Female
Ejaculation
A
Look Into Why Woman Do Not Realize They Can

Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
Holistic Wisdom Founder
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Did you know that ALL women are capable of it? It's
True! You
may have heard of female ejaculation, or you may not even
know what it is, as many people do not.
Female ejaculation is not only very real, it is something
that ALL women can achieve, and is a very basic female
sexual response that has remained a mystery until recently.
All
women can learn to ejaculate as much as two cups of fluid
and spray it across the length of a room! Oh sure, there
are a lot of myths out there regarding this exquisite
female sexual response.
Some
claim the whole premise of female ejaculation is untrue,
others claim only "special" women are capable and still
others try and tell you ridiculous techniques based on
myths such as suggesting that women should tighten their
Kegel (vaginal wall) muscles to make it happen.
These
types of statements are simply untrue. While women have
differences in their genitalia (just as men do) all women
are capable of squirting these lovely orgasmic juices
with the right techniques. It is no different than all
men being capable of ejaculating no matter the size or
shape of their penis. The only reason that most people
do not know about or understand how to achieve female
ejaculation is from the sheer lack of understanding women’s
sexuality.
When
I first heard about female ejaculation I was in my late
twenties. Being a sexually knowledgeable and adventurous
woman as well as a psychotherapist specializing in sexual
issues, I was shocked that I had never heard about it,
let alone done it.
I
personally discovered female ejaculation after having
a very open and enlightening discussion with a girlfriend,
whom told me that she did the "wildest thing" when she
had an orgasm (and sometimes just when she was sexually
aroused). I of course was very intrigued about this, and
ended up asking her a lot of questions about how it happened
for her. I then went to the Internet to find out more,
and was met with a great deal of inaccurate, conflicting
information about female ejaculation. What was a chick
to do? I wanted to know more about it, and most importantly
at the time, I wanted to know if I could do it too. I
began a mission of researching through medical journals,
interviews with physicians, sex therapists and my clients
who came to me for psychotherapy.
After
all my research, and developing a few theories of my own,
I decided that I simply had to try to see if I could do
it. I am happy to say that I did it during my first attempt
through masturbating. It was so simple! There were a few
things that I learned and did in preparation that made
it possible and there are a lot of things I learned along
the way which turned into a 150 page book and 90 minute
video! For the sake of keeping this article and not a
book, let me give you a quick overview of how female ejaculation
occurs so that you get a general idea of how all of this
works.
First
let’s get the myths out of the way and review what is
true and untrue about it-
The
Myths & Truth
About Female
Ejaculation
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THE
MYTHS-
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THE
TRUTH-
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1)
Female ejaculation does not exist.
2) Only rare women can achieve female
ejaculation.
3) Kegel exercise is the key to
achieving female ejaculation.
4) Only women with prominent G-Spots
can achieve female ejaculation.
5) Female ejaculation can only be
achieved through G-Spot orgasms.
6) Gynecologists are educated about
this issue and provide women
with
correct information.
7) Women can only excrete a drop or
two of female ejaculate, and
if it is
more (especially in the amounts
that
some women claim 1-2 cups) then
it
would be urine.
8) Female ejaculation is or becomes
urinary incontinence.
9) Women who have given birth are the
only women capable of female
ejaculation.
10) There is only one way to achieve
female ejaculation.
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1)
Female ejaculation comes from the
Skenes/Paraurethral glands (also
known as the G-Spot).
2) Women do not realize that they can
ejaculate because they are
missing the cues of when they can
do it.
3) There are specific techniques that can
be taught to a woman to teach her
how to do it and how to hold it
if she
does not wish to ejaculate.
4) Women can ejaculate without having a
G-Spot orgasm and for that matter
without having an orgasm at all!
5) Women can increase the amount of
fluid they ejaculate by following
specific steps.
6) Women can ejaculate multiple times
within a short period.
7) Female ejaculation is not urine, is
much like the consistency of water,
is
clear in color, and usually smells
like
nothing or has a slight sweet scent.
