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Strap-On Anal Sex Guide
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This article will cover the basics of how to wear a harness to provide strap-on anal sex with a position guide and basic tips. The most important things to remember is to use a lot of lubricant for any form of anal penetration and to start slowly with a small and shorter dildo and work up to thicker and longer ones. You want to ensure healthy anal penetration and avoid any damage to the anus and rectum. To increase pleasure you may choose a curved dildo as it will help to stimulate the prostate in a male and if your partner is open to vibration you can certainly opt to get one that vibrates.

To learn more just about strap-ons and harnesses see our Strap-On & Harness Guide

Lisa Lawless
By Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D.
Psychotherapist & Sexuality Expert

CEO & Founder of
Holistic Wisdom, Inc. & NAASAS

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General Anal Strap-On Tips

To ensure all goes smoothly, make sure you have your harness on correctly and snugly and that you are in a comfortable position and angle for easy anal penetration. If your harness is not fitting well or loose it can make penetration much more difficult so making sure your dildo presses firmly against your pubic bone is ideal. Also as some dildos are curved, if it moves around in the harness it may not be pressing against the best spots (prostate for men) so make sure that the curved tip is always facing straight up at a 12 o'clock position.

When you lubricate make sure to put some on the dildo as well as around the anal opening and reapply whenever you or your partner feels drag so as not to cause irritation. Some sex toy materials will need more lubricant than others so always communicate about comfort levels and keep lubricated. Go slowly and put the tip into the rectum while having your partner slowly breathe and relaxing as you gradually insert the dildo about half way in and the slide back (not pulling it all the way out) and then slowly go further with each slow thrust. Once your partner is comfortable, you can begin to move more vigorously but always begin slowly and check with your partner to make sure they are comfortable and not in any pain.

Anal Strap-On Positions

  • A good way to start with penetration may be with your receiving partner on their back so that you have face to face contact and are able to easily communicate not just with words but so that you both are able to read each other's body language. By having your partner with their legs up and open it also allows them to relax and fully open up the rectum.

  • From the position with your partner on their back you can also stimulate their genitals with your hands or have your partner masturbate at the same time. There are many sex toys that your partner can use for genital stimulation and for women it tends to be clitoral vibrators and for men it tends to be male vibrators or sleeves. With harnesses that have vibrators in them or that offer double penetration you too can also receive genital stimulation.

  • Another good position will be the doggie position where your partner puts pillows under their pelvis or lifts their rear-end to allow access from behind. You can have them rest their head downward or have them on all fours.

  • Bending over can be done from a standing position and using a chair or wall for support can help provide resistance for increased thrust sensations.

  • Another position can be done with the harness wearer on their back in either a laying or sitting position allowing your partner to climb on top of you while facing you and then sliding the dildo inside them so that they can control the penetration.

  • If you want to do a reverse cowboy position which is where your partner straddles you while you sit or lay down and faces the opposite direction of you then make sure to turn the dildo if it is curved to be upside down to allow the curve to properly stimulate your partner.

 

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