Squirting Female Ejaculation

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Urine or Female Ejaculate?

Lisa,

I just read this on your website. �Bottom line is that my husband and I feel very strongly that people should have resources to learn about their sexuality in an empowered manner. We have sacrificed a lot to do it, but we are passionate about what we do and feel strongly that we are doing the right thing.� Then I saw this at the bottom of your page:

Endurance ~ Enlightenment ~ Protection ~ Health ~ Peace ~ Integrity ~ Wisdom ~ Love ~ Freedom

And I thought that this is great. What integrity in what you are doing.

I have a question for you: After reading information about FE and G-spot stimulation, I thought about my wife�s consistent need to urinate after sex and thought that this urge might be just her suppression to ejaculate not know that this is what it was. She always urinates before we have sex and even if we have a short session she will still pee a lot after sex. We talked about it and I encouraged her to let it go as I massaged her G-spot and not worry if it was urine or not. She did not release. My question is: Is it possible that what my wife is expelling into the toilet after sex is actually a build up of repressed ejaculate? At 54 and after 28 years of marriage there is still so much to learn.

Thanks.

Dave

Hi Dave,

It is not likely that what your wife is expelling in the toilet is female ejaculation and it is most likely urine. However, there is always a chance that some of it may be ejaculate.

The reason that I say that it is unlikely is because female ejaculate is most commonly released at the point of orgasm, and it feels different than urinating so your wife would typically be able to tell. It also requires that a woman bear down and push and is more easily released when she is highly aroused.

The cue that a woman feels before she is ready to expel female ejaculate can often be confused with feeling like the need to urinate. This is because the Skenes glands fill up with ejaculate and put pressure on the urethra similar to the feeling of the bladder filling with urine. However, most women will tell you that it does not really feel like they are urinating when they expel the ejaculate, rather it feels like a sexual release.

However, it is tricky because while she most likely is urinating, after sex it may be possible she is expelling some of the ejaculate due to the way a woman's anatomy works. One way you can tell if it has been expelled is by feeling with your finger.

When women become sexually aroused, the ejaculate builds inside the G-spot (Skenes Glands) and the vaginal wall feels puffy and swollen. When a woman expels the ejaculate the vaginal wall is no longer puffy and is much more flaccid and relaxed. You should be able to simply place your finger inside her to feel it as it is a fairly marked difference.

Hopefully this will help you and your wife to determine what is being expelled. For further techniques and information, please see our book or video and read the accompanying eBook.

Squirting Female Ejaculation


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