8) OBGYNs and other physicians often
misunderstand or even misdiagnose
female ejaculation. |

You
may be wondering "If all women are capable, then why is
it that many women have never done it?" This is a very
good question, and is easily explained. Let’s begin with
reviewing some basic information about the female anatomy
to better understand how this works.
Where
Does Female Ejaculation Come From?
Female
ejaculation is a fluid that is pushed out of the urethra
(pee-hole- just like urine) however, unlike urine it comes
from the Paraurethral/Skenes glands (located under and
making up the G-Spot) during sexual arousal.
How
Is Female Ejaculate Different Than Regular Cum?
There
are two types of female cum that can be excreted during
sexual arousal. They are clinically termed as urethral
and vaginal ejaculation fluids. The one most commonly
seen in our culture is vaginal ejaculate, which lubricates
the vaginal walls and oozes out during sexual arousal.
You probably have noticed it is milky and ranges in its
thickness and odor based on a woman’s diet, overall health
and the phase she is experiencing within her menstrual
cycle.
Urethral
ejaculate is what we are referring to when describing
female ejaculation and is less common. It is the watery
ejaculate that sprays or gushes out and is the one that
is generally less known about. Again, this is not because
only a few, special women are capable, but rather due
to lack of understanding of women's sexual health issues
in this culture.
What
Is In The Fluid?
Let
me get the biggest myth out of the way- IT IS NOT URINE.
Upon testing the liquid, scientists have found that it
contains levels of glucose (sugar), and an enzyme (prostatic
acid phosphatase), which is characteristic of a major
component in semen. It is similar to the prostate fluid
within male ejaculation but without the sperm. There are
also two other substances contained in the fluid, commonly
found in urine (urea and creatinine), which are found
in trace amounts. It is a unique substance, and unlike
the heavier and thicker fluid that you would typically
see when a chick is "wet" or has had an orgasm.
How
Much Ejaculate Comes Out?
Most
women can gush as much as 1.5 - 2 cups of the fluid when
ejaculating. However this can be affected by how hydrated
a woman is, how much she pushes while ejaculating, and
other factors.
Why
Don't Most Women Know About It Or Do It?
Female
ejaculation is not difficult; its techniques are just
not known about by many. Because women typically don't
know about the elusive reasons they are not doing it,
they are usually sabotaging their chances for gushing
female ejaculate when they are having an orgasm.
One
of the main reasons that women do not know they can do
it is because women will often feel like they need to
urinate when they are ready to expel the ejaculate and
because they think that urine will come out, which it
will not, they hold back. You see the G-Spot (Skenes Glands)
fill up with the female ejaculate fluid and this puts
pressure on the urethra (pee-tube) thus, making it feel
like she has to urinate when in actuality she could ejaculate
if she simply pushed instead of holding back.
There
are sure-fire methods, techniques and ways to achieve
it as well as overcome inhibitors, yet the issue of holding
back for fear of urinating is a big factor for many women.
The ejaculation techniques that I have begun training
thousands of women and their partners have been quite
effective and not only allow for amazing ejaculations
but will also intensify any type (women are capable of
eight) of orgasm to mind blowing levels.
Are
There Health Problems For Women Who Do It?
No,
in fact that is one of the reasons I am so passionate
about teaching women and their partners about female ejaculation
because unlike what many think, there is nothing abnormal
or unhealthy about it. Did you know that thousands of
women each year are told that a normal female sexual response
such as female ejaculation is a medical problem (incontinence,
which it is not) or something that they should be ashamed
of as they are thought to be maliciously urinating on
their partner(s)?
Because
women can gush as much as two cups of ejaculate, many
people think that it must be urine. Often women who do
not know what is happening (and there are many) are embarrassed,
confused and find it to be of great concern. It does not
help that most health practitioners are not informed about
it as many women are being told they require surgery and/or
psychotherapy for this normal female sexual response!
If
there is one thing that I can stress, it is that female
ejaculation is not only visually erotic, but it feels
incredible to do it. The kind of sexual release that a
woman feels from this powerful gush coming from her sweet
pussy is like no other.
If
you think it is urine you're mistaken!