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These terms are provided for reference only. Some are proper clinical terms while others are slang. Some of the terms below may be considered offensive or be acts or names that we as a company do not promote or encourage. We provide the definitions only as a means to educate our web site visitors about such terminology should they desire to be aware of it's meaning.

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Someone who is bisexual.

Slang term for the head of a penis.

A Spot
An erogenous zone located in the anus near the prostate.

A term for an anal intercourse position where the recipient lies on their back with their knees touching their shoulders.

A voluntary sexual encounter between a married man and someone other than his wife or between a married woman and someone other than her husband.
Read our article on Adultery

Afternoon Delight
Sex in the afternoon, also referred to as a "nooner."

A term for the sexual situation where a woman has a penis all or sex toy in all three orifices (mouth, vagina, anus).

Alaska Pipeline
The use of frozen feces as a sex tool.

Anabel Chong
Porn starlet (formerly a convent school student) who is known for having intercourse with 80 different men on the same day at the same movie set.

1) Referring to the anus, as in "anal sex."

2) Describes a person who is "anal retentive," meaning that they are up tight.

Kissing or penetrating the anus with the tongue.

Anal Beads
String of beads that goes up a partner's rear end and is pulled out at the point of orgasm to provide a pleasureful release.

Anal-Eze (Anal Ease) is a desensitizing cream. Desensitizers can contain numbing drugs that can include lidocaine, tetracaine, benzocaine and prilocaine. The FDA has said consumers should be cautious about using them without medical supervision. Leaving the creams on the skin for long periods of time or on large portions of their bodies can increase the risk, officials have said. Small children and people with heart or severe liver disease are also at higher risk.

Anal Plug
Also known as a butt plug which is a diamond shaped object that goes into the anus to give a feeling of fullness. It is usually made of plastic, silicone or glass. They come in different sizes and sometimes are vibrating. The vibrating versions are called a "triple ripple."

Not a clearly masculine or feminine person such as Boy George or Saturday Night Live's famous character- "Pat."

The opening to the rectum.

A food, drug or other substance that is consumed to increase sexual desire. Beware of many aphrodisiac claims as they may cause more harm and/or no results.

British term for "ass."

To perform fellatio after the penis has been pulled from one's own (or anothers) anus. Also called ATM and A2M.

To suck on one's own penis. Requires a long penis, a high level or flexibility or both.


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Bondage and Discipline
One partner binds the other, and performs sexual acts and/or instructs the bound partner on the sexual acts that are to be performed. If the bound partner does not perform adequately, the discipline may take various forms from spanking to more severe forms of discipline.

Bondage and Pleasure
This is different and Bondage and Discipline (aka B&D). One partner gently binds and blindfolds the other using soft materials, or sometimes just a verbal agreement to not touch or peek without permission. The partner doing the binding then proceeds to give the bound partner as much sexual pleasure as possible. This can include manual stroking, caressing, oral sex as well as the inclusion and/or introduction of sex toys. It is understood that the bound partner always has the right to say "Stop" if something is going beyond their boundaries, or is uncomfortable to them.

Back Scuttle
A slang term for anal intercourse.

A slang term for anal intercourse, where the person in penetrated while lying on their stomach.

A slang term for the performance of fellatio.

Bag It
To wear a rubber (condom).

To have intercourse with someone. (i.e.: I balled them.)

To sexually arouse and/or humiliate a man by abusing his testicles

A slang term for the testicles.

Balloon Knot
A slang term for the anus.

A slang term for the scrotum or testes.

A slang term for the penis.

British term for penis or sausage. Add an "s" and Bangers may also refer to the penis and testicles.

Bondage / Discipline.

Combination of the three elements of bondage and discipline-
B&D- Bondage / Discipline
D&S- Dominance & Submission
S&M- Sadomasochism

A man with large amounts of body hair. A term often used in gay porn.

A dating situation or marriage that is arranged for a gay person to appear to be heterosexual (straight).

Beard Burn
Skin made sensitive by a man rubbing his face on his lover's face, genitals, thighs, and other parts of the body. Can be avoided by the man shaving or covering the vulnerable skin with a washcloth (thighs, etc.)

Beat Off
When a male masturbates.

Beat Your Meat
When a male masturbates.

Vagina, pussy.

Photos of nude males whom have good bodies.

