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True Female Ejaculation Story Submitted By Rowan of Melbourne-Australia
I wanted to give you at Holistic Wisdom and you, Dr. Lisa Lawless, some feedback on the "How To Female Ejaculate" article that I read on your site last month. After many months of talking with my partner about this topic's myths and fallacies and getting nowhere, we finally decided to try it. To my surprise, your article was not a car manual type of instructions, but a comprehensive guide to exploring sexuality and empowering women to embrace their sexuality and unlock the powers that this can bring.
The fact that a woman has written this led my partner to finally dispel many of the myths that had bound her sexuality (Like many, many individuals in this world we are conditioned to believe), and likewise, this topic. I could quite clearly evidence a change in her whole persona after her hour or so of reading. She reread the entire article a week or so later and still rereads individual sections!
Oh And The Orgasms:
After reading your "How To Female Ejaculate" article comprehensively, my partner decided that the best start was for her to try and ejaculate alone. She went upstairs and was gone most of the night, but appeared in the lounge for two hours or so later. When she entered the room, I could sense that her presence had changed somewhat. She also had a glow on her gorgeous face that extended down her chest, and she almost radiated. In a quiet, almost astonished voice, she exclaimed, "I did it."
We sat and talked about her experience for some time, and she explained that after playing with a bullet on her clit (and several orgasms), she proceeded to some G-Spot play. She started first with a dildo and then with a specific Gspot vibrator and finally both at once. She described that although she had a vaginal orgasm that felt fantastic, there was no ejaculation. She was very persistent, though, and kept stimulating her Gspot with her fingers, and after a few minutes, she felt an intense desire to pee, and then it happened. She exclaimed, "It just kept coming out-I didn't think it was going to stop. It felt so good. It feels as though your whole body is having an orgasm and the pleasure is unbelievable."
Later in the night, we both headed upstairs, and in the middle of the bed was a wet spot slightly larger than a basketball, that had completely soaked the sheet, comforter, right through to the mattress. You are right about wanting to use a waterproof throw for protecting the sheets! What was overwhelming was the sweet smell that lingered in the room! It certainly smelt great, really different.
A few days later, after having several days of hot, hot sex, my partner was lying next to me after one particular interlude when she started to masturbate by fingering herself quite rapidly, but at the same time only in a very shallow manner. I held her, and we talked as she lay there hot, sweaty, and quivering to several small vaginal orgasms. She started to shake quite uncontrollably.
The red hot glow that had been on her face started to extend down her chest, on to her breasts and now hard swollen nipples. She just managed to get out the words-"I am going to squirt" between very short gasping breaths. I looked down to see her thrusting fingers slow down for a second and then increase in intensity again-she just started to squirt out this amazing stream of sweet-smelling hot ejaculate.
She kept pumping her fingers in and out, and with each outward stroke, she would squirt again. It would have been (as per your article), at least two cups, lasted about 20 seconds (I think) and once again left the mattress soaked. It splashed off her hand with such force that it started spraying her shaking legs and beyond. It was totally amazing to witness this and see her face, her response, and the pure pleasure behind her eyes.
A few nights later, my partner came home from work, kissed me passionately, and went about her nightly activities. After about an hour or so later, she approached me and once again kissed me passionately and longingly. She looked into my eyes with pure lust in hers, and uttered, "I want you to make me come. Make me squirt." That was all I needed, and we spent the next 30 minutes tearing each other's clothes off and me giving her oral sex. She had several clitoral orgasms.
I started to massage her Gspot like she had several nights before. I was surprised how large her Gspot had become and how engorged it could be. She began to grind against my wet fingers and would push out every now and then so that her hard swollen Gspot was almost parallel to her vagina's entrance.
Although this felt very unusual, I rubbed this area slowly, and with tremendous pressure in a motion that was almost like running my to outstretched fingers from back to front along the entrance of her vagina, I would take my fingers out, lick them, and gently insert them back in and rub the area again. And then it happened-she squirted a single small stream of sweet-smelling and tasting ejaculate that sprayed up my forearm.
With some guidance, I continued my technique, increasing the intensity of my thrusting and varied the pressure. It happened again, slightly smaller this time and then again a short time later with the original intensity. I started to tongue her sweet pussy and clit, and she had another orgasm. I tongued her vagina, and to her surprise and delight, I could actually caress her Gspot with my tongue. It had swollen so much. With my two fingers, I gently made a motion that poked her Gspot and then, with the back of my outstretched fingers, lowered to touch the entrance to her vagina at the back. As if you are flipping the bird with your fingers together. I gradually increased the intensity of this motion to the point where she was shaking from the intensity of my motions, not only the pleasure that it was bringing. I would stop and lick my fingers and then stroke her Gspot slowly and build up the intensity again.
I looked up to see that look on her face. She just screamed, "Oh fuck, I am going to come," and then there was a waterfall. She sprayed my arm, my chest, all over the bed, and it did not stop for about 30 seconds. Not that I was counting, but I think that there must have been about 15 separate squirts, uncontrollably without any further stimulation. It did "keep coming," and now I thought that it wasn't going to stop. She just lay there with a content satisfied smile on her face, her whole body twitching to each squirt.
I continued to rub her gspot in with a "come here" motion feeling her now golf ball size Gspot, and with each outward motion, she squirted a little single stream on to me. I was able to feel her Gspot so well that I could make her squirt by the particular slow pressure and technique that I applied. That was amazing! She just kept having more and more orgasms and squirting on me.
After some time, she grabbed me in her arms and whispered, "Thank you for the biggest squirting orgasm I have ever had. It felt awesome." It certainly did feel awesome!
What I would like to say thank you for is unlocking the sexual being that is (and always was) my partner. After reading the "How To Female Ejaculate" article and having the experiences above, my partner is more aware of her sexuality. She re-counts sexy, hot dreams that recur for her (where before they did not), and talks about how she would like to fulfill the fantasies that bring her to orgasm, even in her sleep. She is more creative, imaginative, and attentive not only to her own needs but also mine.
I guess what happened was that after accepting her own desires and having those affirmed in an article like yours made her accept who she was (as being normal), and has since given the time to attend to her needs (and hence our sexuality).
It is incredible that in a fast, fast world, accepting one's inner soul leads to (making) time for discovery of one's true self. The truism of quality over quantity leads to a more fulfilling, caring, understanding, and, therefore, healthier existence and relationship.
SINCERELY THANK YOU, DR. LAWLESS!
My partner believes that all women should know about this and hence has told several of her close friends and colleagues about female ejaculation. another example of the fantastic sexual awakening that I owe you, Dr. Lisa Lawless, your work is so needed for couples like us. You are healing, educating, and empowering people all over the world.
P.S. We would really like you to publish this story. I know that it may sound unbelievable for all you guys out there, but it is very, very real. My partner and I can hardly believe that it is real- IT IS SOOOOOOO GOOD!