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Creative Ideas in and Out of the Bedroom

We have provided some quick sex tips below for creative ideas that you can use in the bedroom. For more in depth sexual techniques you can review our sexual articles.

New Underwear

Treat yourself to some new underwear if you have stains, holes or they are ill fitting. How we take care of ourselves speaks to how we will take care of our lover as well. Don't forget to invest in some comfortable as well as sensual underwear to remind you all day of the sexy lover you have underneath your clothes!

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Penis Feel Thicker

To make your penis feel thicker, you don't have to resort to dangerous penis enlargement pills, techniques or surgery. Try a penis sleeve for extending the size and for added pleasure. See our penis enlargement articles.

Improve Orgasms Through Breathing

Take deep breaths while you're masturbating or sexually active and it will allow for a greater release during orgasm.

Orgasms Come Too Quick

For women who feel that their orgasms end too quickly, you may not be 'riding the wave.' A woman's orgasm comes in a wave of pleasure. If you discontinue stimulation to quickly, you may only feel the first part of the wave. If the stimulation is too intense to continue, simply use your fingers or move your vibrator to a less intense position to continue through the entire orgasm.

Also, take a deep breath just as you feel the orgasm to stay relaxed. Often women tense up and stay tense through the climax. Try taking deep, cleansing breathes before, during and after. It will help you to ride the climax through to the end.

Vary Penis Thrusting During Sex

Men, don't mindlessly pump away like a jackhammer from start to finish... mix it up a bit; go fast at times, then slowly. Go all the way in at times, and other times let only the tip of your head in. Tease and satisfy her longing for you.

Lose Your Senses

When we hear of loss of vision, we often think of someone who has a better sense of smell, taste, touch and hearing because they are no longer depending on that part of the brain to interpret things. Thus, the other sense become increased. Use a blindfold to increase the other senses and make sexual play more interesting.

Farting In Bed

When you make an embarrassing mistake during sex, like farting or even suggesting something that your partner gets offended by such as blurting out dirty talk that your partner dislikes or even another person's name... react positively and with a sense of humor, that way your partner will be laughing with you.

Make Semen Taste Sweeter

To make ejaculate sweeter enjoy such things as: Plums, Spearmint, Oranges, Grapefruit, Lemons, Limes, Green tea, Beer, Pineapple, Mangoes, Cilantro, Chamomile tea.

Reduce The Following To Avoid Bitter Semen-

Brussels Sprouts, Coffee, Chocolate, Cigarettes, Asparagus, Chemically processed liquor, Onions, Garlic, Dairy Products, Red meat.

See our Ejaculate Enhancement article for more information.

Finger Her Like A Bowling Ball

Try inserting your first two fingers into her vagina, then arch your thumb back 'hitchhiker' style and thrust in until your thumb rests against her clitoris. Now wriggle, twist, thrust, and vibrate your hand to drive her wild. You can also go for double penetration with one of your fingers in her anus.

Considering Swinging?

If you are considering sex with more than one person or exploring a swinger lifestyle, you may want to learn more about it through articles, books, interviews with those who have done it and even DVDs. Better to be well informed about what you are getting yourself into than jump in and regret it. Read more about this in our Swinger article.

Fellatio Gagging

Some people have a hard time with controlling their gag reflex when giving head. It happens to even the skilled fellatio giver from time to time, so there is nothing to be embarrassed about. Some people use Chloraseptic Throat Spray or children's teething gel to numb the back of their throat and allow for easier deep throating and swallowing. Although psychologically letting go of the fear of gagging is really the best approach. Think about how sword swallowers get that blade down their throat... it certainly isn't by tensing their throat muscles. Read more in our Fellatio article.

Share Fantasies & Dreams

Share naughty fantasies and dreams. Ask your partner to say out loud a sentence of their sexual fantasy and then you say the next sentence. Move the story on one sentence at a time - and as you get to the physical bits, act out what you're describing.