Ben Wa Balls
A pair of balls (often metallic) that are inserted into the vagina or anus for sexual pleasure while rocking back and forth squeezing the thighs together. These toys are often overplayed as they are not highly effective in pleasure producing effects.

A person who has sex with animals.

Biological Clock
The sense of urgency some women have regarding the time referred to in which a woman may feel pressured to conceive before she is no longer able to once hitting menopause.

Bi or Bisexual
A person who is attracted to both sexes.

Bladder Infection
When bacteria enters the urethra (pee hole) and gets into the bladder causing an infection. Antibiotics are the way to treat this.

Blended Orgasm
An intense orgasm that is brought on through stimulation of two different areas at the same time. (i.e.: nipples, clitoris, g-spot, prostate, penis, testicles, etc.)

Blow Job
Oral sex performed on a man also known as fellatio, giving head, head, and sucking cock.

Blue Balls
When a man has been sexually excited and is not able to have the relief of an orgasm. It can cause some pain however it does not cause physical damage.

Body Shots
When doing shooters with alcoholic drinks, you suck the salt or sugar from whatever part of your lover's body (after you lick them to help adhere it), and then drink the shot held by their breasts or other part of the body (vagina, etc.) and suck the a lime wedge that is typically held in their mouth.

To have sexual intercourse.

To have sexual intercourse.

Booth Troll
A man who cruises for sex in an adult video booth with another man.

Ass, butt, rear-end Can also refer to vagina - penis sexual intercourse.

A sexually submissive partner.

A homosexual (gay) term used to describe a heterosexual (straight) person.

Brown Session
Where deification (poop, scat, doody) becomes a part of sexual activity.

Brown Sugar
Refers to an attractive African American woman or having sex with one.

Being in great physical shape.

Anal sex with young men often in all male boarding schools or other all male institutions.

British term for ass, butt, rear-end

A masculine lesbian.

Butt Plug
Also known as a butt plug which is a diamond shaped object that goes into the anus to give a feeling of fullness. It is usually made of plastic, silicone or glass. They come in different sizes and sometimes are vibrating. The vibrating versions are called a "triple ripple."


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C&B Torture
BDSM term - abbreviation for cock & ball torture.

A slang term for the vagina.

1) A slang term for the anus or buttocks.
2) The last man in a gang bang.

A person who is sexually arousing.

Camel Toe
A slang term for the labia and mons area that is seen clearly through tight clothing.

Car Wash
When a man engages in anal sex with his partner and then receives oral sex immediately afterward.

Carnal Knowledge
To know someone sexually, usually referring to sexual intercourse.

Carpet Munching
Oral sex on a woman- cunniligus

Describes an array of activities whose central focus is the teasing and/or torture of a man's penis. CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture.

Cervical Cap
Birth control device. It is a little rubber "beanie" that is placed over the cervix to prevent male ejaculate (cum) from entering and impregnating the female egg.

The bottom part of the uterus found in the back of the vagina. The cervix can be as small as a cherry who has not had children vaginally, or it can be much larger in women who have.

The hymen or virginal type of person. Often referred to in "popping her cherry" when referring to breaking one's hymen or losing one's virginity.

Chicks With Dicks
Men that appear to be a woman. Can be a transvestite, partial transvestite (altered through surgery) or hermaphrodites (a person who possesses both a penis and a vagina: A.K.A.- She-he or a He-she.

Chlamydia is the number one bacterial sexually transmitted disease (STD) in the United States today. Four million new cases of chlamydia occur each year. It's particularly common among teens and young adults. Pelvic inflammatory disease (PID), which can be caused by chlamydia, is a leading cause of infertility when left untreated.

Symptoms- Chlamydia is known as the "silent epidemic" because three quarters of the women and half of the men with the disease have no symptoms. Possible symptoms include discharge from the penis or vagina and a burning sensation when urinating. Additional symptoms for women include lower abdominal pain or pain during intercourse and bleeding between menstrual periods. Men may experience burning and itching around the opening of the penis and/or pain and swelling in the testicles.

Chocolate Starfish
A slang term for the anus.

A slang term for a semi-erect penis.

Circle Jerk
A circle of men masturbating together. Can be done while they masturbate themselves or they rach over and masturbate the other next to them.

Removal of the foreskin around the penis. Most often done shortly after birth. However men can have adult circumcision performed.

Slang for gonorrhea is a common sexually transmitted disease (STD) which, if not treated early, can cause serious problems, especially for women. About 1 million American men and women contract gonorrhea each year.

