some serious action
taken to prevent further spread of the disease as well
as the violence of rape for any sex.
International Olympic Committee Have Determined Conditions
For Sex Change Athletes To Compete In The Olympics
Officials
said that although it was rare to have a sex change athlete
compete it is becoming more common so three key rules
were announced to allow such athletes to compete:
1
- All operations involving a sex change must be complete.
2
- The athletes have to have legal recognition of their
assigned sex.
3
- There would be a two-year wait after the completion
of hormonal treatment.
Testosterone Gel Shows Long-term Benefits
A
recent study found that testosterone gel provides better
moods, sexual functioning, muscle mass and bone density.
Doctors found long-term, continuous use of AndroGel® testosterone
gel caused rapid and sustained improvements in sexual
function and mood among men
with hypogonadism, or low testosterone.
It
is estimated that 4-5 million men have a medical condition
called hypogonadism, or low testosterone. AndroGel® can
help restore normal testosterone levels with an easy,
effective and inconspicuous gel that men rub daily onto
the shoulders, upper arms and/or abdomen. When AndroGel®
is applied, its alcohol base dissolves, leaving a clear,
non-oily testosterone film that is absorbed into the skin
and does not stain clothing. From the skin, the testosterone
is slowly released into the bloodstream to help men achieve
normal testosterone levels.
AndroGel®
is available only by prescription.
Herbal Viagra May Not Be What You Think-
A new study has found that many brands of herbal Viagra
are actually carrying significant levels of prescription
phosphodiesterase inhibitors -- sildenafil, sold by Pfizer
under the brand name Viagra and tadalafil, Eli Lilly and
Co's Cialis. These erectile dysfunction drugs affect blood
flow and can be deadly when taken with certain heart drugs
containing nitrates.
Current law allows non-prescription supplements to be
advertised so long as they do not make specific health
claims, such as lowering cholesterol. Other herbs used
may have side effects such as skin reactions and cardiovascular
disorders. Thus, when you use these "natural Viagra
supplements" you may be risking your health!
Female Suicide Bombers & Sexist Societies
Women
in Palestine often face terrible cruelty when they don't
fulfill the "basic requirements" of traditional
sex roles. From marrying well, to being able to bear children
and their service to men, they are constantly judged.
Women
are often targeted as suicide bombers for the cause of
mad men when they fall short in their societal expectations.
They are shamed, abused and humiliated until they see
no other way to be respected or escape their emotional
hell.
As
a result, many of the women whom are put in the role of
suicide bombers are often outcasts themselves trying to
find a shred of respect or a way out of their torment
in their last moments.
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