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Getting
Your Lover In The Mood Aroused
And Eager For Sex
Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
Holistic Wisdom Founder
If your
partner has not been "in the mood" lately and you
are looking for some tips to help get them there, then these
are some ideas to help you get started-
Have
fun together
One of the
best things about sex is that it can be really fun. Try doing
things that encourage smiling and laughing before sex. A sense
of humor and the willingness to try something different can
really help set the mood. Having a pillow fight, a wrestling
or tickling match or even watching something funny together
to help lighten the mood can be a great place to start.
Avoid
Self Centered Approaches
A partner
who approaches their lover with the sense that they are entitled,
or are focused on their needs too often is not going to be getting
the kind of great sex that a more loving and giving partner
is going to get.
Letting
your lover know how much you want them through genuine flattery
is a great way to open up to the possibility of sex. "‘I find
you so attractive when I feel your body next to me, the warmth
of your body and softness of your skin makes me feel so close
to you." If you want some great examples rent the movie
Don Juan DeMarco!
Romantic
Touches
Providing
an atmosphere of appreciation for your lover is a great way
to get them in the mood. After a hard day of work there is nothing
nicer than having a sitter for the kids, a hot bubble bath with
a glass of their favorite beverage waiting. How about little
love notes throughout the house, or even a massage
in a candle lit room? It can be as simple as that old standby,
the candlelit dinner
at home. No one else around, the answering machine on, the TV
off, a tasty meal, some wine, soft
music in the background, and most of all, a couple really
focused on each other. Using creativity and playfulness is one
of the best ways to get someone into a place that is relaxed,
feeling appreciated and ready to share a wonderful sexual experience.
Don't
Forget Their WHOLE Body Needs Love
Often there
is a sense of sex equaling genital contact right away. Start
with the simple idea that pleasure is the goal. Playing with
their hair by simply twisting and softly pulling back on it,
to massaging their feet are great examples to provide your lover
with the introduction to the physical pleasure you wish to share
with them.
They
Are NOT An Object, They ARE A Person
Terminology
today really makes a statement to the continuation of objectifying
people when it comes to sex. Unfortunately, while this used
to mainly be directed more toward women, it is now being directed
toward men quite often as well.
Gettin'
some-
Some of what what? Some pussy? Some cock? Well, is that not
separating who that vagina or penis belongs to? How about getting
to share a sexual experience with your beautiful woman or man?
Gettin'
Busy With It-
I think that many women and men will agree with me when I say
that we do not like to be referred as an "it" under
any circumstance.
A Piece
of Ass-
I don't know about you, but I am more than my ass or any other
body part! Again, why is it that we separate our body parts
when it comes to sex? Are we so afraid of the physical, emotional,
mental and spiritual vulnerability that it provides?
Whether
you are referring to a man or a woman, take note about how you
describe your sexual experiences. If you catch yourself separating
the intimacy you share with your partner(s) then perhaps you
are showing your partner(s) that they are not respected by you.
This will ultimately lead to emotional complications in any
long term relationship as well as to your overall sense of self
esteem and end up potentially costing you sex among other things.
Whether
you are into one night stands, or have a long term relationship,
understanding that when you are sharing time with another person
you are sharing more than your physical self. As much as some
would like to think that we can compartmentalize ourselves and
that sex means nothing they are truly fooling themselves.
Sex never
means nothing. It may not mean that you want to spend the rest
of your life with this person, or that you are even in love
with this person when you do it, but it does mean that you are
attracted to them, that you value them enough to spend time
with them and that you feel the sexual experience with them
is worth having. It does mean that you are willing to risk pregnancy,
STDs and other sexual realities. It also means that you are
intimate with them on more than just a physical level you are
sharing part of your emotional self as well... even if it is
the guarded side of yourself.
Who we are
physically is intertwined with all of who we are mentally, emotionally
and spiritually. We are not just physical beings, we are not
just emotional, etc. we are complex beings and even through
we may not choose to have in-depth conversations with someone
does not mean we are not sharing who we are.