Symptoms- It's possible to have gonorrhea without any symptoms. If symptoms do appear, they may include discharge from the penis or vagina, the need to urinate often, burning or pain when urinating, and in women, bleeding between monthly periods. About half of the women with gonorrhea have no symptoms.

Clit / Clitoris
The clitoris is a small body of spongy tissue that is highly sexually sensitive. The clitoris is protected by the prepuce,
or clitoral hood, a covering of tissue similar to the labia minora. During sexual excitement, the clitoris may extend and the
hood retract to make the clitoris more accessible. Some
clitori are very small; other women may have large clitori
that the hood does not completely cover.


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Daisy Chain
A sexual activity in which several people are stimulating each other's genitals simultaneously. The most basic would be a 69 position.

While performing oral sex on a man, to allow the penis to slide down past the back of the mouth and into the throat. This act is often considered difficult to do, because it has a tendency to trigger the gag reflex, and because once the throat is blocked, breathing is either difficult or impossible. "Deep Throat" is also the title of a well-known pornographic film.

To lose one's virginity.

1. A slang term for the penis. 2. A slang term for a rude male.

A slang term for female masturbation or touching the vagina.

Dirty Sanchez
When the male partner sticks his finger in the female's ass and then wipes it across her upper lip, drawing a mustache.

A slang term for sexual intercourse where the male penetrates the female from behind.

Donkey Punch
During doggy style sexual activity, the man punches his partner as hard as he can in the back of the skull right before he reaches climax. This causes her to convulse and tighten every cavity. The man then holds on for the best orgasm of his life.

Double Penetration
When a woman is penetrated by two men simultaneously; one in the vagina and one in the anus.


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A slang term for someone who has sex with multiple partners.

Eat Out
A slang term for the performance of vaginal oral sex.

Eiffel Tower
The shape formed during MMF sex, when the males, on either end of the female, high-five each other.

The process during orgasm where semen is emitted forcefully through the penis.

To draw a smile on a woman's face by twiddling both of her nipples simultaneously.


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Face Sitting
A slang term for the practice of a woman sitting on a man's face so he can perform oral sex on her.

A slang term for ejaculating on someone's face.

A slang term for a male homosexual.

Family Jewels
A slang term for the testicles.

The oral retrieval of semen from an anus.

Female Ejaculation
Female ejaculation is prostate like fluid that is pushed out of the urethra (pee tube) which originates not from the bladder but from the Paraurethral/Skenes glands (located under the g-spot area) during sexual arousal.

It is usually done during an orgasm, but not always. We review this in great detail in our female ejaculation movie and female ejaculation book.

Aussie slang for the penis.

To insert a piece of peeled ginger into the anus to make it sting.

The act of inserting a whole hand (or fist) into an orifice such as one's anus or vagina.

Flogging On
A term for surfing the Internet for left-handed web sites, i.e. porn sites so you can masturbate with the left hand while surfing with the right.

A slang term for unnecessarily time-consuming foreplay.


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A synonym for the Grafenberg Spot, which is located in the upper wall of the vagina and is reported to be particularly pleasurable when stimulated.

Do Only Some Women
Have G-spots?

The ability of the g-spot to get hard or stay soft depends on the level of sexual arousal. This actually explains why so many people think that some women have a g-spot, and others don't. If a woman is not aroused, the Paraurethral/Skenes glands are not filled with fluid and thus do not create a firm area on the vaginal wall. It may also be more of a prominent "bulge" in some women depending on how big their glands are, and how many they have. Think about it this way, like men's penises vary in shape, size, and angle, so do women's g-spots!

A slang term for many men having sex with one woman simultaneously, or in rapid succession.

The ability to detect homosexuals by casual observation.

Golden Shower
A sexual activity of peeing on your partner.


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Half & Half
Performing or receiving a blow job as well as a rim job.

Hand Job
A slang term for stimulating the genitals of a partner with your hands.

Hard On
A slang term for an erection of the penis.

Hard Swap
Allowing your partner to have sex with someone else while not in your presence.

Hard Up
A slang term for someone who desires sex, but has not been able to achieve it.

Hardwood Floors
A slang term indicating a woman having completely shaved pubic hair.

1. A slang term for oral sex performed on a male.
2. A slang term used to describe the head of the penis.

Honey Pot
A positive slang term used for female genitals

1. A slang term for vagina.
2. A slang term for marijuana
3. Brand name of alcoholic beverage

A slang term used for having a large penis.

