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With so many sex toys on the market many men still find themselves wondering what products they can use to bring themselves sexual gratification when they struggle with issues of Erectile Dysfunction (A.K.A. - Impotence), so that is why we review the best product options below.

There are already a limited amount of sex toys for men as many quality toys on the market are focused on female sexual arousal. However, when you throw in the dilemma of having to deal with a flaccid penis there is even less to choose from so we have put together this helpful article to give you sex toy suggestions for your pleasure.

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Lisa Lawless
By Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D.
Psychotherapist & Sexuality Expert

CEO & Founder of
Holistic Wisdom, Inc. & NAASAS

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There are many reasons a man can experience Erectile Dysfunction from health problems (such as high blood pressure, heart disease, elevated cholesterol levels, and diabetes) to mental health issues (such as depression and even stress). Therefore, before we begin discussing sex toy options for Erectile Dysfunction, we do want to stress that if you have not already seen your physician regarding this issue then you really need to in order to rule out any serious health problems that may need to be addressed.

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There are a variety of ways that a man can experience sexual pleasure using sex toys when dealing with Erectile Dysfunction-
  • You can use sex toys to achieve an erection and to hold it in order to have intercourse or so that you may masturbate or use a masturbation sleeve.

  • You can use sex toys to provide just enough sexual stimulation to achieve an orgasm with or without ejaculation (dry orgasm).

  • You can use sex toys to provide sexual stimulation to improve blood flow and as a way to relax without orgasm.

One of the main struggles a man experiences with Erectile Dysfunction is not being able to get enough blood flow into the penis or the ability to hold it. That is why penis pumps are often recommended as they help bring blood into the penis making it erect and at the very least helping improve circulation and enhancing sensitivity and pleasure.

Pumps can also create a pleasurable suction sensation that can be combined with vibration to not only assist with achieving an erection but providing an orgasm when used as a masturbation tool. We provide an in-depth article about penis pumps to help you choose the right one for you.

Penis Pumps

Penis Traction Options

There is one product that can be used as an alternative to pumps that uses what is referred to as penis traction. Penis traction works by steadily stretching the shaft of the penis causing the cells to divide and multiply (cytokinesis) which promotes new and permanent tissue growth throughout the penis in a matter of weeks to enlarge the penis as well as assist with erectile dysfunction as well as Peyronie's Disease. Learn more about how penis traction works.

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Pulse by Hot Octopuss
Best Masturbation Sleeve for
Men with Erectile Dysfunction (ED)

Pulse - Masturbation & Couples Toy

The best solo and couple's sex toy for men with Erectile Dysfunction is the Pulse by Hot Octopuss. The reason is because it acts both as a male masturbation sleeve without requiring an erection and it can also be used as a couple's sex toy. In addition, because it provides pulse vibration and can get a man to ejaculate without a full erection. The design is based on a medical device used in hospitals for conception purposes so it is quite effective. It also helps provide blood flow and stimulation to a man's penis which improves the health of the penis and may contribute to improvement of penile circulation and sexual performance.

Prostate Massagers

Using a prostate massager can help men achieve erections and orgasms even when they have ED. These products are great for solo and couples use and allow for a variety of creative stimulation.


Nexus Revo 2 Prostate Massager

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Men with Erectile Dysfunction (ED)

Perfect Stroker Masturbation Sleeve for Men by Zero Tolerance
Best Masturbation Sleeve Pump

Perfect Stroke - Masturbation Toy

The best masturbation sleeve / pump is the Perfect Stoke as it comes in three styles and is a suction pump based which provides unique and realistic sensations for the penis whether it is flaccid or erect. This makes it ideal for any man including those who struggle with ED (erectile dysfunction). While it is not designed to improve performance, it does provide a masturbation sleeve that can be used by men who have ED and have difficulty with other types of masturbation sleeves. For more information, there are customer reviews as well as a product video available on the product page.