Sometimes
just a look, or touch from someone can mean so much to us, so
why do we try and pretend that we can somehow make it meaningless
when we do not want to be vulnerable. Whether we like it or
not everything we do affects who we are. Our behavior creates
the person that we choose to be. When we say that sex is meaningless
then I truly believe that deep down it is because we are truly
afraid of what our behavior says about us, and what that experience
could really mean to us.
Treating
people with respect, appreciation and integrity should not only
be essential for sex, but in any situation.
Make
Dates
With so
much going on in our hectic schedules it is easy to let weeks
pass without having any quality time together. Arranging a special
time together is a key way to keep your partner open to you
and to sexual play.
Learn
More About Sex Techniques
If you
rush to intercourse so you can have an orgasm, you will almost
certainly be missing out on the full potential of sex and be
a turn off for your partner. Instead, take time to let them
enjoy the sensuous feeling of your touch, gradually arousing
their desire.
Don’t be
afraid to try something new in bed. Many women and men are bored
having sex the same way every time. Don't feel foolish or uncomfortable
about complimenting a your partner as it is a wonderful way
to let them know what you appreciate in them. Below are some
ways to get you started-
Cyber
Stalking: Protecting Yourself Harassment
& Threats Via The Web
Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
Holistic Wisdom Founder
Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., CEO
Member
of American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors,
and Therapists
( AASECT )
Stalking
and Cyber-Stalking is becoming a larger problem in America.
Currently it is believed that 1.4 million victims are stalked
each year. The pattern of controlling behaviors in stalking
and Cyber-stalking are very similar to domestic violence.
General
stalking behaviors can include following a victim, threatening
or repeated phones calls, coming to the victim’s place of employment,
leaving written messages or objects, and vandalizing the victim’s
property.
Cyberstalking
can involve eMail, harassment in
live chat situations, using the victims code name
or eMail address to sign up for newsletter,
services, or leave inappropriate messages on message boards
or guest books, sending
viruses, or electronic theft identity. By using eMail the stalker
can send spam (unsolicited junk mail) and send pornographic
materials to work or family accounts. In
live chat situations the harassment
may involve "flaming", or on-line verbal abuse,
sexual harassment, and repeated attempts at
"private chats."
Electronic
identity theft is the use of the Internet to gain personal information.
There are online services that will give your social security
number, financial history, personal information, and even a
detailed map to your house. Depending on whether a cyber stalker
wants to spend money on stalking you they can also do background
checks, and have things mailed to you.
Cyber stalking
can be as terrifying as general stalking, but often harder to
prove and more difficult to control. The anonymity of the Internet
works for the stalker, but there are safety procedures to help
anyone on-line and those being cyber stalked.
~
Do
not give out personal information online.
~
Avoid
using your real name or nickname online.
~
Be
very careful about meeting on-line acquaintances in person.
~
If
you are being cyber stalked change eMail accounts.
~
Report
cyber stalking to your online provider: AOL, Earthlink, etc.
~
If
you cannot change accounts look into filter programs.
~
Within
a chat room use gender-neutral nicknames.
~
Avoid
using primary eMail addresses that are difficult to change,
and do not post
them in chatrooms.
~
Be
careful with divulging personal information under profiles.
Getting
Worse?
Warning
signs include an escalation of behavior- are they contacting
you 20 times instead of two or three a day, is there a change
in the pattern, for example the stalker sends nice notes and
now they are threatening. If you receive any threats towards
you or your family you should notify the police. Also, has there
been recent in-person contact? These are signs that the situation
is worsening and you need to notify the police, and those around
you including co-workers, friends, or family.
A safety
measure that should begin from the first signs that this may
be stalking is a diary of events including any in-person contact,
letters, phone calls, escalation of behaviors, contact with
family, and if possible printed eMails and answering machine
messages. Change your locks if the stalker is an ex-partner,
change your phone number and only give it to those who really
need it.
What
can you do if things are getting much worse and they have initiated
more than Internet contact-
~
Document
everything, even if you have decided not to go the legal route,
you may
change your mind.
~
Keep
eMails, answering machine tapes, letters, gifts, etc.
~
Keep
a log of suspicious occurrences.
