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Inspire Dilator Set
Dilator Set for Pain During Sex
By CalExotics

The Inspire Dilator set is a highly smooth phthalate free and hypoallergenic 5-piece pure silicone dilator set which features curved and tapered tips for easier insertion. It is designed to help women who want to stretch their vaginal walls and to help with painful sex, genital pain as well as for women who are recovering from radiation treatment, gynecological surgery, or male-to-female genital reconstruction surgery. They are designed to help revive vaginal strength with easy to use finger loops.

Graduated sizes include:

Dilator 1 3" x .5" 7.5 cm x 1.25 cm
Dilator 2 3.5" x .75" 9 cm x 2 cm
Dilator 3 4.25" x .75" 10.75 cm x 2 cm
Dilator 4 5" x 1" 12.75 cm x 2.5 cm
Dilator 5 5.5" x 1.25" 14 cm x 3.25 cm

Vaginal Dilator for Painful Sex

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Tips, Cleaning & Care

You may use sex toy cleaner or even soap and water as this product is nonporous. It comes in a tasteful box that is female friendly. As with any sex toy, we recommend only using waterbased lubricants to avoid any chemical reactions with the silicone texture.

Dilation exercises are simple and can be quite effective. Simply insert the smallest dilator after applying generous amount of waterbased lubricant and let the dilator stay inserted until you are completely comfortable with that size. Each size may take several days to a couple of weeks of using to become comfortable with them. As you become comfortable with a size move up using progressively larger sizes. It can be helpful to use a clitoral vibrator prior to inserting a dilator to prepare your body for penetration.

Dilation can increase elasticity of the vaginal opening and assist in overcoming any anxiety associated with painful penetration by relaxing the pelvic floor muscles. A woman should always be examined by a physician if she is experiencing genital pain to ensure that any health issues are being addressed. Dilators are often recommended by physicians and we encourage you to ask your doctor about using one for vaginal pain.

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Width size is provided in
diameter not circumference.
See our size guide for more information.

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Most Helpful Positive Review

I am back! I want to first thank the helpful staff at Holistic Wisdom as your knowledge on vaginal pain and helpful suggestions were outstanding and far better than anything I found in my search for answers and solutions. This dilator set is brilliant and so easy to use. The smallest dildo is like a pinkie finger and so easy to start with when you are having issues with closing up. I am glad that I got this set as it is easy to just keep the one I am using in the shower to insert it daily while I wash myself and to have it just be part of my morning routine to keep myself stretched and comfortable with penetration. It took me a while (about 5 weeks) before I was ready for the largest one but I am now able to insert that daily and keep myself nice and comfortable for sexual penetration with my husband. I love that they are 100% silicone as they are super easy to keep clean with just soap and water and they do not have pores that can get bacteria in them so that is always a nice feature. I also like that I can use it with organic coconut oil and that if I ever do start to close up again I can just go down a size and get myself back where I need to be. The feel is soft to the touch yet the shafts are firm and flexible and they have the tapered tips that curve and are easy to insert. At first it felt strange as I had not been able to put anything inside me for a while, but once I got used to them I found that I was very comfortable in using them so much so that I look forward to the pleasure they provide me. My big tip would be to just make sure you insert them properly so that the curved tip is facing up toward your clitoris much like a penis is naturally curved. If you put them in to the side or upside down it will not feel as comfortable.

Stephanie - La Habra, CA

Most Helpful Critical Review

I have been a mess for a while with vulvodynia (vulvar vestibulitis) and have not been able to have sex for years due to pain. I finally came across your extremely helpful article on painful sex and am happy to report things are much better for me. I followed all your recommendations and got this as the dilator that I chose to use and have been very happy with it. It is a high quality silicone and all 5 of the dildos are easy to hold onto, put in and take out as well as keep clean. The sizes are no intimidating and I love that you can use them in the bath or shower and allow for a relaxing time in doing my vaginal stretches. Bravo on helping women take care of themselves with regard to their sexual health and their health in general!

Diane - Mission, KS


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