Electrostimulation for Erectile Dysfunction (ED)

E-stim can be felt within the electrodes and can stimulate one to experience a hands-free orgasm with little effort. These machines are designed to increase erotic pleasure and can also be used to relax muscles and reduce stress. Furthermore, they may be helpful for medical inhibitors which prevent normal sexual functioning and may be useful in cases of infertility, erectile dysfunction (ED), female sexual dysfunction and even for those who have disabilities that prevent them from having sex such as paralysis.

For more information, please see our Electrostimulation Guide.

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Cock Rings & Penis Sleeves

The next sex toy that can be used is a cockring (A.K.A. Penis Ring, Love Ring, Vibrating Ring). They can be used alone or with penis pumps and other sex toys. The reason that these products are so popular when addressing Erectile Dysfunction is that they put pressure around the base of the penis pushing blood into the shaft and helping to hold an erection.

Many cockrings offer vibrators on them which will help to bring flood flow to the penis and also aid in maintaining an erection. They also offer clitoral stimulation when using them with a female partner and anal stimulation for both sexes if you get one that has an anal vibrator component on it.

Double cockrings may want to avoided if a man is having difficulty having an orgasm as they hold the testicles away from the body and are intended to prolong sex. They do this by keeping the testicles from pulling up, which is what occurs when and orgasm is reached. Therefore, it may be to a man's advantage to use a vibrating single cockring if he is dealing with Erectile Dysfunction issues.

Using a little lubricant on sex toys for men, especially with cockrings help to make sliding them down the base of the penis more comfortable. This is advised as they can pull at the sensitive skin of your penis if you do not which may cause discomfort. We recommend using a waterbased lubricant as they will not have any interactions with any sex toy materials and make sure to get one that is paraben free. See are helpful article to learn more about cockrings.

Masturbation Sleeves

You can also use prostate massagers to help in achieving ejaculation. Massaging the prostate is not only pleasurable for men, but has strong health benefits, including but not limited to the prevention of prostate cancer. Read our article on prostate massage to learn more about the health benefits as well as the sex toys that can be used to make it easy and fun to do with or without a partner.

If you are able to get an erection then using a masturbation sleeve for men may be an option for you and you can always add a small vibrator in the end of the sleeve or wear a vibrating cockring while using one in order to help you keep your erection and provide you with added stimulation and blood flow.

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There are only a few vibrators for men on the market right now that you can use without getting an erection and these are some examples-

Here are some other sex toys for Erectile Dysfunction that you may also want to consider-

Body Massagers
Make Your Own Sex Toy Kits
Finger Vibrators
Strap-on sex toys can be used with a lover and using a hollow dildo or double holed harness to allow for a dildo and the penis to provide and receive stimulation can be quite pleasing to both partners. See our Strap-On and Harness Guide for more information.
Men can use body massagers to stimulate their penis and bring them to orgasm. Finding ones that are powerful can be helpful. The Miracle Massager for Him, Hitachi Magic Wand and the Ideal Wand are the most powerful ones that are currently on the market today.
These Make a Dildo kits and Clone a Willy Kits are used by men to capture an exact replica of their penis when it is erect so that they can use it later on a lover when they are not able to achieve an erection.
You can use small finger vibrators to hold at the base of your penis, press against your perineum (taint) and the head of your penis for added stimulation during masturbation. They help increase blood flow and are easy to use and an inexpensive option.

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Hollow Dildos & Erectile Dysfunction

With limited options for Erectile Dysfunction when Viagra does not work or cannot be taken there are a few options that sex toys can offer before one would consider doing something as extreme as a penile implant.

Penis Pumps & Rings

If you are able to get a partial erection or simply cannot hold it, you may want to first consider using a penis pump to help engorge the penis with blood and then use a penis ring that slides down to the base of the shaft to hold the blood in and keep the erection firm until ejaculation occurs. There are some myths about what a penis pump and penis rings (cockrings) can do so we have put together articles that will help you to better understand how to use them, what they can offer and also how to use them safely without causing tissue damage.