~
Take
a self-defense class. A lot of security experts don’t advise
this, fearing that it
gives victims a false sense of security,
but we do. The best self-defense classes
teach you how to become more aware of your
surroundings and avoid confrontations,
things that stalking victims would do well
to learn.
~
Have
co-workers screen all calls and visitors.
~
Don’t
accept packages unless they were personally ordered.
~
Remove
any name or identification from reserved parking at work.
~
Destroy
discarded mail.
~
Equip
your gas tank with a locking gas cap that can be unlocked only
from inside
the car.
~
Get
a cell phone and keep it with you at all times, even inside
your home, in case
the stalker cuts your phone lines.
~
If
you think you are being followed while in your car, make four
left- or right-hand turns
in succession. If the car continues to follow
you, drive to the nearest police station,
never home or to a friend’s house.
~
Never
be afraid to sound your car horn to attract attention.
~
Acquaint
yourself with all-night stores and other public, highly populated
places in
your area.
~
Consider
moving if your case warrants it. No, it’s not fair, but nothing
is fair about
stalking. If you stay and fight through the
legal system, you might get some justice,
(although not necessarily your definition
of it), but you almost certainly won’t get
safety: There is no possibility of life imprisonment
for stalkers.
~
Research
how to keep your destination secret. Stalking and victims’ organizations
can help.
~
Don’t
be embarrassed and think you caused this somehow. Stalkers need
no
encouragement. Your shame is your stalker’s
best weapon. It makes you more likely
to engage them or agree to plea bargains,
which are bound to be taken as
encouragement.
~
Instead,
tell everyone you know that you’re being stalked, from neighbors
to
co-workers, so that when the stalker approaches
them for information about you,
they will be alerted not to divulge anything
and will let you know he’s been around.
One young
widow moved to escape her stalker, a stranger she had never
really met. Yet, after finding out where she moved, he was also
able to pinpoint her exact location by showing her helpful neighbors
pictures he had surreptitiously taken of her and her children,
telling them that he was her estranged husband and she had kidnapped
the kids. This is a perfect example of why telling people you
know about your situation can help.
Join one
of the stalking victims’ support groups that are springing up
all over the country. They can be invaluable resources for information
in your community (such as how local law enforcement handle
these cases) as well as provide essential support.
Click
on the link below for more help online and more safety measures
there are several web sites devoted to stalking
and cyber stalking.
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I
need to ask you something that I think you could help
me out with. After a 3 year period of not having a girlfriend,
I have one now. Normally, when we have sex she will have
four or five orgasms and I will still be working on my
first. For some reason it takes me about 30 to 35 minutes
for me to have my first orgasm. Is there something wrong
with me? This is really frustrating for both of us, any
help you can give me would be greatly appreciated by both
of us.
Thanks.
T
Lisa's
Reply-
Hi
T,
Most
men ejaculate within 2 to 4 minutes after onset of active
thrusting in intercourse. Men with delayed ejaculation
may be entirely unable to ejaculate in some circumstances
(for example, during intercourse), or may only be able
to ejaculate with great effort and after prolonged intercourse
(for example 30 to 45 minutes). The
most common causes are psychological.
Common
psychological causes include:
A
new relationship that causes a sense of inhibition.
A
strict religious background causing the person to view
sex as sinful.
Lack
of attraction for a partner.
Conditioning
caused by unique or atypical masturbation patterns.
Traumatic
events (such as being discovered in masturbation or illicit
sex, or learning one's partner is having an affair)
Some
factors such as anger toward the partner may be involved;
however, physical causes are sometimes present. A
variety of drugs (such as Prozac, Mellaril and guanethidine)
may sometimes impair ejaculation. Neurological disease
may also cause delayed or inability to ejaculate such
as strokes and nerve damage to the spinal cord or back.
If
the man is unable to ejaculate in a reasonable length
of time with some form of stimulation (as with masturbation),
it is a good indicator that organic factors are likely
to play a role in the problem. Stimulation of the penis
with a vibrator or other increased stimulatory device
may determine if an underlying physical often neurological
problem exists.