Best Sex Toy For Female Ejaculation

Female ejaculation is easier when you have both clitoral and gspot stimulation simultaneously. That is why our dual action vibrators are so popular. We also put together gifts sets specifically for helping women achieve female ejaculation and for a sex toy that helps make female ejaculation possible see our- Hitachi Magic Wand With Gspotter Attachment

Flavored Lube Review

Don't just blindly buy flavored lubricants off the Internet because of the label. Some lubricants taste synthetic and even have a bad aftertaste. Make sure to get real feedback from people who have tried them to ensure you are getting what you really desire-

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Massage Candles

To give a really sensual and hot massage, use scented soy oil candles that allow you to drip the warmed oils on your lover's skin and massage in. This eliminates that cold feeling from regular oils and offers candle light during the massage!

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Anal Play

Make anal play more pleasurable with a beaded sex toy designed to stimulate anal nerve endings! Make sure to use lubricant and start slowly. For first time users of anal sex toys, it is important to remember that using any kind of flexible jelly type toys may be hard to insert as you may be tensing and inadvertently keeping your sphincter muscle tight and closed, not allowing the toy to enter.

Also see our helpful article on anal sex play.

Learn Strip Tease

If you are looking for a new level of arousal, have fun stripping for one another by doing strip teases! Also makes a fun exercise routine for yourself, your partner or even with a friend!

Cock Rings For Clitoral & Anal Stimulation

With the advancement of cock rings you can give her clitoral and anal stimulation as you thrust your penis or dildo inside her leaving them begging for more. Learn more about cockrings through our helpful article.

Quick Clean Up

Before or after sexual activity a great quick way to clean up is by using baby wipes, in fact, a strippers technique, many people use them instead of toilet paper for clean up after any bowel movement.

Cool It

Most people know that mints can make oral sex even better and Altoids- The Curiously Strong Mints are your best choice. They contain peppermint oil, which has a higher content of menthol than spearmint, making them zingier in your mouth and on your private parts.

Blow Job Tip

This tip is for when your mouth is tired and you want to take a break without stopping-

Lubricate the penis with a flavored lubricant. Hold his penis firmly by the base of the penis with your thumb and pointer finger in a tight circle to force the blood to the head. Take your other hand and use your thumb and pointer finger to lightly slide up and down in a twisting motion. Then lightly run the tip of your tongue over the opening of his penis. Look at him lustfully as you lick the tasty lubricant off him. You will have him at your mercy.

Doggy Territory Stance

When your partner assumes the doggy position, simply lift their leg and either keep it against your hip or hold it up by the thigh. This way, you can penetrate them even deeper and your balls will gently tap against their genitals. You can also do a reach around if your balance allows it.

Use Sex Toys During Sex

Don't forget that doing things like using your vibrator while being penetrated by fingers or a penis is a great way to have one orgasm after another! Also, use sex toys during oral sex as well. Nothing like a vibrator on you while you give oral sex, or double their pleasure with an anal toy while you give them oral sex. The possibilities are limitless.

Sex With Vibes

Don't just go solo with your vibrator. Only 25% of women climax through penetrative sex alone, so use a vibrator while being penetrated for mind blowing orgasms!

Sexual Muscle Workout

Contractions of the PC (pubococcygeus) muscle are associated with increased sexual pleasure for both men. PC muscle contractions ("Kegels") are easy to learn and can assist in providing better control for men to extend their orgasm and for women to intensify orgasms.

Play With Him Soft

When you go down on a man begin while he is still soft and without an erection. It really turns men on to think that you can make him hard with a few flicks and twists of your tongue and it feels great for him to get hard in your mouth.

Use Lube For Oral Sex

Lubricant is a must with condoms, gloves, and dams, and toys but tasty lubes can make oral sex even tastier for the giver and many claim the extra lube makes it even more sensitive and arousing!

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Don't Use Nonoxynol 9

Nonoxynol 9 is a common ingredient in spermicides and lubricant, previously thought to help reduce the risk of HIV infection. Not only have recent studies proven this untrue, they've also discovered that Nonoxynol 9 actually leads to infections, which can help transmit the disease.

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