The Hymen

~ It is a thin stretch of skin covering the vagina.
~ Some women never have a hymen at all.
~ The hymen can be stretched or torn by using     tampons or exercising. It can also tear     naturally in childhood or during puberty.
~ Hymens can have one hole or several.
~ A hymen is not an indicator of virginity at all.


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A slang term for semen or female cum.

The inability to achieve or maintain an erection.

In The Closet
A slang term often pertaining to one's sexuality or sexual preference. A state of privacy or secrecy.

Not able to experience an orgasm.

A person with both male and female sex organs.


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Jack Off
A slang term for male masturbation.

Jack Rabbit
1. Common name for an electronic device used primarily by women for sexual stimulation. It is a one piece device which includes a vibrating and rotating dildo head which is inserted into the vagina and a smaller vibrating stimulator that has two flaps (the ears) that flank the clitoris.

2. A term used to describe a man whose lovemaking style is characterized by rapid thrusting.

3. A term used to describe the activity of thrusting rapidly during intercourse.


Jail Bait
A slang term for a sexual partner who is under the legal age of consent.

Jerking Off
Male Masturbation

The act of sticking your finger in a girls ass and then putting that finger in her mouth.


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Sexual acts that consist of sexual contact between humans and animals (bestiality).

A paraphilia where a person derives sexual pleasure from exercise.

1. Slang term for vagina.
2. Derogatory term for a promiscuous woman.


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Labia Majora

The labia majora are the outer lips of the vulva, pads of fatty tissue that wrap around the vulva from the mons to the perineum. These labia are usually covered with pubic hair, and contain numerous sweat and oil glands.

Labia Minora

The labia minora are the inner lips of the vulva, thin stretches of tissue within the labia majora that fold and protect the vagina, urethra, and clitoris. The appearance of labia minora can vary widely, from tiny lips that hide between the labia majora to large lips that protrude. The most common metaphor for the labia minora is that of a flower. Both the inner and outer labia are quite sensitive to touch and pressure.

A slang term for having had sexual intercourse.

Lap Dance
A form of adult entertainment where a woman dances provocatively in the "lap" of a customer, often while wearing little or no clothing.

Typically refers to homosexual men who engage in BDSM. They are called leathermen because of their tendency to wear leather apparel and accessories during sexual play.

A slang term for vagina.


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The medical condition of having a large penis.

A male prostitute.

Marital Rape
Forced or unwanted intercourse within marriage.

Masturbation Sleeve
A soft sleeve - usually made of silicone, latex, or rubber - into which the penis is inserted during masturbation or sexual play with a partner.

Of or pertaining to a straight, urban male who is eager to embrace and even show off his feminine side.

An acronym for Mother I'd Like to Fuck

Another name for a vagina.

Mons Veneris
The mons veneris, Latin for "hill of Venus" (Roman Goddess of love) is the pad of fatty tissue that covers the pubic bone below the abdomen but above the labia.


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A paraphilia where a person derives sexual pleasure from sex with dead people.

A slang term for sexual activity.

A slang term for a sexual encounter during the lunch hour.

1. A slang term for breasts, usually small breasts.
2. The small bumps on a vibrator that provide extra vaginal or clitoral stimulation.

A slang term for semen or ejaculation.

The origins of the term are Greek Nymphe (bride) and mania (madness). Earliest usage recorded was in 1789, as the French nymphomanie , used to describe "a female disease characterized by morbid and uncontrollable sexual desire."

A term for a woman who desires frequent sex or sex with many different partners.


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One Night Stand
A slang term for a one time sexual encounter.

One-Eyed Trouser Snake
A slang term for the penis.


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P Spot
A slang term for the male erogenous zone located in the rectum.

A person who is attracted to all genders and all forms of sex.

Peach Fuzz
A slang term for pubic hair, usually referring to an adolescent male or female.

Pearl Necklace
A slang term for ejaculating on a woman's chest.

A slang term for the penis.

To have anal sex with a male by using a dildo.

The male reproductive organ.

A slang term for a person that deviates from the sexual norm.

A slang term for vagina.

A slang term for sexual intercourse.


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A slang term for the discharge of air from the vagina, sounding like flatulence (a fart).

A slang term for a feminine male homosexual.

Once a slang term for homosexual, queer is now an accepted term for homosexuality in the homosexual community.