A
neurological examination may uncover other neurological
defects associated with delayed ejaculation. If the man
has never ejaculated through any form of stimulation (such
as wet dreams, masturbation, or intercourse) in his life,
a urologist should be consulted to determine if there
is a congenital or physical abnormality. If, however,
he is able to ejaculate in a reasonable period of time
by some form of stimulation, he should seek sex therapy
from a therapist specializing in this area.
Treatment
usually includes both partners. The therapist will usually
educate the couple about the fundamentals of sexual response
and how to communicate and guide the partner to provide
ideal stimulation, rather than trying to will a sexual
response to occur. Therapy then commonly involves a series
of homework assignments wherein the couple, in the privacy
of their home, engage in sexual activities that minimize
performance pressure and maximize focusing on pleasure.
Typically,
sexual intercourse will be prohibited for a limited period
of time, while the couple gradually enhances their ability
to enjoy ejaculation through other types of stimulation.
In cases where there is a problematic relationship or
an inhibition of sexual desire between the couple, therapy
to enhance the relationship and emotional intimacy may
be required as a preliminary step.
Sometimes
hypnosis may be a useful adjunct to therapy, particularly
if a partner is not willing to participate in therapy.
Self-treatment of this problem will probably be unsuccessful
in most cases. If a medication is believed to be the cause
of the problem, the man's physician should review other
medication options. (Never discontinue a prescribed medication
without consulting the prescribing physician). This may
be difficult in certain instances, especially when the
medication is working appropriately to solve a preexisting
medical or psychological problem.
Expectations
Outpatient
treatment commonly requires about 12 to 18 sessions with
an average success rate in the range of 70 to 80%. A more
positive outcome is associated with having a previous
history of satisfying sexual experiences, a short duration
of the problem, feelings of sexual desire, feelings of
love toward one's sexual partner, motivation for treatment,
and absence of serious psychological problems.
If
medications are the source of the problem, a full recovery
should be expected if the physician is able to switch
or discontinue the medication. Complications Marital stress,
sexual dissatisfaction, inhibited sexual desire, and avoidance
of sexual contact may result if the problem is not addressed
and remedied.
Prevention
Healthy
attitudes toward sexuality and one's own genitals helps
prevent delayed ejaculation. It is also vitally important
to realize that you cannot will a sexual response, just
as you would be challenged to will yourself to go to sleep
or to perspire. The harder one tries to have a certain
sexual response, the more it becomes inhibited.
To
minimize the pressure, a man should absorb himself in
the pleasure of the moment, without worrying about whether
or when he will ejaculate. The partner should create a
relaxed atmosphere, free of pressure, rather than create
pressure with questions about whether or not ejaculation
has occurred. Finally, any fears or anxieties, such as
fear of pregnancy or disease, should be openly discussed.
I hope this information helps and provides you with some
helpful insights into potential causes and remedies.
Best,
Lisa
Dear HW:
My
partner has always maintained that women can't ejaculate
and that it is a myth even though I told her I had personal
experience with a women who could and did. The conversation
was short because she can't and being the hot, sexual
women she is, she probably wants to. In accidentally finding
your site and perusing it on this topic, I wasn't able
to determine if there is an increase in orgasm with ejaculating
or is it just a very horny thing to watch and be genitally
and facially bathed in. I must admit the first time it
happened with me I thought it was urine and almost freaked.
Then I did more research and realized I was a lucky man
to be in a hot relationship with the queen of ejaculation.
I'm married to a very orgasmic intense woman and I find
it curious as well lubricated her body gets during sex
she doesn't ejaculate? Thanx for the response in advance
and a classy website.
Sincerely,
T
Lisa's
Reply-
Hi,
Thank
you for your interest in our web site. Yes it is a increase
in pleasure to orgasms while ejaculating. I can appreciate
your interest in female ejaculation as it is something
that is a mystery to many people. There are so many women
that are not even aware that they are capable of doing
it! There are some techniques that I review through step-by-step
instructions in my book and video, which I would highly
recommend.
The
book is available as a download, on CDROM and as a hardcopy
and the video is available on VHS, DVD or as a download
as well. Make sure to visit our site again and see if
that is something that appeals to you. We provide you
with chapter outlines so that you can be sure you know
what you will be getting in the eBook. We also provide
a chapter sample, story sample as well as picture and
video samples. You may also see the video clip samples
when you sign up for our newsletter.
