Vary Up Your Routine
Spice up your sex life by doing it in the kitchen or somewhere new. The novelty of a new location can be an intense aphrodisiac. Unusual settings with different sensations, smells and sounds will make sex feel new and up the excitement.
technique that many of our customers have reported enjoying is using
the LELO Lyla to stimulate their partner
while in public. The vibrator is silent yet powerful and no one around
is any wiser as to what is going on. This has made many couples have
amazing foreplay in public which often leads to amazing sex as the
level of excitement is heightened.
Another sexual position that provides intensified stimulation is when a woman is on top of a male partner and instead of moving up and down, she does a figure eight swivel with her hips. It really makes for a fun and arousing new twist.
Yet another great position for her to try is to sit on top of him with her feet tucked in tight on either side of his behind and then lean back as though she were riding a bucking bronco.
Liberator Shapes are also great for this and here are pictures of more sexual positions that you can try using them as well as other types of pillows.
Most people know that adding either cooling or warming sensations can make things more interesting when it comes to physical sensations on the skin. In addition, using a blindfold, can make these sensations even more intense by allowing your lover to have more awareness of those special sensations.
To cool the skin you can use breath mints, which can make oral sex even better and more stimulating as they tend to contain peppermint oil; making them stimulating for your mouth and on your most sensitive areas. For a warming effect, cinnamon is a good flavor to use. Just be cautious in using things that are not designed for using them on the skin as both peppermint oil and cinnamon oil in strong doses can irritate and burn the skin. That is why we highly recommend special products that are designed for sexual play such as paraben free flavored lubricants and stimulating lubricants to achieve this effect.
Watching your lover stimulate themselves in front of you can evoke a sense of desire for them as well as visually stimulate your senses. You can enjoy taking turns or masturbate simultaneously as you enjoy watching your lover sexually pleasure themselves. Some couples find that having strict rules in place such as not allowing for touching of the other person during certain times actually increases the desire for one another. It can also be a learning experience as you watch how your lover enjoys being stimulated and even more fun and creative when you bring in sex toys to try out.
A poll conducted by The Mirror newspaper found that women are just as aroused by watching erotic films as men. So get cozy on the sofa or bed and put on a video to enjoy together whether it be rated R, NC17 or even XXX. Some couples not only enjoy the visual stimulation of films for entertainment but also those that provide sexual instruction such as Better Sex DVDs. Check out what is available here- Adult DVDs.
Don't forget that doing things like using a vibrator while being penetrated by fingers or a penis is a great way to add even more stimulation. Often times people do not understand how to integrate sex toys into couples sex so we have listed popular sensual products below and how they are used to spice things up for couples-