A slang term for a brief and quick sexual encounter.

A slang term for pussy.

The person in the middle of three man butt sex.


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Rabbit Pearl

This is a long time best selling vibrating, rotating dildo and has been seen on the popular HBO show Sex and the City!

Rabbit Habbit
A cordless version of the Rabbit Pearl listed above.

Rain Coat
A slang term for a condom.

Forced sexual intercourse without consent.

Reach Around
To manually stimulate your partner's genitals while anally penetrating them.

Red Dragon
The red mark that occurs when a man slaps his partner's face with his penis.

Red Wings
A slang for someone who has performed oral sex on a woman while she is on her period.

Rim Job
A slang term for licking the anus with the tongue.

A slang term for the penis.

A slang term for someone who is sexually inexperienced.

An Australian slang term for sexual intercourse.

When a woman is bent over, performing oral on one man, while being penetrated from behind by another man.


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Abbreviation for "sadism and masochism". Generally used to describe an activity or group of activities that involve inflicting or receiving pain as a form of gratification.

Safewords are used to help ensure the consensuality and safety of BDSM activities. (see "BDSM", "scene") A safeword is essentially a codeword that participants use when they feel uncomfortable or want to stop the activity. In most BDSM scenes, normal protestations are considered to simply be part of the fun, thus making for the necessity of something extra to help communicate when someone is actually protesting.

A frothy mixture of lube and fecal matter that is sometimes the by-product of anal sex.

A slang term for feces.

An actual BDSM encounter/event. "Scene" carries implications of there having been at least a minor amount of planning beforehand, as well an implication of there being a clearly defined start and finish to the activities.

A slang term for achieving sexual activity with a desired partner.

A slang term for sexual intercourse.

A slang term for the penis.

The act of slipping one's middle and index finger in a woman's vagina, while simultaneously slipping the pinky into her anus in a thrusting motion. The pinky is supposedly the "shocking" part.

The act of sucking or licking a partners feet or toes for eithers partners sexual gratification.


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A sexual practice that is considered to be contrary to common decency or "off limits" in a particular society.

The male sexual organ better known as the penis.

The act of lowering one's scrotum into another's mouth.

Where a nipple is placed in each ear during m/f face to face intercourse so you are able to hear yourself cum.

Three-Eyed Turtle
Where a woman orgasms as she is having cunningulus at the same time as vaginal and anal intercourse

Tit Tunnel
Properly referred to as 'Spanish style'; Virtually self explanatory. Where the woman's breasts are pushed together with the penis between and slid back and forth. Lubrication is frequently provided from the womans lips if penis is of sufficent length and female is able to drop her head sufficently.

A slang term for a woman who performs oral sex on the first date.

Tossed Salad
The eating out of anothers ass.

Having sexual intercourse during a woman's period. Also "car wreck". Read more... (44 bytes more) comments?

Term for a person who engages in simultaneous sex with both a male and female.


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Up on Blocks
A slang term for the time when a woman is menstrating (i.e. out of action, like a car in a garage.)

The opening to the urethra is just below the clitoris. It is where urine comes out. It is below the clitoris, and is small and hidden away under smaller folds of skin (called the inner lips or labia minora). It connects to the bladder and eventually to the kidneys (where urine is produced.) Because the urethra is so close to the anus, women should always wipe themselves from front to back to avoid infecting the vagina and urethra with bacteria.


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An electronic device designed to stimulate the sexual organs by vibrating. Usually cylindrical (or shaped to resemble a penis) and is pressed against the clitoris or inserted into the vagina or anus.

A person that has never engaged in sexual intercourse

The external female genitals are collectively referred to as the vulva.


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To masturbate. Used in England.

Water Dancer
Waterproof! This is a powerful vibrator that can be used in the shower, bathtub or Jacuzzi. Made by Vibratex™ this vibrator is one of the finest in mini's in the world.

Water Sports
Sexual play which involves urine or enemas.

1) Term used when a females gental area is lubed or stimulated. Females secrete a "wet" fluid. You may hear some thing like, "I am so wet". This usually means she wants sexual pleasure.

2) Sexual Brand Name Lubricant

Whisker Biscuit
Another name for the vagina.

A slang term for an erect penis.


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XXX or Triple X
A slang term for X-rated.


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A person who is sexually excited by their partner's jealousy.

Erotic attraction to or sexual contact with animals.


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