After
you read the information on the web site, book or watch
the video and you have any need for further advice, feel
free to eMail me as I am always happy to help. I hope
this eMail finds you well and that you are having a great
weekend.
Allot
going on lately... no trial yet. We meet with my lawyer
on Wednesday night for dinner, hopefully we'll get some
info then.
The
most recent news is that Passion Parties did a fund raiser
for my defense fund, then flew Chris and I out to San
Francisco (their headquarters) to award it to me personally.
They
gave us spending money and 5 days to see the sights (on
them). They raised $10,000 with the help of the consultants.
Then they sent me to Pittsburgh to the regional meeting
and have been giving me special attention in the business
to help me get my business going. The consultants have
been so great and supportive. I don't know if you saw
it, Penthouse Forum had an article on my case in the July
edition. So did "Bust" Magazine. Ladies Home Journal was
suppose to have one out this month, but I don't see it
yet. The national interest is still there. I mainly wanted
to let you know how much Passion Parties is supporting
us these days! It's been wonderful! I'll keep you posted!
Joanne;)
Hi Lisa!
I
just finished reading your latest newsletter, and I have
to comment on a couple of articles. As an overweight woman,
I found your article about dieting and weight loss very
eye opening. You were right, I definitely had a couple
of "well duh!" moments. I work in healthcare, and have
access to SO much information, and I have to agree with
everything you've said.
I've
always thought the Atkin's diet had to be bad for you.
Carbs are a big part of where we get our energy from,
and are definitely important for the body. My belief is
too much of ANYTHING isn't good for you, and that everything
should be done in moderation.
I
also wanted to comment on the antibiotic resistant syphilis
strain that's going around. Syphilis isn't the only antibiotic
resistant bacteria out there (as I'm sure you know...).
Many ailments that we could once treat easily with antibiotics
have mutated, and society is partly to blame for it. I
was never one for taking antibiotics. Many things just
need to 'run their course'. Antibiotics are often over
prescribed for things like colds and flu. Cold and flu
are both VIRUSES! Antibiotics don't have any effect -AT
ALL- on viruses. So, the body adapts to having antibiotics
in it's system, and the bacteria in there mutate for their
own survival.
Also,
when a physician does prescribe antibiotics for bacterial
infections, people tend to take the prescription until
they feel better, and then stop taking it. This is one
of the worst things you can do! If you take a 10 day regimented
RX for only, say, 6 days, all that's been done is to kill
off the 'weaker' bacteria and the stronger ones survive,
then they can become immune to whatever it was you were
taking. Bacteria are like animals. The strongest can survive,
and they, like living things, can adapt and will mutate
so they will survive.
One
more little fact: there's no 'cure' for ANY virus. We
can treat symptoms, but we can't cure a virus, which brings
me to my one last comment. I've seen firsthand what HIV/AIDS
does to a person. I've seen firsthand, through my work
at the hospital what HIV/AIDS can do. In fact, I just
had a patient die from his complications with HIV. I donate
10 dollars a week to the local chapter of the United Way,
and I've asked them to channel the money to those affected
with HIV and to the search for better treatments.
So
many people are still ignorant as to what HIV can do and
it's SO easy to protect yourself. Our community is trying
to implement a needle exchange program. But, the Conservatives
are fighting this. Please, to all the readers of your
newsletter. Needle exchange DOESN'T advocate using drugs.
People who use are going to use no matter what, until
they decide that they WANT to get help. What needle exchange
does is allow people who use to be a little safer about
it. If an IV drug user shares needles, they run the risk
of MANY infections, not just HIV.
If
they in turn sleep with someone who maybe isn't a user,
then that person can become infected. No one deserves
to die the way people with end stage HIV die. It is a
painful, degrading way to go. People with drug problems
often start using because it is their way to cope... like
some people smoke cigarettes or have a drink of alcohol
or a blueberry muffin after a stressful day. No one has
EVER 'died' from the HIV virus, but from all the junk
that attacks the weakened body after HIV has all but killed
the immune system.