Hollow Dildos & Two Hole Harnesses-

If you wish to explore using a strap-on dildo whether or not you can get erect and hold the erection, then there are two options. The first is to use a hollow dildo and the second is to use a harness that allows you to fit inside or outside of it while you penetrate using a dildo. There are some pros and cons to using each and it is important to review them so that you make sure that you do not get something that will not work for you or your partner.

Hollow Dildos-

Despite the large sex toy industry, there are very few companies that make hollow dildos on the market today and even fewer that make them so that they are nontoxic. We have all of the nontoxic hollow dildos that are available at this time on our site from which you may choose. However, there are a few things to note about hollow dildos that are currently available-

  • They are typically 1.75 - 2 inches in diameter on the outside. In fact, we have not found a model at this time that is smaller in width. The large diameter is done so that the penis will fit inside whether you are semi erect or flaccid. The problem that many couples find in using these larger dildos is that the female partner often finds them to be too big and may even find it painful.

  • Hollow dildos that are currently on the market are typically very hard on the inside and do not provide stimulation to the male user in any way.

Double Hole Harness Option-

One of the most popular suggestions that we offer to couples that are dealing with Erectile Dysfunction is to use a harness that has two holes in it. What this allows is for the couple to use any dildo they like so that they can choose size, color, texture and material while allowing for skin to skin contact (which hollow dildos are not designed to do).

The way that this works is that the male puts his penis in the bottom hole and then puts the dildo in the top. This allows him to penetrate his lover while still rubbing up against his lover providing him with skin to skin contact and stimulation. In addition, if he is erect, he can penetrate his lover without having to take off the harness.

Double Hole Harness

The Best Realistic Strap-On Dildos

When asked by our customers for the best strap-on dildo to use with a harness, we often refer them to the our silicone dildos. There are a few reasons that we recommend dildos such as these-

Some of the most durable dildos are silicone, metal and glass. Most customers when looking for a strap-on indicate that they want something that is realistic feeling. That pretty much rules out metal and glass because while they are great dildos and feel really good, they do not feel like a real penis and are not for someone who wants something realistic.

Most silicone dildos do not feel realistic so that is why many consumers buy dildos made from skin like materials such as Cyberskin. The problem with these skin types of materials is that they are very porous and they tear easily.

Adam O2: Silicone DildoO2 Revolution Dildo by Tantus
Silicone Dildos

Realistic feeling medical grade silicone dildos.

When a sex toy is porous it can hold onto bacteria easily and it is much more difficult to keep clean. To clean them you must use a spray on toy cleaner, let the cleaner get down into the pores and then rinse it off. You cannot use soap as the soap will stay in the pores and many create a soapy lather the next time you use it. It is important to keep the bacteria off a sex toy as it can cause a urinary tract infection (UTI) or even contribute to a yeast infection.

This is why we are often asked by our customers if we have silicone sex toys that feel like skin and are realistic to the touch. What we also like about them is that they have a firm inner core but a softer outer layer that is velvety smooth and slightly squishy like a real penis. They are rigid like an erect penis and will not flop around like Cyberskin style dildos. Finally, because they are made with medical grade silicone, they are nonporous and will not harbor bacteria, they are also very easy to clean.

Pure, 100% medical grade, silicone dildos tend to be more expensive than other dildos because the silicone material is more expensive for manufacturers to use, however, it is well worth it because they are also extremely durable and will literally last a lifetime unlike other dildos that may have to be replaced after a couple years if not sooner.

Penis Traction

There is one product that can be used as an alternative to pumps that uses what is referred to as penis traction. Penis traction works by steadily stretching the shaft of the penis causing the cells to divide and multiply (cytokinesis) which promotes new and permanent tissue growth throughout the penis in a matter of weeks to enlarge the penis as well as assist with erectile dysfunction as well as Peyronie's Disease. Learn more about how penis traction works.

MaleEdge Penis Enlarger



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