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Sex In Water
Challenges & Suggestions

Water is a highly sensual playground. From tubs to Jacuzzis, pools and more, there is a great deal of sexual pleasure that can be achieved in water. It is fantastic for foreplay and some sexual exploration as it can be relaxing and soothing.

However, sexual intercourse that occurs when your genitals are underwater is often reported to be an overrated experience by lovers. While, it is often portrayed as a very sexy fantasy, the reality is often awkward. So why would this be true? Let's explore some common reasons below-

Lisa Lawless
By Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D.
Psychotherapist & Sexuality Expert

CEO & Founder of
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Water Strips Away Natural Lubricants

Because water washes away a woman's natural lubrication with any insertion into and withdrawal from her vagina (fingers, penis, toy, etc.). The same applies to the anus and rectum. Using a finger or waterproof vibrator to stimulate her clitoris can help keep her juices flowing and help remedy this problem.

Problems With Lubricants

If you have sex in a shower and choose to use a lubricant, the water based versions are going to easily wash away and the oil based ones can damage condoms and make maneuvering rather slippery. Silicone may work best, but oils and silicone can clog Jacuzzi jets and make for a undesirable mess. Also, many sex toys cannot be used with oil or silicone lubricants as they can break down the sex toy's materials. To view some of the lubricant options you may want to consider, visit our lubricants section as we provide more education about them there.

Water & Condoms

If a man maintains his erection the whole time he is wearing a condom, it's unlikely that water would go inside of it. However, if he happens to lax for a moment or two (which is quite common for men), then there is a chance that water could enter it and make things risky by exposing one another to sexual fluids. If you need to practice safe sex, it may be best to avoid the act of penetration in the water and wait until you are out. You can, however, spend some quality time in the water getting warmed up for the next stage.

Other Sexual Play?

The downsides to sexual intercourse in water is clear, but certainly, it can be of some fun just to try it or do it just to stay creative. Just remember that it may not be the ultimate sexual experience, as it often turns into a better stage for foreplay than the finale.

Other forms of sexual play in water, which include rubbing, kissing, fondling, nipple, clitoral and anus stimulation can be wonderful. Of course men can enjoy a very nice hand job and women can enjoy clitoral stimulation. Even fellatio or cunnilingus (however, that has some technical problems that may occur as well... such as breathing!) Having your partner lay on top of the water for this may be best for long term oral stimulation.

The bottom line is that water can be a wonderful and sensual playground; just stay creative and know the realities ahead of time to keep things erotic rather than awkward.


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