Thanks,
Lisa, for providing people with useful and practical information!
Peace and
Love,
S. in Springfield, MA
Lisa, Lisa, Lisa!
Lisa
Lawless
You
do realize don't you, that you are going to be very unpopular
in the Atkin's group of dieters; -- not to mention all
those lobbyists you mentioned; Dairy, Meat and Poultry
Assn. groups; and other vast numbers of high level, high
cost advertisers and con artists who thrive on our sad
but insatiable wants and desires! And add to that the
numbers of those folks who just don't care what they eat
or look like, and you've now (with all the groups mentioned
above) covered about 90 percent of our entire nation!
I'm serious! I truly believe that only about 10 percent
of this nation really understands what good nutrition
is really all about - or even care to! By "care", I don't
mean those who are trying so desperately to lose weight
through the many different "fad" diets like Atkin's, etc.
By "care", I mean those who really want to LEARN (as you
call it) what is actually good for you.
Lisa,
you have really hit home with this article. Accurate,
well written , timely, and of course a slap in the face
of a lot of people out there! A well-deserved slap, I
might add! My "well-duh" moment (that you mentioned) happened
just between the "One of the greatest frustrations I have
with society today." (opening paragraph), and "We all
need to work at taking care of ourselves." (closing paragraph)!
My motto is, "Everything in moderation."
A
great suggestion for a formula is to take the "Calories
from Fat" (found on most labels), multiply it by 3, and
compare that number to the actual calorie count of the
product. It should be the same or less to be "healthy"
for you. For example, a certain company puts out a great
cheese cracker and a "Reduced Fat" version of it. Checking
the label on the "Reduced Fat" version, we find that there
are 40 calories from fat. Forty multiplied by three is
one hundred and twenty. There are 140 calories (regular
calories) listed on the label. 120 is less than 140, so
this is a great item for those who are e trying to eat
healthy.
There
are many, many items out there that when calculated don't
fall under the regular caloric count. The best thing to
do in this case is to find a brand that comes to the closest
over. At least you can say you are trying! Most peanut
butters fall into this "closest over" category. Reduced
fat peanut butter is still over the "healthy" number as
suggested, but if a person has to have their peanut butter,
it's still more healthy than regular peanut butter, and
once again: "USE IN MODERATION."
It's
just good common sense! I loved you r"Starving" article,
and don't think I missed your picture at the end there
either! Oh, you are gorgeous!!
More
later. Love to you,
Bazil
Hi Lisa,
Thanks
for the personal message with each newsletter sent my
way! Just to clue you in as to why I was drawn to your
website in the first place: My last two girlfriends were
'squirters'. Quite a coincidence, if you ask me. Well,
one could ejaculate and the other was more like what I'd
describe as a 'flooder', where a large amount of fluid
would 'pour' out, rather than squirt, when stimulating
her G spot. In either case it was always "get a towel"
before having sex. To me it's the most erotic thing I've
ever experienced, or seen a woman be able do.
Sincerely,
B. W.
I'm finally getting around to 'mailing you. I've been
receiving your newsletters for several months, now & I
just wanted to say: keep up the good work! I also wanted
to take this opportunity to respond to your 7-2-04
newsletter.
Don't
allow yourself to be discouraged by whatever political
climate is trying to keep human sexuality in the "Dark
Ages". Whether anyone wants to admit it or not, Human
sexuality is a fundamental part of our existence & for
that reason alone we need to make it a point to learn
as much about it as possible & not limit ourselves to
whatever a particular party may think is "appropriate".
The only way we can contend with the sexual problems in
our society is to destroy the ignorance that starts it.
By destroying ignorance & educating people, we give them
the power to make their own choices & assume responsibility
for themselves.
History
has shown that any time any party tries to impose a belief-system
upon a people, it ultimately fails. We rely on Sex Educators
like you to shed some light on this hot subject. Unfortunately
for you, we're still in our sexual adolescence. Meaning
that this industry is still riddled with sleazy capitalists
& the scum of the porn industry that's an easy & popular
target for any political wannabes that want an easy path
into office by pandering to those who would control us
& not by virtue of their own deeds. (take a breath!) Until
the day comes when Educators, like you, can separate yourselves
from the "underbelly" of the porn industry & become recognized
for what you truly are, we, the silent thinkers, will
pray for the day when you are acknowledged as legitimate
educators & not members of what I consider "the sleaze
of the Porn Industry".
