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What
All Women Should Do & How
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All
women should masturbate whether they are single or in a
relationship. Not just because it is healthy, and fun...
but there is truly no better way to embrace the sexual beauty
within yourself like masturbating. It allows you to better
know yourself, your body, your sexual desires, your sexual
preferences and provides you with the opportunity for a
rich and fertile imagination through your sexual fantasies.
There
is no right or wrong way to masturbate; as long as it feels
good and you aren’t going to harm yourself, it’s great.
Remember that pleasure is the goal and however you get there
is perfect.
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Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
HolisticWisdom.com Founder
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Preparation
The
first thing to do is to set up a comfortable environment for yourself.
If you’re going to use toys, get them and your lube out and near
the play area. Read an erotic
book or watch an erotic
movie. Think of a past sexual encounter that really gets
you hot, or fantasize about one you’d like to have one with. If
you female ejaculate
you may want to use the bath tub as a playground or simply get
a waterproof liner to protect your sheets.
Pleasure
Points
Clitoral
Stimulation
You can use your hands, fingers, knuckles, a shower head, running
water, vibrators, rubbing up against an object, anything that
will stimulate the clitoris. The clitoris is the one organ on
our bodies that is purely for sexual pleasure. Women are very
excited by stimulation of the gspot, but some women are unable
to orgasm unless they receive some sort of clitoral stimulation.
By
using your fingers or hand, you can rub, stroke or pinch the clitoris.
You can also rub the area around the clitoris and you may find
that one side is preferred over another.
The
shower massager head can be wonderful too. The shower head where
you can adjust the stream of water, a steady, gentle stream and
then a more powerful jet spray can be quite exciting.
I
love vibrators, my favorite being the Hitachi
Magic Wand (Powerful and fairly quiet) and the Water
Dancer (Small, waterproof and very quiet). I have several
different ones for different situations and different moods.
Holding
a vibrator up against your clit is the way to feel the maximum
amount of intense stimulation most quickly. I have found it so
easy with the vibrators I use
that I often have my first orgasm in the first 30 seconds of constant
stimulation!
Since
clits can be extremely sensitive you can also hold the vibrator
around the general area if the vibrations are too strong.
G-Spot
Stimulation
There
are many toys out there that are specifically made to locate and
stimulate the g-spot, like the Rabbit
Habit. By using some type of dildo,
you will also get that added feeling of fullness in your vagina,
which kind of completes the whole experience.
Although,
if you can locate your g-spot and can manipulate it and stimulate
it with your fingers to your pleasure, then all that too can be
great. Many women do find it easier to use some kind of toy. Sometimes
using pillows, a bed headboard or even a bath tub to push yourself
into a position with your legs open and provide easier access
to reach up inside you is a good way to go.
Vaginal
Stimulation
There’s
always just pure penetration for the feeling of penetration. There
are thousands of dildo’s
and vibrating dildos on
the market. I love the Dildo with Suction Cup because you can
easily use it in the shower. And if your fingers or hands feel
good too, than go for it!
Anal
Stimulation
The
anus is a very sensitive area of the body. When given a little
bit of tender loving care, it can bring you to a wonderful place.
You can explore the area with your fingers, just rubbing or tickling
the area, or small insert anal
toys. There are many to choose from. Just make sure that
whenever you insert a toy, finger, etc. into your anus that you
have plenty of lubrication and to wash your hands well if you
decide to go to your vagina to prevent a Urinary Tract Infection!
Breasts
Let’s
not forget about them. Touching, rubbing, fondling and even attaching
nipple clamps the can be very exciting. If you’re breasts are
large enough, try licking your nipples yourself. This can be extremely
pleasurable.
The
breasts are a wonderful erogenous zone that should not be ignored
during any type of sex play. There is no right way to do it. You
don’t even have to get naked.
Just
relax and explore your body and see what feels good. Anyway you
do it is your choice, just have fun. That’s the point of sex and
sexual play, having fun doing it.
For
more tips on masturbation as well as how to achieve female ejaculation
make sure to check out The
Art of Female Ejaculation on video
and as a book
/ eBook.
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