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Dear Dr. Lawless,

I have been a subscriber to your newsletter for six months now, so I've finally decided to send some feedback your way. First of all, I'm a 30 year old man who thoroughly enjoys your newsletters and finds them filled with very useful information. The reason I'm so interested in your web site, newsletters, etc. is I want to make sure when I make love to a woman, I do the best job possible.

When I'm with a woman, I put all my needs to the side and focus on hers, I always make sure the person I'm with has one or more orgasms long before I have mine. In the past, I've been able to make three women have ejaculating orgasms, but I want all whom I get the privilege to make love with to experience this wonderful phenomenon. This is why I'm doing so much research on this subject, and your web site and newsletters are the best source I've ever seen.

Lisa Lawless
By Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D.
Psychotherapist & Sexuality Expert

CEO & Founder of
Holistic Wisdom, Inc. & NAASAS

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My favorite part of the whole sexual experience is performing oral sex on women, and I'm superb at it, and I would love to see more articles on this subject in future issues of your newsletter. The sad thing is, even with an attitude like this, I've been single for three years. I'm attractive and in really good shape (I work out all the time), but I can't seem to meet any nice women around here. I don't know what to do, and I'm tired of being alone. What do you think I should do?

I will continue to read your newsletters, and make use of the information by becoming an even better lover than I already am, I just hope I meet somebody soon who I can share all of this knowledge with. Where are they? Why can't I find them? I hope you've enjoyed what I've had to say, and I would really like to hear back from you either by e-mail, or by publishing this in a future issue of the newsletter and responding to it in there.

Take care, and keep up the good work.




Hello Dave,

Wow, thank you for all the positive compliments. It is always such a high to hear that we make a positive difference to our web site visitors!

In regard to your quest... one of the things that many people have a hard time with is finding a suitable partner. If it were easy there would not be thousands of dating sites making millions! The best suggestion that I can make is to first make a list of things that you are looking for in a significant other. When I say a list I mean a very specific and comprehensive outline of what you think would compliment you, your growth as a person and lifestyle. These characteristics should include their sense of humor, physical health, habits, belief systems: religion, family values, and other important attributes. The more specific you can be the better.

The reason for creating this list is not to expect them to knock on your door when you are finished, but to give you clarity on what you really want in a partner. Often the secret to success in life is having a very specific vision of what you want, and then outlining steps to achieve your goals. This leads me to my next reason for the list... it will provide hints as to where to find them. If you are looking for someone who shares your love for hiking, then seek out hiking sports supply stores, hiking trails and other obvious related areas.

Also, don't rule out the idea that you may have already met them. My hubby John knew me in high school when we were 14 years old when we lived down the street from one another. He moved away after high school and because we were only acquaintances we did not keep in touch. One night out of curiosity he looked me up on Classmates.com and the rest is history.

No matter how you go about finding your partner, the most important tip I can give you is to appreciate your time now as there are many nice things about being alone. For one, it gives you time to really know who you are and provides the opportunity to further develop yourself without the distraction of a relationship.

With appreciation of your alone time, a comprehensive list providing clarity in what you are looking for in someone and a plan on where to find them based on that list is the best place to start! I wish you all the best and who knows... perhaps your future partner will be reading this in our newsletter and will try to contact you through us!


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