Yes,
I believe you should provide pornographic material on
you web site! In fact, you should make it a point to provide
& sell as much of it as you can! Give us the ability to
decide for ourselves what we want to see & what we choose
to be educated by! As for Women using toys & the Men that
are intimidated by them.... I think that any guy that's
worried about this issue over toys & their penis size
really need a wake-up call! For one thing, if you really
think a Woman can replace you, a living breathing human
being, with a battery operated toy, then I would suggest
you educate yourself & learn some techniques. You might
learn that sex might involve more than just the Dick-in-the-Pussy.
Learn to see your Woman as a complete Human-being & not
a plastic fuck-doll! Brush-up on your foreplay! One more
thing on the whole "toy" issue: the more the better! The
more orgasms a woman experiences, the more she's capable
of. Her body adjusts to become a sex machine! Toys will
actually increase her desire for you!
Remember,
as long as you treat her like a Human-being, there's no
way she could ever replace you with an inanimate object!
Have fun w! with your toys! As for penis size? Is that
all you have, mister? Is that all you're about? You have
your hands, your mouth, your whole body at her disposal!
I'll tell you why penis size doesn't matter: even the
largest penis isn't worth a damn to any Woman if the guy
using it doesn't know what the hell he's doing! There's
only one thing that will make you an absolute dynamo in
bed & that's education! Read a friggin' book & educate
yourself for Christ's sake! Get to know your Woman! You
might even want to talk to her on occasion! Lastly, I
love the idea of more Women getting into porn, & not just
"acting", either! I think that one of the biggest problems
we've had in the porn industry is that there are too many
Men involved!
Women
Directors are just what we need to bring some intelligence
& talent into the industry! If there were more of this,
more Women would be watching it, & the porn industry wouldn't
be so damn sleazy! That's all I have for now. I hope I
didn't bore you!
T-
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Guys Gone Wild?
Yes,
it's true, as of 9-7-04 the "Guys Gone Wild,'' an
all-male version of the ``Girls Gone Wild'' video series,
will be released. The video promises all the same drunken
stripping and sex the Girls Gone Wild videos provide to
viewers. The target market has been described by it's
makers as striving toward young college aged women, gay
men and those in search of gag gifts for bachlorette parties
and other events.
The Sky Is Not Blue & Condoms Don't Work?
In
efforts to bring us back to the dark ages where the church
denied that the Sun did not revolve around the Earth,
we seem to have fundamentalist religion becoming more
and more prevalent within the current administration.
First
there was the issue of the President appointing the head
of the FDA who says that women who suffer from PMS should
just read the bible, and other ridiculous claims. Now,
they are saying that condoms do not help in preventing
HIV/AIDS and other STDs? This is truly an insult to the
citizens of America and our intelligence.
Tell
people you think abstinence is better, but don't lie to
the public telling them that condoms don't help in preventing
HIV/AIDS and other STDs (not to mention pregnancy) when
we know they do!
Sex Helps Students Perform Better In School
German
sociologist Werner Habermehl says that regular sex can
help adult students pass exams and get better grades.
Habermehl (University of Hamburg) tested students before
and after sex. He found that regular sexual activity significantly
increased mental capability, but they found celibate students
found it harder to make the grade. As well as decreasing
the length of time needed to complete a course, students
with a healthy sex life also received better marks, said
Habermehl. The research was carried out together with
German research institute GEWIS.
Public Hot Tubs A Health Danger?
More
than fifty percent of public hot tub spas in the U.S.
may be unsafe, according to a new report from the CDC.
Researchers found 57% of the more than 5,000 public hot
tub inspections across the U.S. had one or more safety
violations.
Spas
located at campgrounds and hotels or motels were the biggest
offenders. Eleven percent of the violations were severe
enough to result in the immediate closure of the facility,
pending correction of the violation(s).
The
most common violation was poor water quality. Researchers
say the findings show that more rigorous safety inspections
and improved training of spa operators are needed to reduce
the threat to public health posed by public hot tubs.
The high temperature of the water in spas depletes the
disinfectant and makes them an ideal environment for bacteria,
such as Legionella, and other diseases.
During
1999-2000, a total of 13 outbreaks of infectious disease,
affecting 183 people, were attributed to public and private
spa use. Public Spas Frequently Violate Safety Standards.
The findings appear in the July 2 issue of the CDC's Morbidity
and Mortality Weekly Report.
Researchers
say spa users can also reduce their risk of illness by
following these steps:
~
Shower
or bathe with soap before entering the spa.
~
Observe
limits, if posted, on the maximum allowable number of
bathers.
~
Do
not allow children under age 5 to use hot tub spas.
~
If
you are pregnant, consult a doctor before using a spa,
especially in the
first trimester.
Couple Had Sex On Stage At Rock Festival
A
Norwegian couple face court action after they stripped
off and had sex on stage during a rock concert.
Tommy
Hol Ellingsen, 28, and his girlfriend Leona Johansson,
21, say they did it to help save the rain forest. Police
fined the couple £850 each but they are refusing to pay
and now face a full court case, reports Nettavisen.
Ellingsen
and Johansson are members of an organization called F***
for Forest which is dedicated to having sex in public
to save the environment. Their latest stunt came in the
middle of a concert by Kristopher Schau and his band Cumshots
at the Quart music festival in Norway. After the couple
walked on stage, Ellingsen asked the audience: "How far
are you willing to go to save the world?"
He
and Johansson then took off their clothes and began their
enthusiastic performance as the band carried on playing
around them. The couple previously raised about £10,000
by having sponsored sex in public but couldn't find an
organization prepared to take the money. However, the
conventional green movement is less than enamored with
their tactics. "I can not see that this helps the work
for the Rainforest," said Lars Løvold, head of the Rainforest
Foundation Norway."
Same-Sex Marriage Ban Fails In Senate
In
a major victory for gays and lesbians, the Republican-dominated
U.S. Senate voted 52 to 48 against amending the constitution
to ban same-sex marriage. The vote means the bill won't
proceed further in Congress. Republicans were hoping to
force a vote on the amendment, which Johns Kerry and Edwards
would have voted against, thereby adding fuel to the Bush
re-election effort.
"In
217 years, we've only amended that sacred document 17
times," said Senate Minority Leader Tom Daschle. "There
have been 11,000 separate attempts." Of course Senate
Majority boss Bill First disagrees.
Universal Studios to distribute Deep Throat Documentary
In early 2005
Universal
Pictures to distribute Inside Deep Throat, a graphic documentary
on the cultural effects of the 1972 porn classic starring
Linda Lovelace. Produced by Brian Grazer, who with his
partner Ron Howard is better known for producing comedies
like The Nutty Professor, Inside Deep Throat explores
how movies and ideas develop mass appeal. The film reveals
how anti-porn crusaders ended up enriching Mafia enforcers,
how social models shape ideas with mass appeal, and how
Deep Throat became a phenomenon. It's also a tribute to
the blowjob. Inside Deep Throat includes interviews with
Warren Beatty, Jack Nicholson, Carl Bernstein, Hugh Hefner,
Norman Mailer, Gore Vidal and John Waters.
France
Accuses U.S. Of HIV Drug 'Blackmail'
With
the cost of AIDS drugs so high, several developing countries
are manufacturing generic versions of AIDS drugs in order
to save money. In a blunt diplomatic confrontation at
the world AIDS conference, French President Jacques Chirac
accused the U.S. of pressuring poor countries to relinquish
their rights to make the generic drugs in exchange for
free-trade agreements. Chirac called the tactic "tantamount
to blackmail." Of course a U.S. official called the allegation
"nonsense." According to the World Health Organization,
only about 7% of the 6 million people in poor countries
with full-blown AIDS who need antiviral treatment are
getting it. In addition to those who already have the
disease, some 38 million people are infected with HIV
-- including 25 million in sub-Saharan Africa and 7.2
million in Asia.
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